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Posted: 8 years ago
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If Guddi was being played by someone a few years older, would you object to Guddi falling for Ravish???
Vividha has told her that Ravish is a means to her end - ie reunification with Atharv. He is helping her and she is grateful for the help but her way is clear. The situation is temporary and will be resolved at the first available opportunity.

If Ravish is available - a good looking, caring, upstanding, unattached guy - why should Guddi hold herself back?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Do you think she's in love then? She's definitely wrong in my eyes. She's acting really immature, she's giving ogling eyes to her sisters husband (regardless of their equation).

It just stinks of immaturity! How can you be in love like that? How can you snoop around in your sisters room like that? It's not normal behaviour what she's doing.

Unfortunately they're making her seem quite psychotic!

This isn't a normal innocent crush, you'll see enough soon why it's a bad idea & why Vividha is trying to stop her in her steps.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Reemz*

Do you think she's in love then? She's definitely wrong in my eyes. She's acting really immature, she's giving ogling eyes to her sisters husband (regardless of their equation).

It just stinks of immaturity! How can you be in love like that? How can you snoop around in your sisters room like that? It's not normal behaviour what she's doing.

Unfortunately they're making her seem quite psychotic!


The CVs are purposefully showing her immature psychotic - my POV

However, if her sister has declared no interest in Ravish, I don't see why she couldn't genuinely fall for Ravish.

My objection stems mostly from the fact that she was shown and looks like a school girl. I am having difficulty seeing her in romantic sort-of situation - Lolita types
Edited by Karaali - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Karaali



The CVs are purposefully showing her immature psychotic - my POV

However, if her sister has declared no interest in Ravish, I don't see why she couldn't genuinely fall for Ravish.

My objection stems mostly from the fact that she was shown and looks like a school girl. I am having difficulty seeing her in romantic sort-of situation - Lolita types



If they presented it in a genuine way then YES there may not have been a problem but the way she's acting rings alarm bells & Vividha can sense that, she knows what's her sister is like. The whole point is that they're trying to show how Guddi basically craves the love that Vividha get a SO easily! But she's not being shown in a positive manner, it's downright creepy and I feel really sad about it because Guddi was one of my favourite characters.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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That's the thing! Is it really love though? You don't just fall in love with your sister's husband or any other man for that case within just a day of being around them.

I would have thought the same even if she was older cos it's just immature behaviour, bordering on psychotic! I mean they could have shown her just being in awe of Ravish, that's still understandable, but love? Not such a great idea! Plus, Guddi just knows Vividha's feelings, she didn't even spare a thought about what Ravish feels and what he would make out of all this.

Clearly, Vividha is just trying to protect her little sister cos she knows this isn't gonna do her any good.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Guddi is wrong because its time for her to read Ode to a Nightigale and imagine all the stuff but not to apply. 😆 She is 16.
I feel embarrassed as a viewer to watch. How Vividha felt as a live spectator of her sister's weird behavior ? She is behaving like a psycho. If she really felt for Ravish, vividha would support her first. But she is not. She is so obviously infatuated and its embarrassing .

Anyways Vividha should have talked with her calmly, but siblings always a disappointment...let me run away from siblings equations 🥱
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Even if Guddi was older. I would've objected.

See it's not just about being young or stuff. But also about that.. Ravish is no other but her Brother In Law.

Brother In Laws are just brothers.. I have one who is my Bro to me. And I am his younger sister. Also by force but she is her elder sister's husband. No matter how their relationship is, Guddi should never think like this..

Another point is, Guddi just wen to love in few hours? She was like Di doesn't feel anything for him. So he is mine.

So, yes. I do have objections...
Edited by EshaalYousufzai - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Reemz*



If they presented it in a genuine way then YES there may not have been a problem but the way she's acting rings alarm bells & Vividha can sense that, she knows what's her sister is like. The whole point is that they're trying to show how Guddi basically craves the love that Vividha get a SO easily! But she's not being shown in a positive manner, it's downright creepy and I feel really sad about it because Guddi was one of my favourite characters.


If Vividha knew what her sister was like, she would have caught the hint when she saw Guddi staring at Ravish during the wound-care scene. She wouldn't have added to the fire by confiding the full truth to her.

Vividha probably did not even consider the possibility that Guddi would go pscyho for Ravish in ONE interaction.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I know this might hurt certain fandoms but this is my genuine thoughts. If what vividha has been doing all along is right then what guddi is doing cannot be wrong. They are both in the same boat, guddi is having eyes for ravish who is her BIL cuz vivi is still married to him legally (whatever their equation maybe) and vivi has eyes for Atharv who is her BIL cuz of the same reasons ( dispute their past ) to me just as I can't accept vitharv and their intimacy until ravish - vivi gets a legal divorce, the same goes for guddi, I can understand why she feels what she feels for ravish whatever you may call it love/ infatutation but to just go about acting freely on it is indecent given her sister still haven't gotten a legal divorce. And even if they in any case get a divorce I still will not support ravish - guddi pairing cuz she is still school going and is quite immature for ravish ( and to handle the resposibilties of an army wife) and besides he tots treats her like a behen
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: mcdreamy.

That's the thing! Is it really love though? You don't just fall in love with your sister's husband or any other man for that case within just a day of being around them.

I would have thought the same even if she was older cos it's just immature behaviour, bordering on psychotic! I mean they could have shown her just being in awe of Ravish, that's still understandable, but love? Not such a great idea! Plus, Guddi just knows Vividha's feelings, she didn't even spare a thought about what Ravish feels and what he would make out of all this.

Clearly, Vividha is just trying to protect her little sister cos she knows this isn't gonna do her any good.


It is NOT love, and it is something much more dangerous than an infatuation - that we agree about.

@bold - you are objecting to the behavior only? If Guddi was looking at him discreetly, trying to analyze her feelings, etc - it would be fine. Am I interpreting this correctly?

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