Baani aur Baba - Ab karega Hippo khulasa

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I have watched the episode. The fairness in me is making me do this. I have no love for Baba and I hate anything said about anyone's mother so DO NOT THINK THAT I AM SUPPORTING BABA. He is a crackpot and it is established.

However why did he say such an evil thing? How can be one man so low? Pathetic? I was wondering that last night. How can he do this..is he that bad? I was restless

Well the reason is that Baba did not just say that her mother will die. There was a context

Few minutes before baba said to baani that tumhe qasam hai tumhare maa ki

Later when Baani did not support him baba in anger said that tumhari maa mar jayee gi

It was in context of his earlier qasam...usually when u give someone a qasam of a person then what ur saying is that if that person does not follow on qasam then person whose qasam was given will suffer. So actually it was a follow up to his earlier qasam. Baani and many others thought that maybe he directly said and wished her mother bad

This explanation is still bad

- one should not involve family
- one should not give qasam of people
- one should not judge on their own if qasam was broken
- one should not declare punishment for breaking qasam

So baba is still wrong..we should still be angry..

However this does explain that it was not like he wished her mother death. That would have been really disgusting and evil.

I hope people understood my point. I have no sympathy for baba but I needed to present a khulasa as I cannot let this point go. This behudgi had a context. Even if it was wrong context.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Wo sab to theek hai but who died and made him God to decide he's now the giver and taker of life. That is something extremely stupid to say under any context just because he himself swore on her and then pin it on her not to break. He should stick to saving the country from missile attacks. Logo ka pack up karwana unko shobha nahi deta.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: TheBoss

Wo sab to theek hai but who died and made him God to decide he's now the giver and taker of life. That is something extremely stupid to say under any context just because he himself swore on her and then pin it on her not to break. He should stick to saving the country from missile attacks. Logo ka pack up karwana unko shobha nahi deta.


Yeah yeah he is a nutcase..i think everyone on this forum agrees. lol

He is a clown who does not have control over his mouth

However i was perplexed as to how and more importantly why would he say such a thing..why so much hate...i never got the impression that he hated her that much or he would be so serious for his beti

therefore seeing this episode i realized that fool was speaking in context of his qasam
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I know as kids we would take dis kind of maa qasam very seriously and I got ur point TM, but that still does not condone what Om g said. Just shows he's so juvenile.
Anyways from where I come, talking casually I and in such an insensitive manner about death is totally frowned on and I personally feel that Om g should not be left of that easily.

Also such lose comments does keep one disturbed for long. In unseen video, after the whole thing calmed down, bani was shown pacing in the GA alone and in deep thought and wiping away a stolen tear here and der. It would have been very upsetting for her mentally too.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I am superclose to my mother and IDT I can survive without my mother in this world and I do think about this attachment a lot of times. Even framing a sentence involving death and mother is a complete NO NO to me. I know Kehne se kuch nahi ho jata but when somebody actually spells it out aloud and wishes for something as vile as that will definitely make anyone angry.
Kuch Baatein Kabhi kahi nahi jaati. This is one of those coz chahe 0.000000000001% bhi probability na ho even then people are scared of sth like this. Like my Mom says, Din mein ek baar aapke pass saraswati aati hai aur jo hum bolte hai uss moment mein sach ho jata hai and hence one should try to be as good as one can be while speaking.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I feel so weird about it but probably i'll be the only person in the forum who won't get offended for this petty remark 😕 but that comes from this belief that taking insult from some other person is like catching someone else shit in your hand and it is all your choice - to get your hands dirty or to let it go. I don't feel the need to give someone else this amount of power that they can make make you react for such lowly, small hearted statements. My love and faith for my loved ones remains unwavered that no amount of opinions, insults can do anything. Life and death comes when its time, it doesn't come from someone else speaking ill. Otherwise, i do understand that it is a sensitive issue and why people react to it - it is completely justifiable. Also, i think context doesn't give any brownie points to baba - it was out of line.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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I completely understand every one's emotions for their mother and Hippo is no less. So yes I get it

However we need to be fair in life. We need to blame someone for what he did ..not for what he did not

When he said maa mar jayee gi..there was sense of support for baani if you ask me..as he really believes in these things so he was telling her dont do it as this will happen because u r breaking qasam. such people are thinking on different scale. they believe in such things. so he was serious and telling her that dont do it

again he should not have given qasam and then followed up..who the heck is he. lol

i just wanted to lay that point. feel free to judge him based on ur take

i need to sleep


good to see u pencil
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: No2Pencil

I feel so weird about it but probably i'll be the only person in the forum who won't get offended for this petty remark 😕 but that comes from this belief that taking insult from some other person is like catching someone else shit in your hand and it is all your choice - to get your hands dirty or to let it go. I don't feel the need to give someone else this amount of power that they can make make you react for such lowly, small hearted statements. My love and faith for my loved ones remains unwavered that no amount of opinions, insults can do anything. Life and death comes when its time, it doesn't come from someone else speaking ill. Otherwise, i do understand that it is a sensitive issue and why people react to it - it is completely justifiable. Also, i think context doesn't give any brownie points to baba - it was out of line.


Such emotional strength is definitely very appreciable. I hate to be a slightly emotionally weak person and this is sth I really want to achieve. The steering of my life should be with me and nobody else.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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As per I understand you from your comments...you are never bias and support the right thing at the right time...
Then this post...?
I have never commented here in this forum but alwaz been a silent reader...
But your post forced me to express my views...

This explanation you are giving...you are not supporting that evil person...directly...but indirectly I felt so...

Yeah I understand you just tried to clear things out...but what Mr. Om said is totally disgusting...
Bani s reaction justified...I really felt bad for her...
No one can justify Mr. Om s act...

And also I should not mention here but cant stop myself even...
When Mr. Om said all that non sense no one...not a single one took a stand for bani...
She was fighting all alone...people busy there for making their own favourites captain...disgusting...
Thanx to sahil...he finally left the rope on Mr. Om s words...
First time I liked sahil...and hated Manveer to the core..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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You are right Hippo and I would choose to ignore such babas and their comments. But this girl has a history. Her mom got cancer thrice. With cancer there is a significant trauma in knowing that your loved one is dying. whatever baba said was a trigger for her. So I understand HER reaction to it.

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