why everyone wants sanjh as arjun s side kick not an independent woman

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I stopped posting becoz sick of fan wars.
Some are calling maya fans were unfair to sanjh
And sanjh fans were hell bound to prove sanj is clinginess normal not obessive.

In between before throwing chappals at me , I watch behad for content . not for a particular actor. Even though I like them very much.

Let me start first.
Why sanj Arjun fans believe they should fall in love.
1. They were best friend s. So it is obvious.
2. Maya is very harmful to Arjun and he needs a savior.
3. Arjun was a fool and yet to recognize his love for sanj.

Not let me clear. Does a guy like Arjun deserve a girl like sanj.

As far I observed Arjun from beginning
He is shown a care free happy to lucky guy.
Yet ambitious.
Arjun want money fame and luxury in life.
He loves attention and pampering.
Like when sanhj wakes up him in morning or maya gifts him an expensive watch.
Maya may manipulative but Arjun is not blind nor he is studying 5 grade.
He knew what is the benefits of being with Maya.
Call it mayajal he was drawn to maya.
That to willingly.
Knowingly or unknowing he want to be part of that.
He flighted for sanj s honor just like a best friend and comforted maya just like friend in need.
OK I get the point he is good at heart.
But he knows well he had crossed his lines with maya beyond boss and employee.
But he still consider his realtion with sanj in friend zone.
He knew sanjh will forgive him always. Taking her granted as usual.
If Arjun loves sanjh he will never bring maya to their SPL place. He wanted sanjh keep in dark so that he and maya enjoy. He knows sanjh will hurt. Still he go on keeping ayan as guard. If he is open guy why he keeps his relationship with maya away from sanjh.
Well I don't think sanjh deserve such guy

Coming to sanjh
In beginning she was a bubbly girl who is in deneil that she loves Arjun.
Slowly people around her pushed and made her believe she is for Arjun and Arjun is for her.
Like her younger bro who said understand her value to Arjun
Or her mother who want her best friend s son as her son in law
Like vandana also want her best friend s daughter as her daughter in law.
Family constantly reminding her she loves arjun except her dad who sees clearly Arjun lacks love feelings. For sanjh.
Rest of family ignored that fact.
I won't call sanj possesdive but over protective or Arjun s self acclaimed saviour.
She won't share that.
She was upset maya saved ayan not her.
She lost her chance to become hero in eyes of Arjun.
Yesterday she was broken by Arjun.
Let her shatter.
Let her cry.
Let loose Arjun to maya.
Only then sanjh will emerge stronger
She need to see beyond Arjun
Concentrate on her career to become best lawyer.
Arjun is not her need.
People say sanjh will sacrifice. Then let her be.
She need to be away from Arjun .
Let Arjun go after her. Not vice versa
I want sanjh to be an independent woman whose life don't end with rejection of a man

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tanvismile thumbnail
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Scared to put my opinion

Since I don't think you wil respect my opinion because it's different
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Exactly, that's what I wanted to see in Saanjh. Her heartbreak will teach her to be a strong girl. I like her but her too much Arjun Jaap is irritating at times. She need to have her own life and ambition. Then only will Arjun will look up to her like he did with Maya. This story is not only the journey of Maya , but also that of Arjun and Saanjh at individual level.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Every arya fan wants sanjh to concentrate on her career and leave Arjun alone 🤣
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Heyy hiii I am a saanjh lover...I love this girl very much..and I swear I don't want saanjh and arjun as end game...at the same time I don't see or accept that saanjh should get out of arjuns life...why should she leave her best friend just because the love in her is dead...and just by letting go of arjun she will become strong and that's what going to happen.Maya will kick her out..."let her cry"...why should she because she was friends with arjun and was everything to arjun???I can't get this fact alone..why someone so good should get hurt...why to become strong one should always get hurt..But that's the bitter universal trust "To raise one should fall"..that can be in your education/carrier..But in love and such deep close friendship once you fall you may not raise again..she will be devastated forever...you are thinking for her good..I am thinking for her happiness and betterment because I love saanjh
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sanjana212

Every arya fan wants sanjh to concentrate on her career and leave Arjun alone 🤣

though you have a rofl icon that's the truth of this forum ...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hi
I am new to this forum but watch Beyhad regularly.

Personally, I don't like when a girl (or even a boy) has to toil too hard to get their love. Especially when the other person doesn't even notice their value as a lover.

Arjun has never seen Saanjh in that light. He is a man of his dreams. He is in love with his ambitions and somewhat attracted to Maya, because she has the intelligence and attitude that challenges Arjun and can help him to achieve his dreams.

Therefore, I feel that Saanjh should try to know whether Arjun really wants her. Or figure out what he wants, and will she be able to walk with him in his path?

To Saanjh, it appears that Maya is taking away her Arjun ( and to an extent yes), but more than Maya pulling her Arjun, it is Saanjh herself who is sending away Arjun from her.

Just as Vandana said once... "the speed at which Arjun is going, either he needs to slow down or Saanjh needs to speed up, for the two to travel together"

Saanjh needs to take her focus off Maya and work on what Arjun would like to see in his dream woman. Saanjh can try and become that woman or leave Arjun and move on.

The Duffer that Dusky wants is no longer the same guy he once used to be.

Let Saanjh work on her own identity now, without being in the shadow of Arjun's love / friendship.

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