Maa vs. Daadi!

I am not liking both.

If I have to think only for Pragya and forget everyone else exist than I agree with Maa.
If I have to think only for Abhi leaving other people pain than I agree with Dadi.

But me as a person don't like both these ladies and I don't see any difference in them.

Dadi is better in one way, Maa is better in another way but basically both have double standards and are selfish.

They don't remember how much Help they get from others.

I am not a fan of both ladies either, but Daadi deffo scores better in my book than Maa so far! I am very curious to see Maa's reaction to the end of this kidnap stuff.

Both are extremely selfish but at least daadi had cared for Pragya's life, she blamed Pragya intentionally so that she is safe.

But maa is totally against Abhi & for that matter even purab. She knows that Abhi has a ML then how easily she blamed them for the problems in their life.

Daadi supported Pragya more than Abhi for example like mms track but maa said so many hurtful things to Abhi when she got to know about Tanu's pregnancy, she didn't even give him a benefit of doubt.

Maa never considered Abhi as her son! That shows in these situations! Abhi is totally cool about it and understanding it as Maa's outburst.. but then if he knew their history he would have felt bad.. glad he has ML! He doesn't need to feel bad for this kind of people.

Praveen!
I don;t know what irony you are seeing. There is a clear difference here between the two situations.
Pragya knew she is targetted by Taaliyah. Pragya knows Taaliyah are making TaBhi unite to make Pragya go away.
Pragya started meeting Abhi despite everything.
So if Daadi blamed Pragya for causing problems, there was a reason.

Abhi does not know Pragya and Taaliyah are against each other. Abhi did not ask Pragya to keep meeting him. No one warned Abhi that Pragya can be in problem if he kept meeting her. So what is the point in Maa blaming Abhi?

Maa knows Abhi has ML. If she didn't know, I will agree she can blame Abhi at the right of Pragya's husband.

Let's not forget that Pragya wanted to be around Abhi and took up the job that allows her to keep seeing him.

Originally posted by: -Tia-

Praveen!
I don;t know what irony you are seeing. There is a clear difference here between the two situations.
Pragya knew she is targetted by Taaliyah. Pragya knows Taaliyah are making TaBhi unite to make Pragya go away.
Pragya started meeting Abhi despite everything.
So if Daadi blamed Pragya for causing problems, there was a reason.

Abhi does not know Pragya and Taaliyah are against each other. Abhi did not ask Pragya to keep meeting him. No one warned Abhi that Pragya can be in problem if he kept meeting her. So what is the point in Maa blaming Abhi?

Maa knows Abhi has ML. If she didn't know, I will agree she can blame Abhi at the right of Pragya's husband.

Let's not forget that Pragya wanted to be around Abhi and took up the job that allows her to keep seeing him.

Even Maa could stop Pragya from going to Abhi beforehand! But then Daadi thinks she is helpless. She believes so. Maa also believed in Kumkum until a last few episodes.

Abhi did not put a gun on Pragya's head and ask her to work for him. Abhi did not say he will die if she didn't work for him. She could easily say it does not suit her qualifications.

But her priority was that she wanted to keep seeing him.. be around him.. as it made her happy. She ignored the realities.. that was Taaliyah danger. What counter plan Pragya had to escape Taaliayh? They made so many plans.. Abhi helped her in some.. but then what Pragya did to help herself?

Even Sarla Maa knew Aaliyah is against Pragya. Aaliyah had come to Pragya's house to warn her once. Aaliyah has killed BB too. Knowing all this, why Pragya was allowed to go to Abhi's house?

But again, the issue is Abhi does not know this. Why should he be blamed?

But then Pragya clearly knows her stay in MM is causing Aaliyah to ship TaBhi more and more... Aaliyah has spelled it out to her and to Daadi. So if Daadi saw that, and thought so too.. I don't think it was as bad.

Originally posted by: Praveen91

In my view both Daadi and Maa are wrong by blaming one child for other child's condition..

Eventhough blaming is wrong, I can find a big difference in situations... Daadi blames Pragya for Threat call to kill Abhi, even though the situation is under her control (She can stop the Dussera event) and asks Pragya to solve the mess created by her... Maa blames Abhi for kidnapping when situation is out of her control, She didn't ask Beta ji save my child...

As you said Daadi care for Pragya too while speaking to Indhu Daasi she wants Pragya to be away by causing danger to both Abhi and Pragya... But you forgot Maa also cares for Abhi, She asks Pragya to stay away from Abhi for both Abhi and Pragya's safety... This line made Pragya to decide move out of city...

And regarding Maa, She is always overprotective... She always get hyper whenever her child in a mess... She blames everyone... Even she blames Bulbul for Pragya's condition and Pragya for Bulbul's condition and Suresh for Prabul's condition... She remains herself from beginning to till now... Now she cames into limelight while blaming Abhi for Pragya's condition...

But regarding Daadi, She is quite selfish... She wants Pragya out of the house, when she thought Pragya is danger for Abhi... But after Dussehra, when she came to know that Target is not Abhi but Pragya, next day she went her home and tells all truth about Pragya to sarala ma except the dussehra day target is not Abhi but Pragya... After that she asks Pragya to help her to bring back Abhi's memory...

In Maa's POV - She lost her child due to Aaliya, She is insecure about losing her another child due to Aaliya... She wants Pragya to safe... That's all... People doesn't even care for her child when she is in mess.. Why do she care for their child... She thought her child will safe if she stays away from Abhi... When Abhi came, the danger surrounds her child...

People easily understands ML Abhi's POV, But they can't understand insecure Maa's POV... It is hard to control one's emotions before the person who has ML while her daughter is getting Kidnapped... I am not justifying Maa's actions, Whatever she did, it might right in her insecure Maa's POV...

And coming to the Topic Maa Vs Daadi... Daadi always uses Pragya and demanded her help whenever she wanted, and throw her out when she finds Pragya as danger for Abhi... But Maa never demands any help from Abhi, Whatever help she received from Abhi, he himself did it...

But Irony is

When Daadi blames Pragya for Abhi's condition - (It was like) What is a big deal, she cares for her grandson's safety...

When Maa blames Abhi for Pragya's condition - (It was like) How dare she..?? How can she forget what Abhi did for her family...