Teach your children - Page 2

Originally posted by: Push-pull

And I will tell you when a guy makes a teasing comment about being married as a difficult thing, then he has failed to be a man and makes excuse by blaming the marriage.. Real men will never be sandwiched between anyone.. He can completely handle himself and his loved ones without being in a fix... He can be real in his true skin itself without trying hard to balance and making a big deal out of it. 😉

Originally posted by: Shaavi

@bold -- sometimes things can happen which are outside anyone's control. When this happens even if the husband does not want, he will have to give in.

This is my experience. my FIL and my SIL's family live together. The reason they give is that they are taking care of my FIL which is not really true. My husband does not like it, but because my FIL wants it that way he does not say anything.

In the beginning of this year, my SIL was diagnosed with a chronic disease and we had to act quickly to save her life. Her husband refused to pay for it. My husband did not want to pay..

I was the one who had to push my husband to bear most of the cost so that we can give her a shot at life.

Is my husband happy about it -- NO

But is he doing it -- YES.

Does she know that -- YES

Things can get complicated because of fate and all you can do is try to manage at that time...