Originally posted by: yyy
I am back again to share my two cents about today's episode.
This is definitely more than two cents😆 Thank you for that😉!!
Dev - Sona scene:
Before i go further I would like to say that i totally enjoyed today's episode to the fullest and was excited to see two imperfect people yearn for each other .I had suggested people in one of the thread to enjoy the episode by avoiding the forum as experience would be different but i could not follow my own advise.
Thats the disease called "forumania" ...can't help but peep inside and worsen your illness😆
I did not feel they were out of character when i saw them fight today .They were true to their character .The environment in which they were brought up reflected in their thoughts today .I don't blame either of them as both were right in their own way . I kind of understand why Dev was silent today, he could have opened up to her .He was emotional drained out and had no strength to convince anyone .Can we blame him, No .It was terrible day for him .From the past experience Dev knew it would not be an easy task to convince Sona and he was not in a mood to discuss the same thing again and again .Sometimes people like to avoid talking about things which hurt them. When I say past, I was referring to the argument they had about Neha and Ranveer .We have seen how Sona was unable to relate to Neha's childhood trauma and it ended up in an argument .Dev was not ready for this today and I beg to differ when people say he insulted his wife by not providing an explanation .Like you said everything cannot be solved overnight .I am sure he would talk to her when he is calm and relaxed. Whatever Sona said about Vicky was right .I would have said the same but she doesn't realize the burden Dixit family is carrying. I think no one other than her can help Dev realize how RR and Vicky are misusing him and he cannot keep repaying them all his life .He has to put a full stop to this ehsaan drama but for this she needs to strength her relationship with Dev, understand him and give him space when needed.
Many thanks for putting forwards Dev's pov here.. I did get his plight but didn't highlighten in my post to avoid too much seriousness😆 Though this was one of the best day for him to open up , he still decided to take time to fully open himself to Sona..Time is the best medicine for everything and with Sona beside him am sure all will be sorted😳
I was actually surprised to see the way Sona started the conversation never expected her to be calm 😲.I thought she will blow a fuse when she would see indifferent Dev .
Thats our mature girl there... infact proud of her how she handled the situation 😎
For me the whole conversation was close to reality and I have personally experienced that feeling when you expect your spouse to give in first even if you are at fault .Moreover Dev was not expecting apology from her but he wanted her to break the ice first .I don't know how this can be equated to INSULT .By now you would know I am not the intellectual kind to understand the deep meaning behind evert action 😳...did i confuse you ?😆
Oh please am not that intelligent either😆 Shame on us for watching a show without understanding the basic meaning of Self respect, insult, ego, doormat, spineless, ok I lost count 😆
Ishwari
What she said made a lot of sense to me .That was some wise words from her even though there was some selfish motive behind that .The present arrangement of Ishwari taking care of home and Sona working outside works for both of them .👍🏼
You know what deep down Ishwari is a nice woman who shows genuine concern for outsiders..remember she treating Sona as nutritionist (she was ready to even fight with Dev for making Sona cry) but there is a grey area around her insecurity which anyone tries to cross makes her loose her mind..Thats the beauty of this character..well thats what my pea size brain could infer😆
I remember once someone said to me one of the reason why a DIL and MIL can never get along is because both wants to rule the kitchen but most of the DIL get along with their FIL as they don't compete with each other for anything .I remember a married colleague of mine who would run home early so that she can cook something and to ensure MIL doesn't have complete control over her kitchen. On the other hand I was more than happy to sit back and enjoy hot and yummy food cooked my in laws every evening. I sometimes helped them by chopping veggies and doing odd jobs and they were happy being the main chef.😃It worked like a magic and i dont give a damn if people award me with the title "Doormat"😆 .😳
Exactly..who doesn't want such a MIL..you just need to use your modern brain a bit to keep everyone happy😉 Doormat this word lost its meaning ever since it got used in the forum..😆
I wanted to know your opinion on Ishwari- Dev scene while he was leaving to work .I somehow did not feel Ishwari was trying to make Sona jealous as she was not aware of the fight Devakshi had and moreover how would she know if Dev would talk to Sona or not .I felt she was happy when Sona agreed to read some of her religious book. Again I can be wrong as I did not pay more attention to this scene .
There was nothing to discuss in that scene frankly😕 A mother hugging a son as usual who was in pleasant mood after reading her mantras and a gruntled son returning back that hug absent mindedly eyeing his wife internally cursing her for making him sleep empty-handed😆 That was a casual every day scene..only dynamic change is both Sona and Dev having their own conversation in their mind😆
Sometimes you chew empty mouth when you dont get to eat anything else😉
Precap
My reaction after seeing the precap was 😲🤣 .What was that ? What was Sona thinking when she was arranging the candle light dinner in the family room 😆 ...forget about someone spoiling .I would be embarrassed if someone walked on me while I was busy romancing my husband.
Sona has lot to learn when it comes to romance and giving surprises.🤪 My suggestion to Sona, dear you just got married stop focusing on cooking or serving him food think beyond that and trust me Dev will be super happy to see you in the new avatar .☺️
Bhuddhu rami will learn that slowly 😆
Random scenes
I am least interested to see Vicky - Elena scenes and their love story 🥱. A person like Vicky cannot change for anyone period and I don't want to see the same cliched story where a good girl reforms the bad guy and they end up together ..I prefer to see Neha - Ranveer story instead.
I actually like Nikki scenes a lot .She is super cute and all her scenes bring a huge smile on my face .😊
Agree agree to both..I guess CVs bringing Elena into the picture to put Bose and indirectly Sona into the mix..Neha story will show only Dev's side naa..we need both sides balancing out..lets wait and watch how it plays out..