Find Me a Pillar... - My Rants on Yest Epi

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Find me a strong pillar .. So that I can hit my head all I want...

Seriously, yesterday I totally lost it..

Seeing whole family okie with Bua Dadi do comparison between Gayu and Naira and makes Naira feels not so worthy, I feel so furious.

I know comparison between siblings is a common thing but someone either Mom or Dad will put full stop in those comparison talk so that the kids wont feel bad.

But here no such thing happened. Parents need to know whats wrong with kids with just a glimpse on their face. Thats how is a parent should be. I feel so sorry for Naira for being treated like a outsider in her own family.

I didnt blame Naira parents solely for this. But they should be aware of their own kids behaviour. One time Ak wants to know what is wrong with Naira at the same time she is saying Gayu heart shouldn't be break. How Naira will share her feelings when own family wants happiness for another one and clearly knows with if she open her mouth, happiness will be gone.

For once, put everything aside and just listen to what Naira wants to say.

And No one wants to hurt Gayu feelings just because she lost her parents. If whole family doesn't want to break Gayu heart then why raise Naira, Duggu and Misthi with them. Better send those kids to somewhere else and keep Gayu with them only and put a big bubble around her so that she wont get hurt.


~ A Kaira fan ranting...
Haters dont have place here...
And this is not a comparison post coz I am not Bua Dadi.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Bang on postt.i mean don't they realise even after rashmi died everyone literally danced to Gayu tunes
Naira was alone she has a past which still haunts her.
No care for naira??
Gayu ka dil kamzoor hai kyun bhai is she a heart patient?
What abt mishti naira kachree see uthaake laye ho kya??
The comparison would actually kill naira confidence and land her in major depression
If it was me or any normal house parents would never have allowed comparison btw der own children!
Naira should really run away
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ItsmeAish

Bang on postt.i mean don't they realise even after rashmi died everyone literally danced to Gayu tunes

Naira was alone she has a past which still haunts her.
No care for naira??
Gayu ka dil kamzoor hai kyun bhai is she a heart patient?
What abt mishti naira kachree see uthaake laye ho kya??
The comparison would actually kill naira confidence and land her in major depression
If it was me or any normal house parents would never have allowed comparison btw der own children!
Naira should really run away


same feelings Aishu..

Comparison is good if its healthy but Bua Dadi making Naira feels so not worthy... grrr...
Best option is Naira should runaway but Now I think she shouldn't run...
She should show to Bua Dadi she is something and they should be proud to say that Naira is their children...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: .LovelyDreamer.

Find me a strong pillar .. So that I can hit my head all I want...


Seriously, yesterday I totally lost it..

Seeing whole family okie with Bua Dadi do comparison between Gayu and Naira and makes Naira feels not so worthy, I feel so furious.

I know comparison between siblings is a common thing but someone either Mom or Dad will put full stop in those comparison talk so that the kids wont feel bad.

But here no such thing happened. Parents need to know whats wrong with kids with just a glimpse on their face. Thats how is a parent should be. I feel so sorry for Naira for being treated like a outsider in her own family.

I didnt blame Naira parents solely for this. But they should be aware of their own kids behaviour. One time Ak wants to know what is wrong with Naira at the same time she is saying Gayu heart shouldn't be break. How Naira will share her feelings when own family wants happiness for another one and clearly knows with if she open her mouth, happiness will be gone.

For once, put everything aside and just listen to what Naira wants to say.

And No one wants to hurt Gayu feelings just because she lost her parents. If whole family doesn't want to break Gayu heart then why raise Naira, Duggu and Misthi with them. Better send those kids to somewhere else and keep Gayu with them only and put a big bubble around her so that she wont get hurt.


~ A Kaira fan ranting...
Haters dont have place here...
And this is not a comparison post coz I am not Bua Dadi.

Bold 🤣
Anyways coming to the post.. no one is on such a bechari mode anywhere...
Gayu has crossed all limits of being q bechari...
And the demigod status they give her is just not acceptable..
And naira mishti should leave this madhouse as soon as possible..
Its as if only gayu is visible to them and those constant taunts from baisa...

Mishti should just go to hostel instead of staying here
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Posted: 8 years ago
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"this is not a comparison post coz i m not bua dadi" abby u r the best 🤣 yup u r right if they cant hurt gayu anytime they should allow naira mishti duggu to stay away from home 😆 whole family is being pathetic.i seriously dont blame naira now to get ready to sacrifice.what ll she do?she knows she had make mistake by running away n thats still a very sensitive topic for her thats the reason even after so much of taunting shes not showing her real self n trying to mould herself as a cat.still these ppl worship devi gayu(goddess of parchayi) she ll think na its better i sacrifice my happiness coz anyway i wont b happy hurting this whole family's emotion 😭 my poor bachhi.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: beatsdongandy

"this is not a comparison post coz i m not bua dadi" abby u r the best 🤣 yup u r right if they cant hurt gayu anytime they should allow naira mishti duggu to stay away from home 😆 whole family is being pathetic.i seriously dont blame naira now to get ready to sacrifice.what ll she do?she knows she had make mistake by running away n thats still a very sensitive topic for her thats the reason even after so much of taunting shes not showing her real self n trying to mould herself as a cat.still these ppl worship devi gayu(goddess of parchayi) she ll think na its better i sacrifice my happiness coz anyway i wont b happy hurting this whole family's emotion 😭 my poor bachhi.


Hahaha...
I like that sentence too...
Have to write it, who knows who will report my post.. hahaha


Back to our topic, Poor Bachhi...
Feel so lonely even when whole clan with her.. She wants Karthik but at the same time she cant let her family happiness ruined... She is back in dilemma.. Phele was in trusting Karthik and now to Get karthik or not..

I seriously want AKNK to find Kaira matter soon.. This headache, P should be on them not Naira..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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exactly.
im fed up with both dadi drama and orphan card. CV need to decide first whethr gayu is orphan or ak-nk daughter. one moment gayu is orphan other moment she is nk-ak elder daughter. gayu feels bad when naira get some attention, feels sad when naira hugs her brother and decorate mandir. she was ready to call ak mama. even family refers gayu as akshars daughter. but then when it comes karthik she is orphan. seriously? in precap she said she is unlucky when it comes loved one and the one she loves left her and all. then what about the immense love she got from nk and ak? she lost her parents but got another set of parents who is putting her above everything.
and gayu suffered lot? what suffering? she is orphan but never lived life of orphan. dud she? she got a complete family and was never be alone. other hand naira who had both parents but lived as orphan for years. its naira who suffered. its her who struggled and led a life alone. now dont tell me that its nairas fault. she was a kid back then. and look at mishti. what about her suffering? why family cant see her suffering?
and dadi's constant comparisn is the worst. gayu is like akshara and naira isnt. so she is bad. seriously? in my pov saying gayu is ak's parchayi is an insult for akshara. grom what i see akshara is brave, straight forward, understanding lady who is capable of handling problems herself rather than just sitting and crying and assuming things. and even if naira is not like akshara whats the problm? its individual personality and naira hav her own one. correct her if she is wrong. but degrading her and constantly saying how bad she as she is not luke gayu is not acceptable.
and last but not least why family nd ak reminding naira not to break gayu's heart? it would hav make sense if naira is elder than gayu. but for gods sake naira is younger sisterand taking care should be the way -_-
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Totally agree with the post and all reply here . . Gayu ka dil nahi tutna chahiye as if naira is stone hearted and the way Bua dadi keeps taunting her it's like naira is housekeeping maid or something in that house , I so wish she runs away from that hopeless place again 🥱 they keep nursing gayu's wounds while they have totally forgotten naira needed healing too specially when it was her who lead a life of orphan for so long I have high expectations from Akshara though n naksh if n when he is back , otherwise new papa is total 360degree opposite of what naira's papa was like when she was away from house..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I missed yesterday's episode, after reading the hotstar update I had no energy to see it but yes bua dadi should stop comparing the two girls with each other or with Akshara and the family should stop standing like wax statues. If sacraficing idea has entered Naira's mind our baby is not to be blamed a single bit, how much will the poor girl fight for herself, there is a time when you need you family to support you as well, everytime bua dadi puts our girl down no one says a word to her, Akshara did side Naira on Karva Chauth but that wouldn't do much for Naira's confidence, because she would think Akshara is her mother so is on her side. The other family members stay mum while bua dadi is talking and when she is done lecturing and breaking Naira's heart then they will tell her Naira is a nice girl and after that if BD says she is doing it for Naira's own good, they will resume silence again. For God sake even Naitik wasn't shown taking her side.
About Ak giving crystal part as I said I haven't seen it but read through the written episode, Ak does give her the crystal saying to handel it carefully so Gayu's heart doesn't break but the truth here is the crystal is Gayu's but Naira's heart. So indirectly unknowingly Ak asked Naira not to let her heart break.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Anbu🤣🤣🤣

Like we all discussed yesterday. Singhanias really are the worst family ever. Pamper and spoil a girl so much so that she has become a delusional mental case and ignore the other girl just because she's you're own flesh and blood. Never seen a more insensitive and ridiculously blind family before. No wonder Naira ran away. I swear she should do it again.

Ignore the girl who has been away from home from 7 years. Pamper the girl who has lived among luxuries all her life.
Ignore the one who lived the life of an orphan. Pamper the one who got to be the apple of everyone's eyes and forgot all about her own parents.
Ignore the girl who had to struggle for every single penny. Who cares if she never had the luxury of attending a school or college right? More important is concentrating on making our bimbo adopted daughter's life more awesome. Lets gift wrap career and opportunities that she needs to make it big in the industry and give it to the girl who never had to struggle a single day of her life.👏
Ignore the girl who has always suffered heart breaks and disasters, one after the other. Pamper the one who has never had to suffer anything more than breaking a freaking nail.

Honestly, like somy said I am so happy Naira grew up away from this psychotic family. If she lived with them she might have turned into Delusional Queen part 2.🤢

We love you N.🤗 Take our advice and go back to Hrishikesh. They don't deserve your love or your sacrifice you dhakkan. Don't kill your happiness for such complete morons. I cannot believe you are sacrificing both you're happiness for such ungrateful and undeserving crap of a family. My baby was so strong and ready to fight for what really belonged to her but no! That wretched family had to make her guilt trip and force her to take the freaking sacrificial route! 😭 I HATE them SO DARN MUCH! All of them should seriously just drop ..you know what!😡😡😡 Delusional queen ki delusional family! Wah! No wonder Parchayi is sooo Parchayish. 🤢

My Gosh! Honestly! I have never been so unbelievably angry at a family on TV before. The hypocritical as*wipes!😡😡😡
Edited by misaki - 8 years ago

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