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i cant believe this mamaji...sooraj ko roshni dikhane ka kaam kiya aaj...lecturing dev about how a son shud remain devoted to his mom...and dev running to his mom to tell her how she is still his world...ishwari today dropped to a new depth in my eyes..
wen sona asked her y she did not inform her that ayan is coming today and ishwari was like it is nothing important to inform...strange...groom's family coming to meet her daughter and this incident is not important...
the way the makers hv managed to maintain the contrast between bose house and dixit house environment is amazing...i mean it is just not the storyline but we get the actual feeling of suffocation in ishwari niwaas and feeling of freedom in bose house...the scene where dev sona and rhea were hving fun and then ishwari entered and they all became statues like scared kids caught with a mischievous act...ishwari actually uses military discipline to rule her family...disgusting...
wen sona asked her y she did not inform her that ayan is coming today and ishwari was like it is nothing important to inform...strange...groom's family coming to meet her daughter and this incident is not important...
and there is no need to drag her past for every small matter...ishwari saying how every working day counted for her since they were so poor...but there is always a difference between poverty and being rich...today sona is not so majboor that she cant return home early to fulfill her domestic duties...sona wanting to be a perfect bahu, bhabhi, wife, ma is not wrong...but again ishwari compared with herself...because she failed to be perfect in every way so sona cant...y not...just because u failed that doesnt mean no else wont succeed...ishwari is so self obsessed that she always brings up her own life story to lecture sona about anything...y shud sona take a leaf out of her life...she has her own set of beliefs and dreams...she also has a mother who has taught her to pursue her dreams...there is no need for sona to accept ishwari's definition of life...
the way the makers hv managed to maintain the contrast between bose house and dixit house environment is amazing...i mean it is just not the storyline but we get the actual feeling of suffocation in ishwari niwaas and feeling of freedom in bose house...the scene where dev sona and rhea were hving fun and then ishwari entered and they all became statues like scared kids caught with a mischievous act...ishwari actually uses military discipline to rule her family...disgusting...
and then the last scene made my blood boil...
so sad...asha genuinely loves dev as her own son whereas ishwari if gvn a choice wud kick sona out of dev's life...however sona still calls her ma and gvs her due respect...and today dev promised ishwari that he will stop calling asha as ma...and ishwari was so thrilled that she hugged him after remaining on no talking terms with him since his return from his inlaws house...height of emotional blackmailing...wat will dev do now...will he call asha as aunty and still expect sona to consider his mom as her own mom and still expect sona to feel part of dixit family...i respect dev's undying love for ishwari since she is the only mother on earth who made numerous sacrifices to bring him up...but to show disrespect to wife's mother that too a MIL like asha who loves him so much then that is unforgivable...dev's reply shud hv been that for me only u r my ma but asha is equally a mother figure to me since she is the mother of the woman i love and who is my wife...instead he made a promise not even thinking that it will hurt sona...
i want an immediate situation where dev has to call asha...and i will see wat he will do...i want him to fall in the situation wen asha or sona will ask wat made him stop calling asha as ma...is it something asha has done to make him feel as an outsider...i am waiting to see dev's reply...dev always makes impulsive promises to ishwari as he succumbs to her emotional blackmails but now on i want him to face the consequences of each promise that he makes to ishwari because every promise that she makes to ishwari is wrong and every promse that he makes to sona is right...however he always breaks all promises made to sona to keep his promises made to ishwari...dev can never judge rite or wrong wen ishwari is concerned...that was ok till he was single...but now he has a wife and her emotions r also not to be taken for granted...today he cant make promises to his ma widout considering how that promise will affect his wife...
Anupamaa
