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Hi All,
I have been a silent reader to this forum. Just got registered myself as could stop expressing myself..
But to start with let me tell u all that its a very active forum and u guys are doing an amazing job!
I connect a lot with Sonakshi and she has been my favourite since Day 1. Like her I had a rocking career and have super cool, proud and supporting parents and a younger Bro. But then I got married to this amazing guy(about whom I never complain about, he is the best) and I entered a totally new world! From a liberal family, I got into a conservative family (exception being my hubby who is CA and holds a high profile job). Things were so confusing at the beginning that I felt whatever I learnt my entire life was just not enough. My parents had taught me to take wise decisions evaluating both sides, but new family was so over emotional and impulsive. Oh God! I felt as if I was living a daily soap.
And then comes my sis in law back to the house leaving her in-laws coz "They can't adjust with her". And my in-laws encouraged her without even opening a dialogue with her in-laws.
And then starts the Mahabharat of importance. I was 4 months pregnant then. Daughter is always a daughter and Daughter in law never a Daughter. This started taking a toll on my career too. But fortunately my hubby took the decision of supporting me when there was a situation and well balanced the tantrums.
I believe that's what Sona is going through. She has starting to impress people who really don't care and don't understand her. And baby, please go back to work. You have a career. Sometimes appreciation and recognition received at work helps a lot! And be in touch with your parents, they would never let you feel down. She should focus more on Dev coz at the end he matters. With time even he will realise the melodrama in his mother's words and see how she is trying to damage his married life.
Sona, I wish u luck. Now I have an amazing life coz my husband has senses... Wish your amazing perfect Dev gets his soon!
Thanks for reading my first post and sorry for the long post!
Keep Rocking!
Cheers,
Poo
