most of our problems in life are all man made.. this is a proven fact in life... it is the same in India, or France, or US, or Timbuktu.. we are constantly in the pursuit of happiness.. though it is not necessary that we be happy all the time.. GOD made us humans so that we can experience the full range of emotions that HE has given. GOD has given us intellect but we misuse them.. another proven fact.. from icons of science, to artists, to saints, to common people... it all boils down to our ability to chose, also called Volition that drives this kind of insanity. It makes people corrupt, lies, deceit, anger, jealousy, cheating, murder, greed, selfishness, ... we can classify them as we want, the way we want and also even simplify them as we want, the way we want, into minor and major but in the holy GOD's eyes, they are all the same.. A simple lie is akin to murder!
What we are seeing is a manifestation of this trait even between the closest of relationships, a husband and a wife. In my belief it is said that "he who sins against his own body is an immoral man" and " man and woman come together and the two shall be one body''. in the purest form of what we see, i have no doubt whatsoever that one man is immoral as he has sinned against his own body, his wife. The poor thing has real feelings and emotions and one should not play with it. Time and again, it is trifled with, and she is even trampled upon.
the good thing is life does not need to stop. There is life for a murderer, for a cheat, for a lier, for a covetousness person, for an adulterer, for an ill tempered man.. there is life beyond sin... it starts with confession... honest, earnest confession.. followed by a determination to set things right, even against all odds. We call it redemption. i am one who is eagerly waiting for such a redemption... I hope it happens soon.
Till then we all feel the pain.. or will feel the pain..
a much better episode today.