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Sajini Cherian

@sajinifaby

Rocker

+ 5

Posted: 8 years ago

Infertility...a word no woman want to hear even for their well-wishers or even for your enemies...

Imagine if that strikes your world...esp of dreams...of bearing an angel...

Well...am talking of none other than me who is living in this phase for many years...

I've been experiencing this...with loss from 2 treatments...so its not easy...

Small minds despise me... broad-minded ones empathise on me... but frankly does anyone know what goes through the woman who really face the turmoil they least expected in their world...

we all know that those who despises us are bad...they hurt us... but do you know the other group equally hurts us...

Now that we are in this painful phase of life...

we gotta have a good amount of patience

we shouldn't get envious of other's good destiny

we gotta deal with it...

we gotta believe everything happens for a reason

We gotta be optimistic

we gotta be strong

we gotta be cheerful...

we need to believe in 'Miracles'

we gotta be self-inspired

we gotta be heart full of faith...

we gotta embrace ironical life

we need to raise our self-esteem

We gotta go for the child no matter what mode...

PS : if a family is not supportive of the face that you cannot conceive.. then how do you expect the adopted child will be accepted in the new family...

But what emotion actually goes through me...or women like me...

With time...and self-healing n mutual support of your partner...

Now for Sona and Dev...

There might be few who sympathise with ishwari... as being a grandmother is a joy beyond motherhood they say...

But its Sona and Dev who is going through a phase that none other than those who experience it will ever understand...

Please to all out there..who think only the Dixits will and can hurt them... trust me...even the Bose Family by their philosophy trying to act happy and all that i told above... does hurt...

Sona n Dev have to come to term with what life has offered to them in their platter...and then together they need to fight the cause with strength, hope, cheer and prayer...

What the families and friends and true well-wishers like us can do is... "Wish they get healed soon...and they begin this journey with mutual trust and love...rather than doing the damage by blame game...

You won't be getting anything by belittling the other half of you... coz a child is a dream and fruit of 2 people in love...

Even if you do not remarry... encouraging words like had u married the one i told or I chose, all this wouldn't happen... so Dev what you need to just do is...show such people your facepalm to this...Coz what is the point being with someone whom you also believe is not good enough for you...and brought you to this dilemma...and low of life...

She in all circumstances face the most bitter part...but the man equally goes through the pain...as the world look down on men who emote...as not being strong...and not man enough...

To the Non-Keralites who have not seen this beautiful movie and the great real life love story ...

A heart wrenching song from the same... "Kanchana - Moideen" - a cross cultural love tale that neither families accepted...and they waited for their families to approve...a lifetime...finally Moideen died an unfortunate death saving children who were drowning after several attempts to unite... She lives as a widow...unmarried...but married to their love...which is true...

[YOUTUBE]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H3hNCnOttPQ[/YOUTUBE]

❤️ Let love prevail ❤️

...no matter how high the tides come...😭

Edited by sajinifaby - 8 years ago

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Shaavi

@Shaavi

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

Most beautiful thought... 👏 👏 👏.

I completely agree with you.😊

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Chandni Davey.

@Chandniyati

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

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Di... U have made me speechless...

Will comment once I gain back...

Hatts off to U...

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AnanyaGhosh

@AnanyaGhosh

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

Di... Its really an emotional post wid lots of pain and love hidden in it... I just hope ur world gets completely filled wid undying love and support and care frm all ur near and dear ones... And also u get a tiny Sajini or a chotu mr. Sajini in ur life soon...

And coming back to devakshi, well i hope d cvs handle d track wid maturity as dis is a very sensitive issue and a lot of ppl face it in thr lives... My cousin sis is also a victim of infertility... So i hv seen ppl who belong to in dis stage...

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@Krpkab_superfan

Explorer

Posted: 8 years ago

This post brought tears to my eyes. It was so emotional and touching 😭

I will say a silent prayer for you and family, mainly to give you the mental strength through this time. I hope the show is able to treat this issue with some semblance of maturity. I wish the makers can see what you have put together here to get a glimpse into what they should be doing with the track. I am sure they will be able to handle this issue better after seeing your post!

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Adiba Bano

@.kashishbano.

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

If I would have able to do one thing, I would have hug you🤗 tightly and give a standing Ovation.👏

This is the first ever post on the Forum which brought tears to my eyes from the bottom of my heart. It made me speechless.

It was so emotional and heart touching post Di.

I may not be able to understand the pain, those who go through this stage and I can't even imagine what sort of difficulties they face, how they will get the courage...

I can only say, I have seen many of the ladies who come to me on advice from their gynaecologist that they need to lose weight, that they have to eat healthy diet, with a single hope they are ready to do what they can do...

It is really a wish from me from the bottom of my heart Di, that all your wishes come true, what all you are facing give you the fruit of your patience. And Soon you get the shadow of yours .

I will surely pray for you.

You are really brave and strong, the way you have potrayed the emotions in the post I can understand how much courageous you are and your faith on God will never be go in vain di.

your all the good Deeds will surely pay get back to you in a very beautiful way.

Love you Di for this post.

It is so meaningful.

Thank you Di so much for making me learn how the support of the partner in marriage life is important.

I just hope Dev supports Sona to the core.

And they both support each other mentally.

And I just want the Cv's to handle this issue with so maturity as this is a very sensitive issue and give a good moral to the viewers.

Edited by .kashishbano. - 8 years ago

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lavanya

@dlavanya

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

lovely post sajini.🤗.. I sure understand the pain that one goes through during this struggle.

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Sharica

@Sharica

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

I am just speechless. i wanna 🤗you for this.

You have brought out all the emotions that I went through. I can relate to every single line, quote, word of your post.

After going through all these for almost 3 yrs, I am blessed with baby boy 2 mnths back.

I can completely understand what you should be going through.

After every failure the courage required to get up once again to give another chance all over again, going through mental and physical pain..i knw how it feels.

And my partners support was always there. He felt what I am going through and he was always their holding me whenever I was loosing hope. 60% of the battle can be considered won if your partner stand by you. He never told this to his parents as well that we have these issues.

I hope and I really wish that you get all the happiness that you deserve. You surely will enjoy the feeling of motherhood. Just don't let your hopes die. I actually gave up once as my personal and professional were getting hampered. But I again got up n tried till I succeeded.

As there is a saying " Falling is good, worst is not getting up"

Let me know if I could be of any help to you.

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Gayatri

@Gayu_K

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

Hey sajini dear...i really hope ur treatment works this time though n u be blessed with a little prankster soon...u know what I'm visiting shirdi right now and people believe that if u ask sai baba for something he definitely goves it to u
I'll pray that u soon b blessed to b a mother of a little wonder

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LiveLife321

@LiveLife321

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

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🤗🤗 to you Sajini & i wish more power to you to achieve your dream dear.

I hope cv's know how sensitive this track is & i seriously wish that they will handle this track with more responsibility keeping side OTT drama & lazy writing.😊

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