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ltelidevara

@ltelidevara

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+ 8

Posted: 9 years ago

Neha go back please

Just remember the look of your brother when you accidentally intruded his garden romance.

I don't know how you interpreted that look but I felt a strange disconnect that made me think again and again.What does he convey through that look?

I won't suspect his love for you.I can't doubt his intention to support you in your moment of crisis. But that look? It scared me Neha.That look refused to acknowledge your presence there.That look conveyed his present state of mind. He cancelled his Honeymoon plans.He understood your pain

But that look shows another aspect of his personality.

Neha Dev loves you all but now his wife definitely will be in the top most slot in the order of preference.It is the truth of life. He may gift you the desired ones,He may fight with Ranveer for you but still that look ? You both stand apart .That distance is the reality of life. A brother though closer to his sister drifts away after marriage.That look says it with flawless precision.

It is not easy to fight the long battle of life.You will come across many such looks from your brother.He will help you,spend lavishly to make you happy,support you by sheltering you at his mansion.But that look certainly shows how he drew the line that separates his marital bliss and his other responsibilities.

He is no exception. Every brother may be entitled to pursue his love his pleasures and his aspirations.

Neha don't count on your mother. She is in the last phase of her life.She had her fight with destiny.Now she is exhausted and done with the tensions and trials of her life.She needs peace and happiness.

Go back Neha. Continue your fight with your destiny but not from Iswari Mansion. Fight argue love and get back love . Ranveer is stubborn He is not able to provide what you want but still be there Neha. You can claim that house as your own though it hardly offers you privacy or peace.Still it is yours Neha.No one will look at you the way your brother did.

I strongly felt that you should be given space and time so that you can take your own decision.But no Neha that one look is enough to show you your place.No luxuries gifts or your AC Room can take away

the embarrassment that was caused and that will be caused by that single look.

Go Back Neha.Live your life with your husband .You don't deserve such looks.

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Jyoti Thakur

@JyotiBThakur

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Posted: 9 years ago

Seriously...!!!

I just can't believe someone can interpret that look from Dev in this way...😲

Edited by JyotiBThakur - 9 years ago

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Shaun

@Jade0001

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Posted: 9 years ago

Dev and his wife was in the garden romancing

Neha should have a little respect and not disturb them

but did you see the look on her face it was not sadness it was pure jealousy why should she be jealous of her brother's married love

Neha on her wedding night was annoyed because the kids wanted to come into the room she could not understand they don't know that she and Ranveer wants to move ahead in their marriage or start their marriage yet she interupts Dev and Sona , surely anyone would be annoyed at Neha she is a big girl she can understand a newly wedded couple needs time

Dev's look was not of any hatred or anything bad he was annoyed that his time with his wife is over so quickly

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Shaun

@Jade0001

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Posted: 9 years ago

The below gif just cracked me up

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cscs

@cscs

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Posted: 9 years ago

Sorry but your post title Neha go back sounds similar to, Simon go back . 🤣

Other than it i can comprehend nothing from this post. 😳

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

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Posted: 9 years ago

Hain? Where did you get that from?

Dev always bent over backwards for his family. All my complaints were for him is that he is so concerned trying to keep everyone else happy that he is shortchanging his married life.

What does he have to do to make Neha happy?

Should he start hovering over Neha 24/7? Oh wait, Neha wants privacy and to be left alone.

Should he shower money and gifts on Neha? Wait, he already did that.

Should he go threaten/bribe Ranveer for making his sister upset? Yep, did that too.

Should he forget his and Sona's happiness for Neha? Yep, cancelled honeymoon without talking to wifey. So check that as well.

The only thing left for him to do is when Neha spies on him and Sona's intimate moments, is to dump Sona and run after Neha which is a shitty thing to do.

He doesn't just have one sister, he has many other relationships as well.

And really, it surprises me that you expect Dev to pretty much kill all his happiness for Neha. But Ishwari needs peace and happiness. Never mind the fact that Ishwari deprived Neha of her happiness, not Dev. He was a child too, just like Neha. But he owes everyone everything and Ishwari owes nothing.

I thought she was supposed to make up for all the partiality that she has to do with Neha until today because of hard life and all. Yet, she never considered going to temple with Neha this time or spending one on one time with her which she always wants to do with Dev.

But still Ishwari is great mother...

Edited by tia.o - 9 years ago

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Shilky88

@Shilky88

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Posted: 9 years ago

Having said all of that I am surprised that you dont' want Neha to be a strong ,independent person so that she can help herself as far as Money,comforts etc is concerned.

You are never late to pursue your dreams.

Love will eventually follow!

Edited by Shilky88 - 9 years ago

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Pehchaan.Kaun

@Pehchaan.Kaun

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Posted: 9 years ago

Sorry cant agree Iti..

Firstly because - If I see someone romancing, my basic instinct would command me to leave them alone and not stare at them, be it in garden, in bedroom or in public queue.. What two people do is totally their business, if you have so much time and energy to stare endlessly at other people, that shows you have nothing left in your own life to do..

As for Dev's looks and his drawing limits, yes, after marriage it's the duty of both the spouses to put their partners in another level/priority and remaining all in another level, that's what marriage is isn't it ? Well to me it is.. It's of two halves becoming one right ? So giving highest priority to each other after marriage I dont think should be criticised, it's a lifetime bond, although it's an altogether different topic that Dev does not, and I hope we all are waiting for the day when he does..

Again coming back to Neha, she should focus on self-developement classes etc instead of doing such things, she comes out to the Diwali area but doesn't play, she comes out to the gift areas but doesn't participate in the fun, what's the purpose of such actions ? To pass around your pensiveness to other people as well ? Why ?

For Ishwari I dont think she wants peace and happiness, that's what one expects her to, but she wants Dev, Dev's time, importance from Dev and that's all.. Yesterday she said she is very happy because Dev accompanies her to Mandir and that's like ultimate happiness for her.. Wow, just few hours back she was showing everyone that she is sad due to Neha.. Hehe, much self-contradicting but not surprising since it's what Ishwari is..

More than going back to Ranveer, Neha should sit at her room and think about her priorities.. That what she really wants.. Only then she would be coming out as better person.. If she wants Money and luxury which she is getting, seeing others romancing shouldn't bother her, if she wants Ranveer, well just say it.. but living with this enormous grudges will only result in suffocating her further and people around her, that does no good.

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ltelidevara

@ltelidevara

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Posted: 9 years ago

@ Yes I understand what you say. But not every one will have that strength to move away unperturbed,And many such instances she will face like these.

So it is always disturbing for the couple and it is always a matter of grouse for Neha.

When she lacks the will power she should avoid the situation.If she stays there umpteen such moments she will face.

As for Dev's looks and his drawing limits, yes, after marriage it's the duty of both the spouses to put their partners in another level/priority and remaining all in another level, that's what marriage is isn't it ? Well to me it is.. It's of two halves becoming one right ? So giving highest priority to each other after marriage I dont think should be criticised, it's a lifetime bond, although it's an altogether different topic that Dev does not, and I hope we all are waiting for the day when he does..

@ Actually that look haunted me many days.I did not criticise that look. I asked Neha to understand the unspoken yet strong but strange sense that conveyed Dev's feeling.It scared me. I want Neha also

To get scared.not out of fear. But because Dev intended to give that message that he wants no intrusion,that Neha standing there and staring endlessly definitely disturbed him but certainly he would never let his moment of joy got disturbed despite her presence,all this is conveyed through that single look.I said it is the truth of life. That after marriage every other relationship becomes secondary,That is

Why I said get the inherent meaning of that look and realise the truth of life. Hats off to Shaheer for his great performance. His eyes just express the required emotion.He doesn't need lines at all.

Again coming back to Neha, she should focus on self-developement classes etc instead of doing such things, she comes out to the Diwali area but doesn't play, she comes out to the gift areas but doesn't participate in the fun, what's the purpose of such actions ? To pass around your pensiveness to other people as well ? Why ?

@ I reiterate Neha should go back and try all those you suggested from there.I feel she won't be able to tune her mind for self development in her present state.

For Ishwari I dont think she wants peace and happiness, that's what one expects her to, but she wants Dev, Dev's time, importance from Dev and that's all.. Yesterday she said she is very happy because Dev accompanies her to Mandir and that's like ultimate happiness for her.. Wow, just few hours back she was showing everyone that she is sad due to Neha.. Hehe, much self-contradicting but not surprising since it's what Ishwari is..

@I am sorry I restrict myself from saying anything on Iswari. We have widely different views on her.

More than going back to Ranveer, Neha should sit at her room and think about her priorities.. That what she really wants.. Only then she would be coming out as better person.. If she wants Money and luxury which she is getting, seeing others romancing shouldn't bother her, if she wants Ranveer, well just say it.. but living with this enormous grudges will only result in suffocating her further and people around her, that does no good.

@ I still feel she will not be able to do the retrospection living at Iswari Nivas.Moreover she will intrude into the private moments of her brother unintentionally. So I asked her to analyse that look and go back to her home and try to give a second chance to her marriage.

Thanq for always expressing your views whenever I stated my part. I respect you a lot. Though we differ most of the time it is a pleasure to see you in my thread. Thanks again.

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ltelidevara

@ltelidevara

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: Shilky88
Having said all of that I am surprised that you dont' want Neha to be a strong ,independent person so that she can help herself as far as Money,comforts etc is concerned.
You are never late to pursue your dreams.
Love will eventually follow!

Yes I very much want her to be independent and self sufficient. But I feared in the environment she is in she can not make it possible.More than that she will be an intruder in the same way as she was shown before.I want her to go back and try her best rather than sulking before her family.

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