what do you think he understands....

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Okay , I have two things to talk about and both are questions

First...

Hate vividha or love vividha ...
Would you advice her to keep on trying to do every thing in her power to keep suman "happy" ( whether you thing she is evil or not vv is trying to the best of HER ability to make suman happy) knowing full well that , suman cares so little of vv and is actually relieved , that guddi is dead if not happy...

Would you as a sister still put in much effort , to make this person happy??

I think that is simple and straight forward enough...

Now part two...

Baby A , I love this child ❤️... As a person who has spent half of her life , babysitting free of charge 😡... I might or might not have a soft spot for children and their shenanigans...😆

And baby A , is no less... I know baby A , has risen a lot of questions in many people , and some are now doubting if atharva is actually pretending ... Which is a very valid suggestion , for those who don't see him as I do ...

But from what the cvs have always shown me about him and what I KNOW ... To me this is atharva and he is neither pretending or after revenge or killed guddi... But this is not the point of this post...(I always get sidetracked)

Okay back to post, as I was saying I LOVE baby A , and have claimed many times to adopt him if I wasn't broke, jobless and still figuring my way through school 😔 ... It would be amazing to have a child like hi at home...and I will spoil him rotten ❤️

If you think he is a spoiled brat now , when am done , he might as well be the prince of asia..😃...

Okay to the point 😵...

I have a question what do you think are baby A's feeling towards vv...
And what is his understanding...

Remember from what we okay let's say I , from what I see , its platonic and sometimes romantic love ...

From his interactions and the way , he feels and connects to her , we know its more than just platonic love , his heart knows it more but , his mind isn't yet able to comprehend and distinguish between them...

According to baby A vividha is his favorite person , that's why he likes her so much...

I know , what he is feeling is more than HE understands...

To baby A she is my favorite person , that's why I always listen to her , that's why I trust her , or why I cry when she cries and why I want her around...

From yesterdays episode, he didn't like ravish touching Vividha...that's was obvious ...


Children usually hv these reactions , but its more or less generalized to more than one person or their mother and sometimes people they spend a lot of time with I.e a sibling ... I know my little one cries when I do , but they don't go all , poetic and talk how the won't let me burn , and so on...😃... And sometimes when am bored I tell my nephew his mom is my mom , and we can go back and fort and he ends up crying , saying NO its HIS mother children can be possessive ... ( Its not cruelty if I have nothing to do and am forced to baby sit 😃
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Okay let me just get to the point , I will like to know what do YOU think are his feelings...what you think is baby's A understanding of his feelings...or does he even understand???

And does anybody else in that house see what we see...😕... Or are they just oblivious...

Do they even see baby atharva as the child , who trust vv or do they question the fact that baby atharva is strangely attached to this woman he should hardly know , he is more attached to her than his own mother...😳

Or are we seeing too much into this because we know about vitharv, or expect more from them...


Also bare in mind am looking at this from baby's A point of view personally ...

Your answer can be from the point of view that , that is atharva , not baby A...just specify...

Thought of some conversations ... So please converse

Ps: I think its platonic AND romantic and he isn't able yet to differentiate the two...and he doesn't know there is a difference...

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hey Kells

The ONLY reason Vividha is playing along with the marriage charade is because Ravish has asked her to. He told her that as this will hurt his mum to give him some time and then he will tell her everything. And Vividha completely trusts him on that. She does care for Suman because so far, Suman has given Vividha nothing but love so she doesn't want to hurt this woman.

But...Vividha has no idea how Suman feels about her right now. She doesn't realise that Suman thinks that Vividha should give up her quest to get justice for Guddi and simply look after her husband. She doesn't know how much Suman disliked Guddi. And I feel that if she did, things would change. I don't think Vividha would be so accomodating about Ravish's request and would want him to tell Suman straightaway about their arrangement.

As for the second part, Atharv is just like a small child and his feelings are exactly how a child's are. To them, people are either good or bad. Ghanda or accha, according to Atharv.

But when it comes to Vividha, baby Atharv's feelings are at his strongest. Even in his childlike state he has formed an attachment to her.He loves her, perhaps not in the way adult Atharv does but there is still a connection. And we have seen at times, that when he gets close to her or hugs her, he does get confused. His feelings do get stronger. He feels safest with her and wants to be with her. His mind doesn't quite yet understand why, but he is pulled towards her. The feelings are still there, deeply hidden in his heart. And as a child, he expresses them the only way he knows how.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: whispa

Hey Kells

The ONLY reason Vividha is playing along with the marriage charade is because Ravish has asked her to. He told her that as this will hurt his mum to give him some time and then he will tell her everything. And Vividha completely trusts him on that. She does care for Suman because so far, Suman has given Vividha nothing but love so she doesn't want to hurt this woman.

But...Vividha has no idea how Suman feels about her right now. She doesn't realise that Suman thinks that Vividha should give up her quest to get justice for Guddi and simply look after her husband. She doesn't know how much Suman disliked Guddi. And I feel that if she did, things would change. I don't think Vividha would be so accomodating about Ravish's request and would want him to tell Suman straightaway about their arrangement.

As for the second part, Atharv is just like a small child and his feelings are exactly how a child's are. To them, people are either good or bad. Ghanda or accha, according to Atharv.

But when it comes to Vividha, baby Atharv's feelings are at his strongest. Even in his childlike state he has formed an attachment to her.He loves her, perhaps not in the way adult Atharv does but there is still a connection. And we have seen at times, that when he gets close to her or hugs her, he does get confused. His feelings do get stronger. He feels safest with her and wants to be with her. His mind doesn't quite yet understand why, but he is pulled towards her. The feelings are still there, deeply hidden in his heart. And as a child, he expresses them the only way he knows how.



Hey whisp 🤗... The only person that ever reads the , confusion my brain comes up with 😊... See ^^this is why I love you ...👍🏼

And that's the thing , suman has only shown her good side towards vividha , and I would thing that , that would extend to caring about guddi I.e vv's sister and also caring about vv's feelings and her peace of mind... Doesn't suman realise without peace of mind , vv wouldn't be able to be that "perfect" bahu she wants for her perfect son...😕

And I too expect vv too thing vv will react the same way ...


I agree whe it comes to vv his feelings amplify , and at their highest point... Whispa its almost co-dependent and for people who don't understand that might be scary but we know vv will never willing leave him again...

The connection is still very much there, and he feels it a lot , the main thing is am not even sure he himself knows or understands the difference apart from the fact that he loves her best...

And what I love best is that , he expresses them as best as a child can , but we understand , that if he knew the difference or understand he would be able to express more clearly... And that's what I find endearing , because the instinct is there its just know , its in the form of a child , and the understanding of a child ...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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If Vv comes to know wat suman thinks of her, i doubt she would put up with her anymore. The only thing is, suman said this behind vvs back, if once she could say the same thing about guddi she will know how it feels shot what without gun.
Atharv love is platonic, he might not have all those gutter thoughts yet. He is a child still, makes drawing, makes plane, eats food n sleep. The best age to be in.
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Originally posted by: monu_tan

If Vv comes to know wat suman thinks of her, i doubt she would put up with her anymore. The only thing is, suman said this behind vvs back, if once she could say the same thing about guddi she will know how it feels shot what without gun.

Atharv love is platonic, he might not have all those gutter thoughts yet. He is a child still, makes drawing, makes plane, eats food n sleep. The best age to be in.



I hope she tells , too in vv's face ...

I think its platonic and somewhat romantic ... I see it , but baby A does not understand or know that , all he knows is that vv is his favorite , his heart connects with vvs' and in both ways , his thoughts just don't match... I know because I have seen vitharv ...

And it is the best stage...

Ps: don't hate on the gutter ... 😉
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Originally posted by: Africanqueenkel



I hope she tells , too in vv's face ...

I think its platonic and somewhat romantic ... I see it , but baby A does not understand or know that , all he knows is that vv is his favorite , his heart connects with vvs' and in both ways , his thoughts just don't match... I know because I have seen vitharv ...

And it is the best stage...

Ps: don't hate on the gutter ... 😉


Before going to sleep i would watch multiples of vitgarv clips so that i can have a nice gutterful dream. That why night time is best 😆

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