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Every women in The Dixits' need to be empathized and understood... After all they are so much in love with Dev as a mother, sister and aunty... They have no problem with his love for his own women... See, how they had no problem with Dev showering love and dedication for his mother, lovely gifts on his sisters, undying gratification for his aunt... Are they complaining? No...
It's only Sona that brings up unwanted insecurity into their family! And that's why they crib about everything around her... Because Sona is taking lessons from her life and getting to live her life unlike them... Why be inspired by her... Instead take the attention from her and be empathetic towards the women who are unable to take any lesson and live their life beautifully on their own...
So moral of the story is, people should continue to empathize with the weak ones because they have a reason to be sorry for... And not be inspired by Sona... Because she has no reason to be feel sorry about.. It's her problem if she chooses to be strong in her life.. 😆
Dare she cries when she gets to know about her infertility... It should be Ishu who can cry more for not getting to carry he bachcha's bachcha... It should be Neha who can cry more for not getting to play with her niece/nephew... It should be Radharani who can cry more for not getting to taunt Sona for not being a good mother like her...🤣
After all being weak and insecure has its own advantage of getting the sympathy from every fellow human beings because in turn they would love to be sympathized... You pity me and I pity you.. Let's all dwell in our own misery!!! 😆
Ok.. I learnt my lesson today 🤪.. Let's not blame poor Ishu anymore... We should give a character name for Ishwari's insecurity and blame only that! Anyway Dev is out of my focus area anytime...😆
So let's call Ishu's INSECURITY as Ishity!
Ishity can make a little girl feel smaller and incapable in front of Ishwari, can make her son feel guilty and devoted to Ishwari with loud drama, can be full of herself and not give any space for others, can compete with anyone coming into Ishwari's son's life and fight for Ishwari's rights...
Ishity will not allow Ishwari to move an inch from her space without making her show a sulking face... So what... Ishwari has a reason to do all this - Ishity that is.. So empathize with her...
And many TRP audience can relate themselves to Ishity thus empathize with Ishwari... Because they see a reflection of themselves in Ishity... Thus not feeling like the villain that they are made out to be in their real life by someone or the other... After all the TRP audience in the form of Nehas and Ishwaris and Radharanis want some consolation that they are not alone in the world, being this bad and affected by good people.. There are lot many in their group and they are justified to be what they are... So that they can continue to be that...
Why choose an INSPIRATION in the story as a spoilsport... And blame Sona for being one! 😆
All Ishu's behavior and actions are done by that INSECURITY, and none are her doing but her alter-ego Ishity doing! Because there's an aparachit (outsider) inside her... No wonder Ishu treats Sona as an outsider... In that case she sure needs a medical help!!! 😉
Ok... Enough of my lessons learnt for the day... Unlearning my learning now 😆...
Ishu is a very good human being... But whatever she does because of her insecurity cannot be justified just because that's the reality and many mothers are out there feeling it in real... And do we need to empathize with them and let them be that way? Everyone has a reason for their wrongdoings... And everyone can be justified... Just because I have a reason, I can go on and hurt others? My reason could be my anger, my irritation, my worry, my jealous, my possessiveness, my greed, my insecurity..
It's because of such dramas that started portraying the greys and blacks in bright light, making everyone feel fine to be bad, we all have forgotten what an inspiration could do to us, to change our lives... What a role model could affect us in good way...
It's just to show empathy, people started being compassionate towards the negative traits of each other... Just to help them deal with it and come out of it... Not to glorify it and justify that trait to continue them having it... And that too proudly... All wrong messages being passed on in the name of projecting grey and black characters as heroic!!!🥱
Missing all those days when white characters were shown onscreen, making the audience being inspired by such characters... And at least try and follow their inspiration... And not glorify their own negative traits in the name of reality...
Now in the name of reality, showcasing the greys, everyone is getting to justify what they are... Thus having them continue to be as is, because that's what they are.. There's nothing to change about them because we have a heroic representation of our own flaws and negatives!!! To be inspired about ourselves for our negatives... Calling ourselves as "After all human"... And make more and more emotional connect with such people because they would love to see only that.. And by giving them just that we can feed them more to stay wherever they are...
Everyone need not be ideal but on seeing some idealism onscreen, there is a positive message spread... Just because some people find it difficult and hard to be inspired and to try being that or feel inferior in front of such characters, they make a mock out of it and want to justify their own grey shades calling that as reality... Because that's the easy way out instead of trying hard on inspiration based living, let's go mock the ones trying to be inspired by idealism...🤓
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