Woman character is questioned and family is not bothered about it

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hello Everyone,

I don't make a separate thread for reviews but today I'm so angry when a woman dignity is questioned instead of addressing that issue in today episode they were showing that the family is not even bothered about it and was worried about something else so opened this thread to see whether anybody else shared my thoughts.

Today episode was totally ridiculous and the only one person who made sense today is Bala mom I'm even surprised I'm in camp Bala mom today.

The episode starts with amma playing with Pihu Shagun going towards them to cover Pihu burns but Simmi takes amma for the puja and Shagun asks Pihu to cover the burns. Adi/Aliya do the puja(Which was ridiculous for me) Panditji comes he is impressed with the puja and paati is all praises the kids still know their tradition Panditji asks couples to do the puja and when IshRa start Bala amma objects

She questions the validity of marriage (according to YHM 7 rule clause that their marriage was null and void was the reason given by Raman to amma before marrying Shagun when amma questioned him how can he marry Shagun when Ishita is alive) she says Ishita/Mani lived as a couple and Raman/Shagun lived as a couple and when Ishita came Raman was marrying Shagun so for them marriage is joke they don't follow traditions(Till here she was correct) She asks Paati why are giving Aliya hand in marriage in this family they would spoil her Vandu asks her to stop it but Bala mom refuses Shagun thinks Pihu should not know the truth and goes in search of her Bala asks to stop it amma says being our relative how can you talk about like this. (In a way I liked this scene because somebody had to point out the reality to both the families regarding IshRa relationship but I did not like the fact that Raman stood mute when somebody questioned his wife character)

Paati shouts stops and asks Mani is this true Mani tries to tell her that it is complicated but she doesn't want to know the story just a yes or no Mani says yes Paati shouts AA is cancelled and walks out from there (What the hell Paati did not know for the fact that Mani was paralyzed or Ishita was taking care of the kids utter nonsense which grandma will isolate herself from her grand-kids and that too they are last symbol of her son who is no more in this earth) Mani walks behind her and Ishita is standing crying alone in the crowd (I felt really bad for her one person questioned her character and not one person(amma,appa,sister,sil, in-laws, kids or husband did keep a comforting/supporting hand on her)

Vandu is apologizing to Aliya and Raman for her MIL behavior(I was what the heck she was correct in apologizing to Raman but what about her sister who dignity has been questioned no she is more into taking care of Aliya Ishita are you for real when one person points a finger at your character you should be worried about yourself first instead of taking care of Aliya) Vandu says she will apologize to Paati in comes Paati she says she doesn't need it and questions Ishita about faking a suicide act to live with Mani(If she doesn't know what transpired 7 years ago how did she know that Ishita faked a suicide to live with Mani) Bhalla says to her you only know half the truth but she shuts him up saying I'm from a village we know only few things a girl can live with father/brother or sister but to live with a man without marriage is SIN(So according to Paati there are no other relationship for a girl like a friend and what Ishita did was SIN but Mani/Raman are excused because they are man and Shagun is excused because she is married now so all 3 sins are washed away except Ishita who is still living in SIN with her husband) (I was so pissed at Ishita/Raman/Mani here Ishita for not standing up for her dignity Raman for not standing up for his wife and Mani for not standing up for his ex-friend)

Paati drags Aliya and Adi comes with his bags Patti seeing Adi steps aside and says she will wait for her outside Aliay/Adi hug in the middle of the room with Paati and everyone else looking(Wow what double standards for Paati👏 if as she says she is conservative she would not have allowed Aliya to talk with Adi in the first place let alone hug him in the middle of the room where everyone can see) Bala asks his mom what was the need to create this ruckus did you even think about the kids life getting spoiled he asks what proof do you want that Ishita marriage is valid why are you always behind Ishita come and clear with paati first but his mom says to him that she is not wrong that is what the world talks about Raman and Ishita and she would not come and leaves amma/appa look at her

Mani breaking the hug asks Aliya to come with him Aliya refuses saying she loves Adi Adi says to her that this is there test of love so they have to bear it as they were not able to win the respective father heart he says to her dadi is upset we cannot get married without her blessings and takes her hand and gives to Mani uncle and says to him that don't worry we will not do something stupid which will put you and my parents into shame(Till here he was correct) He says to Mani dadi had a lot of expectation but me and my family could not full-fill it but my love for Aliya will not diminish and walks away from them(I was appalled when he said that he agreed that his parents are living in SIN)(I guess Mani/Raman are impressed by Adi) Mani/Paati/Aliya leave Ishita is crying

Ishita is crying to sleeping Adi and apologies to him he wakes up she tries to go away from there but Adi realizes she is crying and asks why are you crying she says to him she lost everyone because of her running away(Way to go CV👏👏👏 shifted the entire blame to Ishita and made her worse than Shagun at least Shagun left for another man but here Ishita ran away leaving behind the entire family including a pre-mature child for nothing) I lost Ruhi, Puhi and now because of me and my mistake you lost your love I'm such a bad mother forgive me. Adi consoles her saying she is not a bad mother and when she was not there they were breathing but when she came back they started living. He says to her don't be sorry be happy that you were Aliya mom for few years so that she is not jealous that I got such a nice mom. God decided we are going to share our lives so he decided to share our mom first(This line was so touching) He says to him Ishima Aliya is your daughter she will take decision like you(I did not understand the context here at all) He asks her not to worry but to sleep without crying she gets up from bed feeling better but accidentally pushes the pillows and sees Aliya photo and realizes that Adi is missing her so much and hugs him and leaves. Adi/Aliya are looking at the photo and a background song is playing for them

Precap: Raman says to Ishita that he did not understand his son love but he would beg,fall at the feet of the paati and get them married he promises Ishita(I was thinking so then definitely AA wedding is not going to happen because whenever he promises Ishita he always ends up doing the opposite of that)Ishita is happy hearing the promise.

The things which bothered me in the episode are

1. Ishita never stood up for her dignity.

2. Raman did not open his mouth when repeatedly people were questioning his wife character

3. No one gave a dam when IshRa relationship was questioned instead everybody was sad that AA life got ruined

4. Everyone thinks Ishita did a drama of committing suicide and no one really knows why Mani was paralyzed.

5. Amma/appa is Ishita even your child that you stand like dummies when people question her character

6. Where is Toshjii today with her loud voice to stop Paati from accusing her son/dil of living in a illegitimate relationship.

8. How CV are portraying that Ishita is the only person who is at fault for separation.

9. When will Shagun pictures come down from Bhalla wall


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Posted: 8 years ago
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@maya, your rant is absolutely justified. More than at Raman(he was always mute when anyone was insulting Ishita), I am pissed off at the families and Ishita..she cannot stand up for herself and her dignity..Mani and Raman get a clean slate, Shagun because she is married. Ishita is not a role model for any of her daughters..I am not even watching any of the episodes, the magic is dead and this AA is irritating..I mean they are in their early 20s, no career to speak of and Adi is thinking of next level...what nonsense..he is lucky he is RKB's son, or else with his degree he will not be able to get a job nor afford a place to rent..He was going to do MBA, what happened to that. Raman said he needs to establish himself first and study MBA and then he will go to Mani and ask for Aliya's hand. What happened to all that...God..this has really seen the lows..Ishita was so much into self respect and where has it all gone. Wish she never came back..grow some spine..Her character has become so irritating and demeaning to all women. IShita's parents are a laughing stock,,,hope no one gets parents like them. They think that because of her handicap, she should bear everything..I think Ashok should hire an assasin and put Ishita/Raman out of their misery. Too much crying and not doing anything..
I didnt watch, but just reading the reviews...got me to rant.
Edited by Mreddy - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I agree wid each n evry word u said maya..
i didnt liked epi at al... it ws a totally disgusting epi...

Y al balme on ishita... whn raman used on venemous words on ishita pre leap none.. i mean none stud up for her.. even amma appa were mute... it ws nt jst ramans words dat lead ishita to dow at she did... bt also evryone else...if dey had supported n cared for dere daughter dn al ds cud hv been nt happened..
dey shud hv given ishtia support n strength to stand agst raman pre leap..
so i really didnt expected anyone today to speak even...
whn dey were mute dn so today it ws nthin...
whn dey didnt thought bout ishita whn person who luvd her said al dose dn wat cud hv been expectd today whn a random badmouth ws speaking today..

anyways pre leap is past so wud nt go dere much...n alot has been ranted n discussed bout it...

ENTIRE EPI WS BLAH !!!



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Posted: 8 years ago
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Episode toh dekha nahi
But fron your review
I'm glad I save my half hour
I agree with you
Show ke main leads to ab AA ban gaye hain
Ishita aur raman ka kam toh logon ki batein sunna reh gaya ha
Aj yeh pati aur bala ki mom ha
Kal shagun aur pihu bolein gi
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mreddy

@maya, your rant is absolutely justified. More than at Raman(he was always mute when anyone was insulting Ishita), I am pissed off at the families and Ishita..she cannot stand up for herself and her dignity..Mani and Raman get a clean slate, Shagun because she is married. Ishita is not a role model for any of her daughters..I am not even watching any of the episodes, the magic is dead and this AA is irritating..I mean they are in their early 20s, no career to speak of and Adi is thinking of next level...what nonsense..he is lucky he is RKB's son, or else with his degree he will not be able to get a job nor afford a place to rent..He was going to do MBA, what happened to that. Raman said he needs to establish himself first and study MBA and then he will go to Mani and ask for Aliya's hand. What happened to all that...God..this has really seen the lows..Ishita was so much into self respect and where has it all gone. Wish she never came back..grow some spine..Her character has become so irritating and demeaning to all women. IShita's parents are a laughing stock,,,hope no one gets parents like them. They think that because of her handicap, she should bear everything..I think Ashok should hire an assasin and put Ishita/Raman out of their misery. Too much crying and not doing anything..

I didnt watch, but just reading the reviews...got me to rant.


Hi Madhavi,

I was really pissed off with families when society questioned Shagun character Bhalla/Iyers wanted Raman to marry Shagun to give respect but when the same society questions Ishita character they are not even bothered about it and are apologizing to Aliya for destroying her life.

They are trying to show if the woman who is fertile is questioned about her character then families will take the words seriously and try to stand for her dignity but person who is infertile doesn't warrant such action because there is already no respect for her in the society so why bother about one more insult on her dignity.

Nayi Sochi my foot they should change their slogan to Disgusting Sochi
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: swatica

I agree wid each n evry word u said maya..

i didnt liked epi at al... it ws a totally disgusting epi...

Y al balme on ishita... whn raman used on venemous words on ishita pre leap none.. i mean none stud up for her.. even amma appa were mute... it ws nt jst ramans words dat lead ishita to dow at she did... bt also evryone else...if dey had supported n cared for dere daughter dn al ds cud hv been nt happened..
dey shud hv given ishtia support n strength to stand agst raman pre leap..
so i really didnt expected anyone today to speak even...
whn dey were mute dn so today it ws nthin...
whn dey didnt thought bout ishita whn person who luvd her said al dose dn wat cud hv been expectd today whn a random badmouth ws speaking today..

anyways pre leap is past so wud nt go dere much...n alot has been ranted n discussed bout it...

ENTIRE EPI WS BLAH !!!




Hi Swati,

Yes you are correct when Raman uttered those disgusting words his family went behind him but Ishita family also left her alone and went behind Raman so Ishita doesn't matter to them what I am thinking they need Ishita only to solve problems and now they got Aliya for that too so they don't need Ishita anymore so why would they be thinking about Ishita.




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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ishraholic.maya

Episode toh dekha nahi
But fron your review
I'm glad I save my half hour
I agree with you
Show ke main leads to ab AA ban gaye hain
Ishita aur raman ka kam toh logon ki batein sunna reh gaya ha
Aj yeh pati aur bala ki mom ha
Kal shagun aur pihu bolein gi


Hi Maya,

I guess you missed those episode

Pihu already called Ishita "Gandi aurat" or "I know these types of woman who break families are bad".

Shagun always calls Ishita "Is aurat" in front of Pihu and none of the family including Raman open their mouth to say that Ishita is the part of the family.




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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't understand y is ishita blame for everything y couldn't they just tell the truth of her suicide atleast alia could tell since she knows everything
no one stood up for ishita which is the worst part
Raman was consoling ishita which was shown in the segments but they cut the scene he kept his hand on her shoulder when balas mom was acussing them
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: DikshaN

I don't understand y is ishita blame for everything y couldn't they just tell the truth of her suicide atleast alia could tell since she knows everything
no one stood up for ishita which is the worst part
Raman was consoling ishita which was shown in the segments but they cut the scene he kept his hand on her shoulder when balas mom was acussing them


Hi Diksha,

I have not see the segments so I did not know that Raman kept his hand on her shoulder if they edited the scene out then it means they only want to show Ishita as a characterless woman that is why family is not supporting her.

Ishita is fall guys for everything even today she herself admitted she ran away due to her mistakes and all the family is suffering for the mistake she made

Star plus Naya Sochi slogan is for abuse your wife,mother,daughter because she is infertile she will take the blame on herself and absolve you of any mistake.

They should change the slogan to we only make mockery of woman
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: mayasundar


Hi Diksha,

I have not see the segments so I did not know that Raman kept his hand on her shoulder if they edited the scene out then it means they only want to show Ishita as a characterless woman that is why family is not supporting her.

Ishita is fall guys for everything even today she herself admitted she ran away due to her mistakes and all the family is suffering for the mistake she made

Star plus Naya Sochi slogan is for abuse your wife,mother,daughter because she is infertile she will take the blame on herself and absolve you of any mistake.

They should change the slogan to we only make mockery of woman

His desk main harness aurat ko hi a agniparisha deni part hi hai.

I did read review after this what the hell shagun is nekh aurat even if she had multiple affairs. But ishita is ...

I am speechless with today episode ...for nayi soch of star and ekta...well done bestie ah...

Dewali ka pretty damaka offer tho pata chalagi hame tho...ab..
Tjat ishra remarriage no but sapartion is sure on cards due to pihu going hell shock due to ishita tells her truth..

Lo chalo after leap adi aliya ki Saadi aur their bachhe..ki nanny banegi hamare pyari ishita...

Isliya Australia shoot...

Kya baat hai taklu and gang ki mast offer hai dewali par benefit hai srif ah ki aliya...

All for ah...

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