A few thoughts.

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pyaaribehna

@pyaaribehna

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Posted: 9 years ago

Much has been said about the issues in Dixit parivaar.

I have many questions but let me start here.

Sona knew about Dev's possessive mum. So where is the necessity to plan a trip to Paris for honeymoon when one has so many nanads and a possessive mum? They could have gone to some place in India for the time being. Let the commotion die down and then plan a nice trip.

As for Neha's issue it seems to be never ending. There is no need for Sona to go and "sort out" for Neha. Just mind your own married life. Sona gave way too much advice before. It is better to keep quiet under such situations.

Any mother would feel like that when a son goes away with his newly married wife for fifteen days.

I know of a family who went with the couple on their "honey moon" because they thought the couple would never come back.

You see it takes all sorts of people to make the world. correct or not Dixits are what they are. A house full of females who hang on to Dev.

Neha had her share of problems. Money could not solve her issues. But she married on her own. She had better bear with it without education without having anything to do on her own sponging on her brother even if she had sacrificed so much for him does not seem right.

Eswari no matter what she had done for Dev she cannot stand in the way of his happiness. She has to let him live his life. Even if Neha is unhappy she does not have the right to tell Dev not to be happy with his wife. After all newly married moments. do not come in anybody's life again

Sona talking about Neha's problem is not right as somebody pointed out in the forum. But that does not mean she cannot share things with her own parents. If ishwari talks about Neha as the reason for Sona Dev not going on honeymoon. she has to say that to her parents. in private. She has every right to talk about it to her parents. Not gossip to some third person her own parents. since it has affected her.

Neha has no right to get angry. Her place is weak. She has no right to stand in the way of Sona Dev's happiness. After all they are a jealous lot. They sponge on Dev monetarily and emotionally. Neha should find a way to live on her own manage her own finances be happy even if her marriage broke and not disturb newly weds.

That is IMHO. Waiting for everybody's thoughts on the matter.

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Posted: 9 years ago

Ishwari spoke to Sona about Neha and Ranveer so Sona goes to the market sees Ranveer and brings him home so he and Neha can sort their problems it may be wrong it may be right but from my POV Sona just wanted husband and wife to iron out their issues its not something good when a married couple splits the family members has to try their best to bring them together .

Neha I had thought was in pain and was angry at Ranveer but she is simply jealous of her brother's married life seeing Dev and Sona together in a romantic way she was filled with jealousy and rage that is wrong she has no idea the struggles DevAKshi endured to get to that point , even if her married life is falling apart she does not expect that Dev must leave his wife now .

Ishwari has a problem that Dev will fall in love with his wife , it simply means that she does not trust her son

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pyaaribehna

@pyaaribehna

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Jade0001
Ishwari spoke to Sona about Neha and Ranveer so Sona goes to the market sees Ranveer and brings him home so he and Neha can sort their problems it may be wrong it may be right but from my POV Sona just wanted husband and wife to iron out their issues its not something good when a married couple splits the family members has to try their best to bring them together .
Neha I had thought was in pain and was angry at Ranveer but she is simply jealous of her brother's married life seeing Dev and Sona together in a romantic way she was filled with jealousy and rage that is wrong she has no idea the struggles DevAKshi endured to get to that point , even if her married life is falling apart she does not expect that Dev must leave his wife now .
Ishwari has a problem that Dev will fall in love with his wife , it simply means that she does not trust her son

I understand Sona must have met Ranveer just by chance. But she bringing him home to sort Neha's problem was that needed>?She interferes too much. in Neha's life. when she knows there is problem between them why then did she bring Ranveer home?

That way I do not understand what Neha's problem is .

She is the one who met and fell in love with Ranveer knowing he is not rich. Then why is she creating problem now?

Neha seems to be bad tempered all the time. Sometimes she is shown as rude sometimes fond of luxurious things. Why then did she end up with a person like Ranveer who is poor whose family is a joint family?

As for being jealous of Sona what is there to be jealous of Sona. Sona landed up in a parivaar like Neha and Ishwari's and she did not know what she was in for.

Neha' s sasural is better than Sona's sasural. At least there is no Radha there.

As for Neha I do not understand what her problem is . Her sasural is nicer than Sona's sasural. Only Money is less. If Ranveer is not as romantic as Dev why then did Neha want to marry him?

Neha seems to be a confused person

But jealousy sharp tongue, rude words she abounds in these.

Someone should tell Dixit parivaar how they are frankly to face. and I am not saying this in support of Sona.

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pyaaribehna

@pyaaribehna

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Posted: 9 years ago

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/kuch-rang-pyar-ke-aise-bhi/4631999/those-twisted-dixits

What is there to analyze so much about the Dixits?

The cvs ruined every Dixit'/s character even including Dev Dixt.

Eshwari favors her son over her daughter Neha. She is crudely insensitive to Neha who is crudely misehaving after Dixits became rich.

Nobody has any depth. I don't think it would have mattered to Eswari if Natasha Gurjal was not a vegetarian. But Sona being one matters. Because Sona is not so rich also because Dev loves Sona.

Eswari undestands Neha's sacrifices. but only uses the knowledge to ruin the fun between Dev and Sona by guilt tripping Dev.

But she never gives advice to Neha to help her live her life better. Neha is a jealous bad tempered human being who made nothing of her life . Also she had to marry to make way for her brother's marraige.

She the rude nasty person she is should have chosen a rich guy where she would not have to dirty her hands. But no she fell in "love' with Ranveer who even if he earns can never be as rich as Dev or Neha's maike. Still he insists on living with his mother and brother's family and is hard and tough with Neha.

Neha in turn is rough and rude to Sona and sometimes Eswari and jealous of Sona /Dixit.

Whether they are so or cvs made them so one does not know.

But yes they get this "idea" of Eswari being "understanding" to Neha's issues from the views in the forum.

Left to them they would have made Eswari as rude as Neha herself.

Combined they all make Sona's life miserable.

But her father and mother are there to support Sona. plus she is educated. So she gets her way speaks up goes on date and stays the night out with hubby.

Well we know which way the cvs go. Neha will be given good hard advice on how women should dirty their hands wash bartans in sasuraal , live as joint family and live on meagre earnings of their husband and when they make their bed they have to lie there. probably this advice will be doled out by Sona. who is all set on giving free advice. she is not at the receiving end. so she does not know. It is easy to speak when one is in a good position. and besides CVS will make Sona the be all and end all of all bahus anywhere in tv kingdom. and there is nobody else in the world who can be such a romantic pair as Sona/Dev only because there is no girl like Sona ever anywhere in the Dixit dom. Dixitdom is make of leeches like Radha mami and possessive women like Eswari ( cvs dare not go further on what that possessiveness means) and mean jealous Nanads like Neha uneducated jealous and proud of their rich status and fights for everything with her brother who gives her so much. Sona is so great educated (there is nobody else in the world who is as educated as her. Nobody as nice as her parents. Dev is great only because of her. etc etc)

There is no analysis. Dixits are the bad people . and Sona and family are the good ones. further demonstrated by Sona's free advice on how to be a good bahu to Neha.advice doled out with no practial knowledge herself. yet Sona will be the great one. rest all so low down.

Edited by pyaaribehna - 9 years ago

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mena_k

@mena_k

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Posted: 9 years ago

What Neha is today is fault of her mother. She made her into this. Neha is nice internally as can be seen from the way she handled her two younger siblings exactly like a mother would be. She is not bad per say, but circumstances made her into a tantrum girl who tries all this to get the attention from her mother and brother since other wise no one even knows she exists in their lives. She never got loved her entire life. Yes the decision to marry Ranveer was hers and hers only, but then seeing herself being second to his family even there hurt her. She lacks logical thinking ability and emotionally challenged. She needs someone like Sona to talk, understand and set priorities of her life.
Sona was forced to come into picture. After the day Neha returned from her sasural and Ishwari told her not to talk or interfere in the matter, Sona never bothered about Neha. But then Neha was seen lurking outside Devakshi bedroom when they were having private talk, was seen hovering around the garden area when they were having romantic moment and the HM cancellation only because Neha's relation was breaking and Ishwari wanted them to stay and solve the issue. Sona has no choice but to solve the problem thrown at her, or else she may say tata bye bye to her married life, because Neha would definitely be unhappy throughout her life and Ishwari will make Dev leave Sona once more for Neha's happiness.

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pyaaribehna

@pyaaribehna

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: mena_k
What Neha is today is fault of her mother. She made her into this. Neha is nice internally as can be seen from the way she handled her two younger siblings exactly like a mother would be. She is not bad per say, but circumstances made her into a tantrum girl who tries all this to get the attention from her mother and brother since other wise no one even knows she exists in their lives. She never got loved her entire life. Yes the decision to marry Ranveer was hers and hers only, but then seeing herself being second to his family even there hurt her. She lacks logical thinking ability and emotionally challenged. She needs someone like Sona to talk, understand and set priorities of her life.
Sona was forced to come into picture. After the day Neha returned from her sasural and Ishwari told her not to talk or interfere in the matter, Sona never bothered about Neha. But then Neha was seen lurking outside Devakshi bedroom when they were having private talk, was seen hovering around the garden area when they were having romantic moment and the HM cancellation only because Neha's relation was breaking and Ishwari wanted them to stay and solve the issue. Sona has no choice but to solve the problem thrown at her, or else she may say tata bye bye to her married life, because Neha would definitely be unhappy throughout her life and Ishwari will make Dev leave Sona once more for Neha's happiness.

I understand your analysis of Neha's character. But so far Neha has only shown all negative traits. Now from your post she has been eavesdropping on Dev Neha's romantic conversation.

To the best of my ability I do not understand what is so great about a newly married couple. They need their privacy. What will Neha do listening to their private convo?

She can go back to school or college if you ask me that is what I would say again and again. Education does wonderful things to people.

Neha if she felt she was only second to Dev in her mother's eyes why did she choose a poor parivaar like Ranveer's . There are so many difficulties there in additon to being poor.

She likes luxurious lifestyle and araam ki zindagi. She would hate to wash dishes and live in a joint family. And a husband who has to earn to the end of his lfie to be able to take her on a honeymoon by themselves that too. Knowing him he would want to take his family along. till his own family comes along and they would not be able to have any privacy any more.

I feel sorry for Neha. She is confused person. No amount of grumbling and rudeness is going to get her any attention from Eswari . After all Neha is good for nothing. Uneducated useless sitting at home no earnings. while Dev is successful so rich and his mom is everything to him or so she believes.

Sona is she in trouble because of Neha? Will her married life come to an end if Neha's problems do not get solved? No I don't think so. Sona will get her way just like she did when she took Dev out and the "car broke down" and they stayed the night out.

She is today's girl . Dixits are no match for her. No that is not why she tries to solve Neha's problem. She is trying to interfere because cvs want to show her as the be all and end all of all the women in this serial.

Frankly my dear after her sermon on the lehenga episode comparing Neha to a gudia I am sure she will come up with something like gudiya should wash vessels. Gudiya should have no feelings of her own etc etc.

At least cvs can show Sona as wishing Neha good and not some unbelievably "good" super woman who has endless free advice up her sleeve for every situation. What does it matter what I rant about . That is what they are going to show.

Edited by pyaaribehna - 9 years ago

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