Keeping BB and favoritism aside, is Bani normal?

I do not find Bani normal at all. I just cannot relate to her. Keeping favoritism and Bigg Boss aside, if I were to meet a person like Bani and let's say if Bani was one of my family members I would have definitely taken her to a psychologist to see. I know Bani fans will come and defend her, but lets put it this way, would you react the same way Bani does if you were in her situation. Yes, you are hurt, you are rejected, yes you are made fun of even in real world everyone goes through this, but I hardly see anyone swearing their lungs out, punching stuff, and whatever she will be doing tomorrow. i just find her very odd and awkward. She needs help! The world is brutal, idk how she lives her life in real world if she breaks down so easily.

shes overally emotional!!! which is not normal...Donno if this is real her or the house has made her insane like this...but shes tooo much to handle!

Is anyone normal? Are you? Am I? What exactly is normal and who defines it?

too emotional and takes things personally and too seriously.

Originally posted by: kajal29b

Is anyone normal? Are you? Am I? What exactly is normal and who defines it?

Coming to Bani... I must come from the wrong side of the tracks as for me her language is pretty normal on a day to day basis. Using F B and S words feels quite "normal" to me so can't cast her as abnormal for that.

As for punching stuff, I believe that if you are a physical person, which she seems to be, it makes sense to hit items rather than people. I do not condone violence or breaking things unnecessarily but as it seems that Bani had a valid reason (om said that her mother should die apparently), just be glad that she did not punch that oldie and break all his teeth. As a 'normal' person my reaction would be ensure he cant talk again for atleast a week.

Bani is extra emotional though and while I know and respect other in my circle with a similar behaviour patterns, I believe that for people in India being socially acceptable is more important than being honest about your feelings and thoughts. So surely for people based in India I agree thay Bani can appear to be 'not normal'

Maybe take a global viewpoint in this situation...

She needs medical attention😭😭😭

Originally posted by: kajal29b

Is anyone normal? Are you? Am I? What exactly is normal and who defines it?

Coming to Bani... I must come from the wrong side of the tracks as for me her language is pretty normal on a day to day basis. Using F B and S words feels quite "normal" to me so can't cast her as abnormal for that.

As for punching stuff, I believe that if you are a physical person, which she seems to be, it makes sense to hit items rather than people. I do not condone violence or breaking things unnecessarily but as it seems that Bani had a valid reason (om said that her mother should die apparently), just be glad that she did not punch that oldie and break all his teeth. As a 'normal' person my reaction would be ensure he cant talk again for atleast a week.

Bani is extra emotional though and while I know and respect other in my circle with a similar behaviour patterns, I believe that for people in India being socially acceptable is more important than being honest about your feelings and thoughts. So surely for people based in India I agree thay Bani can appear to be 'not normal'

Maybe take a global viewpoint in this situation...

Originally posted by: Radhajee

hahhah its not a global viewpoint,...this is narrow bani fan view 😆

In her roadies audition she did mention going to therapy for many years but did not say the reason deeming it to be very personal. But when you have a mother who has been battling cancer for many years, being stereotyped for working out, living in a house enclosed with fake people, I think that would have an emotional toll on someone's mental health to a certain extent. I mean not saying some of her outbursts are pretty over the top but many people have different way of handling things and her way is different than others. And that's what makes us humans being different than everyone else no 2 people can ever be the same, everyone's reactions are different. If you're considering her outburst regarding Om's comment about her mom, that is completely justified as I would've done 10 times worse to him than she did. If he said that about my mother, he'd be standing there receiving my wrath instead of the door.

Originally posted by: Radhajee

hahhah its not a global viewpoint,...this is narrow bani fan view 😆