moments when abhi disappointed me

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I wasn't watching the show from quite a time. So , meanwhile I was thinking to share this thoughts which I have had from a long time about abhi.. these are some of the moments where I felt that abhi disappointed me.

Abhi agreed to ruin a girl's life by doing a revenge marriage with her just because his sister told she is a gold-digger...not even bothered to cross check.. didn't thought for a moment what if aaliya had a misunderstanding??? There's always a two sides of coin . You can't always be right . purab wasn't a kid that someone could trap him easily like that... what if that girl wasn't a gold-digger?? What will happen to her life?? What will happen to his best friend??! What about their love?? So much concerned about sister's tears that it made him blind to see the worst consequences it can bring to others life .a big failure as a brother or as a person for me. There were many other ways if only one tried to think...

When pragya's all dreams of being happily married gets shattered on the night which was supposed to be the happiest night of her life...worst suhagrat one could get thanks to YOU KNOW WHO ...

When punit was beaten by abhi for a disgusting blame without even giving a chance to explain by abhi ...why ?!! because he caught you in compromising position with your gf ??? Idk how can someone talk like that about others character when he himself is at low level in the character by having extra marital affair..

When abhi does drama of being saviour in the MMS track and make pragya to go through the hell of a torture when he already knew she was innocent.. such a dramatic and worst way possible to prove yourself as hero

When abhi lies to pragya on lohri night about tanu's parents being clients and fool's pragya into agreeing for tabhi marriage... this was a big lie considering the situation. He knew at that time pragya was nothing like he thought to be. She was completely genuine at that time. She at least deserved honesty from abhi...he never cleared this even after he got so many chances until pragya found out this herself by chance...

When he let pragya's birthday party become tamasha for the public and believe about pragya's affair with champu ...Even after having past experiences about a fake MMS, Abhi was quick to believe Pragya had an affair with Champu and even if for a moment he had doubt he could have asked her personally, in a better way and could have sort it out...but who lets their gf question your wife's character especially when you are in love with her?? And then how conveniently you escaped by saying at the end that you knew she wouldn't do this. .. LIKE REALLY!!!!!!

The whole concept of Abhi being confused between Fuggy and Mogambo was a disappointment. Abhi had already seen before that Pragya could act bad and go to any level to spoil her image during PraNu track. If he had really had the doubt that she was his fuggy, he should have remembered that she acts/pretends well.

During the scene where Pragya is tied up in a burning raavan, Abhi's monologue about whether he should save her because she is his enemy was pathetic. Is this the kind of thought one would have when someone is dying?

when he tried to get close to Pragya saying he's her husband and he has rights on her.. That was purely egoism and male chauvinistic

When Abhi asked Sarla Maa why she stole the money? He could have asked how did you get trapped in this or used some other words. Asking a mother like figure why did you steal reinforced the fact that he believed only proofs

In lonavala ,When abhi said he knew she was always his fuggy... and she would never do anything wrong with him..if he knew then what was going on from so many months?? Mogambo or fuggy??? Was that a joke???

When abhi easily gets agree to marry tanu because she says her reputation spoiled because of him... can he take a moment here to think what if tanu planned all this to marry him??! I know he doesn't know about tanu's evil nature and trusting her because she is aliya's friend but he is in a celebrity world. That world have various types of people . He's trusting her younger sister's judgement over himself... what if aaliya has misjudged tanu??? What if aaliya failed in recognise tanu's evil side? It's not like that aaliya couldn't do any mistakes.. everyone is bound to make mistakes..so couldn't it be possible that aaliya might have been manipulated by tanu??? What if instead of tanu, she brought a love interest for her.. wouldn't he have cross checked him once being elder brother??? then y not in this case?? After all it's him who's going to spend life with tanu not aaliya.. trusting others too much for your personal life won't lead you anywhere.. and abhi getting ready to marry tanu , just like that is a big let down for me..

Sorry if this hurt anyone. I had this within me for a long time so I decided to post it and get it out of my system. Its just my opinion. Thank you for reading :) have a nice day... 😊

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Posted: 8 years ago
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JD ! Yet to fully go through the post but we are on the same Page ! And you seem to have brought up the right points ..if we go to the base of any issue, the main catalyst for the problem to burst is abhi's impulsiveness. .yes..i have brought this issue many times too before and i am repeating again..you can't keep on getting excuses for this kind of an attitude then i would say even sarla should be given such relaxation. ...but it's not the case.. she is blamed for reacting immediately without thinking... so i really dislike that in abhi..but i really find ML abhi much better in terms of handling things..he is lot more understanding and supportive than before which is very nice to see !
Edited by -shubh - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Glad you got it out of your system, Jaya. 😊 It must be a relief!

Sadly, lot disappointing moments from all characters in the show even in the present track.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Bas itne disappointments? Chalo, good you got them out.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Wow, Abhi did all that? I would not like a male lead with that character
Thank God I was spared all that, as I only started watching a few months ago, , I know I would not have lasted as long as you lot
The reason I'm watching, albeit sparingly, I want comeuppance for Aliysh and Rani, and I want to see some fire and warrior spirit on Pragya, but alas it may not happen <sigh>
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I can write a whole book about how all the characters disappointed me in the whole show 😆
Edited by ..Anu - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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how are you feeling now jaya..?😆
wanted to add some points when i felt disappointed.. but let it be.. now a days it is not affecting me.. and what's the use of talking old things now.. jo huwa ho gaya.. wo can't change it.. let's move on..😛

chalo issi bat pe ek she arz hai..😉

" kisne khel khela, kisne hijar jhela
guzar gaya jaana iss sawal ka mausam " ... 😆

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Posted: 8 years ago
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JD, it's a painful recap but thanks for the reminder. It's funny now that we have an Abhi who is so much "nicer" than he used to be, it can be easy to miss the fact that he has some of the same flaws - the main one being passivity and a susceptibility to manipulation, as you pointed out on the Tanu engagement question. It would be nice if we could see some genuine, lasting growth and change in Abhi but I think as your examples show...the writers will keep using his same old characteristics to cause/stretch conflicts as long as they can. I'll be interested to see how much of this "softer, nicer" Abhi keeps going when (or if??) they bring the next really big misunderstanding.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: -shubh

JD ! Yet to fully go through the post but we are on the same Page ! And you seem to have brought up the right points ..if we go to the base of any issue, the main catalyst for the problem to burst is abhi's impulsiveness. .yes..i have brought this issue many times too before and i am repeating again..you can't keep on getting excuses for this kind of an attitude then i would say even sarla should be given such relaxation. ...but it's not the case.. she is blamed for reacting immediately without thinking... so i really dislike that in abhi..but i really find ML abhi much better in terms of handling things..he is lot more understanding and supportive than before which is very nice to see !

Yes, Agreed that Abhi and Sarla Maa have the same flaw of making decision on impulse.Glad you find ML Abhi better. I am not following the show regularly so not aware of the exact happenings in the track..Thanks for the comment Shubh 😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: celina30

Wow, Abhi did all that? I would not like a male lead with that character

Thank God I was spared all that, as I only started watching a few months ago, , I know I would not have lasted as long as you lot
The reason I'm watching, albeit sparingly, I want comeuppance for Aliysh and Rani, and I want to see some fire and warrior spirit on Pragya, but alas it may not happen <sigh>

Even I wouldn't have watched it if I was watching daily but I watched initial 400 episodes in one go. And that way I didn't reacted much and there are some good moments too in between... So it balance outs everything and doesn't look that bad And he did some good things too. since this thread is about the moments Abhi disappointed me, I didn't add the moments Abhi made me happy

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