Family and Shivaay

Before anyone pounces at me, just think about this situation. For the betterment of your family and your family member's future, you have already decided on what needs to be done and suddenly an outsider arrives and tells you that what you have done is wrong. Starts enforcing his/her rules and claims how what she has in mind is right. Who would not be angry? Hello, this is my house, my family problem and my decision how I am going to solve it? How is it any business of the guest/outsider to tell me that I am wrong and they are right? Who are they? How are they related to the family. Suggestion is different from imposing an idea. As a guest and an outsider, you have rights to suggest an idea to solve the problem, but no guest and outsider have the right to impose an idea on the family members.

Don't we all feel this same way when our relatives or friends interfere in our family matters? And don't we all react the same way as Shivaay and Tej. In this case, how are Tej and Shivaay wrong when they reacted just like you and me when such a situation arrived.

Coming to Dev, in a matter of hours both Priyanka and Anika understood he is a good guy? Even after living with a person for a few years, we do not understand our family members or friends. And how could they know him so well? What if Dev was a terrorist or murderer and when they called him into OM, he found a perfect way to harm the Oberoi family members. Will Anika and Priyanka ever forgive themselves if something bad happened to anyone in OM?

Priyanka said she loves Shivaay a lot but went against his wishes to call Dev to her house. If she really liked him, she should have informed Shivaay how his decision has upset her and that she really likes Dev. Shivaay would have at least known his sister's feelings and would have done something for the marriage to happen in the least. Going behind Shivaay's back and calling Dev in was sheer betrayal and disappointing. I felt even more sad for Shivaay when there he was busy thinking of what to prepare for Priyanka to see her smile.

This is not a bashing post of any character. I am just supporting Shivaay and Tej's point of view and actions and very highly disappointed with Priyanka. Do share your views. But no bashing please!