What is the big deal about ONS? - Page 2

I don't understand this statement at all...


( Di, I am not judging him wrong, he has done this over and over again and again, but then like you said my expecations might be higher, but yeah to each their own.)

What did he do over and over again? He lied about Pia one time, it seems like I am missing something, was he having adulterous affairs after he got married over and over?

As for the lies, yes he did lie thrice, once about the park road raaz, once with Pia and the other about Bani when he sent away to prison, but you can understand the second reason, can't you? Bani lied to him as much as he did to her, if not more...The Bandh darwaza raaz and turkey raazes are not even his lies!! 😕 😕 😕

As for expectations being higher, yes! I expect the writers to write a more powerful story with strong characters...

Originally posted by: Sheena_Row

I don't understand this statement at all...


( Di, I am not judging him wrong, he has done this over and over again and again, but then like you said my expecations might be higher, but yeah to each their own.)

What did he do over and over again? He lied about Pia one time, it seems like I am missing something, was he having adulterous affairs after he got married over and over?

As for the lies, yes he did lie thrice, once about the park road raaz, once with Pia and the other about Bani when he sent away to prison, but you can understand the second reason, can't you? Bani lied to him as much as he did to her, if not more...The Bandh darwaza raaz and turkey raazes are not even his lies!! 😕 😕 😕

Yes 3 times, only once it can be a mistake not so many times, if he does it so many times its a character enhancement, lying about her is ok, but then what he did when with her somewhere during bani bday or something🤢 ........I remember once AD had blackmailed him to sleep with pia and he went to the room ewww that was the most disgusting thing Walia has ever done 🤢, see he never learns he does this over and over and ppl do the same thing again and again 😕, how can you call them mistakes they are all the same with different ppl but the samet hing when it comes to him

hmm, but di its not bani who is married now and is plotted to have sex with her new hubby 😆 I never said bani is dhoodh ki duli, but when compared to walia maybe she might be just a wee bit better 😉

As for expectations being higher, yes! I expect the writers to write a more powerful story with strong characters...

oh i agree with you, that ppl can show us something different, but apart from me do ppl want anything different than Pati patni and woh ?

akka rapu kaludhamu, me going for today take care sub raathri 😃

Originally posted by: Sheena_Row

I am a bani brigadier, so this comes as a shock to myself.

(oh i would never wish the walia curse on anybody, we are not asking him to have any, we are just asking what is the halla about it, he hide then he can hide now what is the big deal thats what we are telling)

You are judging him harshly, he loved his wife, he did not intentionally have an affair with Pia, he hid the facts (yes, stupid man), but only because he was too scared of losing the one relationship that he treasures the most.

So the Halla is about a man having an affair or ONS with someone when he clearly loves another. Now, that is what I consider amoral....

I respect him for not sleeping with Meera, I would have respected him a lot more for not marrying her. 😆 in the first place.

Morals are very easy to preach, hard to practice - and each to their own. Circumstances do make a man/woman to succumb to things -

So from my side, it's simple, no ONS, no affair, no sleeping around until the man figures out his feelings for his first wife.

As for your earlier statements about girls and their dreams, lot of young girls do dream about marrying a rich , successful guy -

I am a woman who has a successful career, my husband and I came to this country with just our education and not much else. We are both successful now, and enjoyed the path we took to get where we are.

Dreams are dreams, reality is reality. People don't watch serials thinking that everything in the soap is their life, they just imagine for that half an hour and forget it later. 😳

This is totally right👏