Men have no life other their woman?

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Living in 21 st century still expectation of men remain the same

- He should earn and make it big.

- Should devote time with loved one's.

- Cannot be with himself for a day... when in relationship orelse soemthing going on 😉

- Men can never have a bad day...should be smiling once at home no matter what?

Haa! come on times have changed still men cannot have freedom to live and do whatever he wants, why always live under pressure... smiley face even though he wrecked his ferarri...orelse something going on... 😆

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qwertyesque thumbnail
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Posted: 18 years ago
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ya i know its a womans world... sad but true...
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: qwertyesque

ya i know its a womans world... sad but true...

Nari unions doing andolans or dharnas should be asserted about the same and requested to close down thier sansthas 😆

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: raj5000

Nari unions doing andolans or dharnas should be asserted about the same and requested to close down thier sansthas 😆

😆 😆

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Posted: 18 years ago
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I feel all men are Feminist.... 😳 😕 i hate it but cant escape too 😕 😳 😃

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Masculinism, thats what needs to happen

So men can wear skirts, after all only real men wear kilts.
So men can watch Notebook and bawl like a baby
So men can wear pink
So men can cook and clean

The way I see it men themselves put pressure on men to be macho and masculine. A man cannot break the conformity of machoism without being teased for being gay or a sissy. Little boys cry their dad says don't cry like a girl. Guy is upset about something, friends say be a man, take it like a man.

Not all women expect their men to do it all. Many women would be more than happy to cut men some slack. However, male ego comes in the way if the woman is more successful. Both men and women are equally expected to make time for their families, both men and women are expected to brave through rough times with a smile.

Women are expected to carry a ten pound bowling ball in their belly for nine months, then shove it out of a tunnel of flesh and still be delightfully happy about the experience.

Whenever there is a discrepancy in expectations it is not right.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Masculinism, thats what needs to happen

So men can wear skirts, after all only real men wear kilts.
So men can watch Notebook and bawl like a baby
So men can wear pink
So men can cook and clean

The way I see it men themselves put pressure on men to be macho and masculine. A man cannot break the conformity of machoism without being teased for being gay or a sissy. Little boys cry their dad says don't cry like a girl. Guy is upset about something, friends say be a man, take it like a man.

Not all women expect their men to do it all. Many women would be more than happy to cut men some slack. However, male ego comes in the way if the woman is more successful. Both men and women are equally expected to make time for their families, both men and women are expected to brave through rough times with a smile.

Women are expected to carry a ten pound bowling ball in their belly for nine months, then shove it out of a tunnel of flesh and still be delightfully happy about the experience.

Whenever there is a discrepancy in expectations it is not right.



OMG!!! you had me in splits.... I should get this thing laminated and put on the wall... 😆 😆
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Posted: 18 years ago
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One day will definitely come, when Men and Women both realize the responsibility towards each other.. I will answer to this post then in a condition if I exist on earth 😉
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: raj5000

Living in 21 st century still expectation of men remain the same

- He should earn and make it big.

- Should devote time with loved one's.

- Cannot be with himself for a day... when in relationship orelse soemthing going on 😉

- Men can never have a bad day...should be smiling once at home no matter what?

Haa! come on times have changed still men cannot have freedom to live and do whatever he wants, why always live under pressure... smiley face even though he wrecked his ferarri...orelse something going on... 😆

I agree with hades, u put pressure on urselves to act that way😳

No one told you to earn and make it big - that is something you want to achieve yourself as all Guys aims are probably is to becoem a millionaire or some tycoon😳

Should devote time with loved ones- No one is saying 24.7 are they, - u guys just exaggerate here😊

Cannot be with himself for a day... when in relationship orelse soemthing going on 😉 - You can if you tell your exact where abouts, and give wife sat nav 😆....i dont think single guy however this is the case...so dont generalize😆 it shuld b married men have no other life then women😆

so remain young and single to avoid such hassle😛

- Men can never have a bad day...should be smiling once at home no matter what? - No who said that? thats purely ones assumption. And again can't be generalised , one can not help it if one's own family is lie that. not everyone is like that😉 but women always have things to deal with too and 'cant have a bad day' for sake of their own family. If they are ill, they will get on with it and of men are ill, omg they act like they are dying🤢(btw they will just have flu)😳

oh n as 4 wrecked car, wen guys think if they cry they are weak and loosers, so its all down to ur Insecurities, may i drown all guys now😉All down to ur Macho selves-- 😆 Now can a women help that😳

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: raj5000

Living in 21 st century still expectation of men remain the same

- He should earn and make it big.

- Should devote time with loved one's.

- Cannot be with himself for a day... when in relationship orelse soemthing going on 😉

- Men can never have a bad day...should be smiling once at home no matter what?

Haa! come on times have changed still men cannot have freedom to live and do whatever he wants, why always live under pressure... smiley face even though he wrecked his ferarri...orelse something going on... 😆

Shadi se pehle ki research hai kya???😆

@RTH - you go girl!

Raj, like women are the worst enemies of women, so have these standards been set for men by other men.

You think expectations have changed for women? We are still expected to know how to cook, change nappies, be homemakers, (bring dowries 😉) and additionally - work outside the home to bring in the moolah.

We are all living under pressure, not just men! It's just that we women tend to make light of it (or in some cases accept it as our fate) whereas men moanand groan about it!😃

My husband and I are in the same profession with similar working conditions except that I have additional admin responsibilities; yet, I am the one who is expected to cook, do the dishes, do the washing, tidy the house, water the plants, do the grocery... It's an entirely different matter that I don't do it 😆 Similarly, I don't expect my husband to support me financially, spend all his free time with me, smile all the time, (especially when he has wrecked the Ferrari 😆), work non-stop to make it big etc. Do you see the pattern here? Give and take, mutual respect and understanding - problem solved!!!😛

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