Dev Ishwari equation

I don't understand Dev Ishwari equation. From Ishwari side, it's not unconditional love, it's always love that indicates him his responsibilities and family burden.

Originally posted by: babli1

I don't understand Dev Ishwari equation. From Ishwari side, it's not unconditional love, it's always love that indicates him his responsibilities and family burden.

First Dev has to drop off Dadi bua, then he has to give job to Vicky, then need to worry for Neha , and list goes on & on...

What kind of Motherly love is this - beyond my imagination ...

Dev too, in turn , is guilty always when mom reminds him of his duties, if I were Dev, I would say that no one has to remind him his duties , he knows and perform them always..😡

Ishwari's love for Dev involves anything and everything which will keep him away from Sona..specially after marriage!!
Ishu is using family duties and responsibilities to distract Dev from his married life.
Dev's love for Ishu is blind..He will do anything his mom says without applying his brain or logic..

its unconditional love from Dev's end but love is materialistic from Ishwari's end.

I feel their relationship is just... abnormal! This God-devotee mentality is absurd to say the least, it is ridiculous that the person being treated as God is always the taker and the devotee is the provider. Insane 😡
They have ruined Dev's character with respect to his tuning with his mother. And it wasn't like this always, many be its the CVs turning this into one freakish one! He goes mute whenever she is giving him unnecessary lecture - it wasn't the case earlier as he would take offense and get back to her or at least explain his stance. Yesterday's rant was weird and that too in front of his wife was all the more disrespectful. Although Ishwari was also trying to put pressure on Sona through in guise (hate Ish right now, what an inconsiderate and evil attitude)

When your son gets married, it is also the mother's duty to uphold his respect in front of his wife - and not rebuke him the way mothers would before marriage. The regard should elevate and be mutual.