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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: .kashishbano.

So apt and meaningful. ..
Agree with you.

And the last two lines just cracked me, but that will be best for him

such main, i totally agree, anybody who is put to many trials will feel like quitting everything and staying alone.

both Ishwari and Sonakshi know that Dev loves both of them, yet both need assurances from him...

But on a serious note, this time round, i felt sorry for sonakshi, she is made to be feel as an outsider time and again by the entire dixit clan and dev always has to apologise even if he the one who is bearing the brunt of both sides.

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: randomramblings

such main, i totally agree, anybody who is put to many trials will feel like quitting everything and staying alone.

both Ishwari and Sonakshi know that Dev loves both of them, yet both need assurances from him...

But on a serious note, this time round, i felt sorry for sonakshi, she is made to be feel as an outsider time and again by the entire dixit clan and dev always has to apologise even if he the one who is bearing the brunt of both sides.

If you behave as an outsider, you will always remain outsider. If Sona made some plans why didn't she inform in the house, she left it on Dev or it's below her to inform her mother in law her plans. Leave Neha, Gkb or Ishwari, others were nice with her. The problem with Sona is she feels Dev belongs only to her and she is doing a favour by sharing him with his family.

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Sonakshi wasn't trying to make him feel guilty, she was trying to do something nice for him.

He told her he spends his birthday with his mum, not the day before as well, and he knew that she had made plans, so why couldn't he just tell his family, or why couldn't he tell Sona that his mum was asking him to stay in?

Plus is it necessary for husband and wife to inform the whole family they are going on a date? Husbands and wives often make their own plans, it's reasonable. For me Dev is making it into such a big deal, he just has to say Sonakshi has already made plans, why make it out as if he's choosing, when he already knew beforehand he is meant to go out with Sonakshi?

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: Khushi...
Sonakshi wasn't trying to make him feel guilty, she was trying to do something nice for him.

He told her he spends his birthday with his mum, not the day before as well, and he knew that she had made plans, so why couldn't he just tell his family, or why couldn't he tell Sona that his mum was asking him to stay in?

Plus is it necessary for husband and wife to inform the whole family they are going on a date? Husbands and wives often make their own plans, it's reasonable. For me Dev is making it into such a big deal, he just has to say Sonakshi has already made plans, why make it out as if he's choosing, when he already knew beforehand he is meant to go out with Sonakshi?

It is not necessary to take permission to go out spend some me time but it is to show respect one generally informs family if you have made some plans. If you think one need not inform anyone than one rather stay in a hotel not in a house

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: yyy
Both the parties want to surprise him but they don't bother talking to each other .The responsibility falls on the birthday guy to communicate to everyone that listen my wife is planning a surprise so please don't plan anything

The truth is if Dixits did not involve Sona in their surprise plan then Sona did not involve them either in her plans. If she can involve her family than she could atleast informed his sisters and that would have avoided lot of issues

This is the problem with Sona ..she wants to get involved in every Issue of Dixit family but she never includes them be it Vicky Elena ,birthday planning or her business venture .The effort has to be made from both end .

Lastly, after all this drama Dev would not prefer any surprises next year.He would be happy with peaceful birthday . 😆

you want dixit clan to join newly wedded couple on their all night date? she was told plans are for meal in the morning and whole day munna can sit it mummy's lap. dev said he never celebrates his bday. there was no talk of nighttime celebrations with sona.. so how coupd ahe know?

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: yyy
Both the parties want to surprise him but they don't bother talking to each other .The responsibility falls on the birthday guy to communicate to everyone that listen my wife is planning a surprise so please don't plan anything

The truth is if Dixits did not involve Sona in their surprise plan then Sona did not involve them either in her plans. If she can involve her family than she could atleast informed his sisters and that would have avoided lot of issues

This is the problem with Sona ..she wants to get involved in every Issue of Dixit family but she never includes them be it Vicky Elena ,birthday planning or her business venture .The effort has to be made from both end .

Lastly, after all this drama Dev would not prefer any surprises next year.He would be happy with peaceful birthday . 😆

Perfect take. It is not easy to be in Dev's shoes and be sandwiched between both one his wife and the other his mother and sisters.

He doesn't know exactly what both of them planned for him. Once off to his work his concentration definitely will be directed towards his meetings,deals etc.

So it would have been better if Sona hinted atleast to Nikki and Ria. Then Iswari would have definitely iasked Sona about her own plans.

Never mind. Sonakshi prefers it that way. She won't include others in her domain but she expects others to give her due.

I won't blame Dev in this . Birthday boy need not discuss. He should enjoy the limelight.