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Posted: 8 years ago
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You're back in your palatial home with people to wait on you hand and foot and your gullible ATM brother to foot all your bills so that you can go back to ordering 25000rs worth of cosmetics online. You can go back to nursing that huge chip on your shoulder and being rude to everyone including your new bhabhi who brings you cups of tea while you chill on your bed. And everyone will forgive you all your crap and tiptoe around you because you're going through such a trauma you see. You took such a difficult decision to walk out of the poor home that you willingly walked into for love (?).
and don't worry, you wont get any lectures from your sainted mother on the importance of being a good bahu and how difficult it is to attain that position. No, those lectures are reserved only for Sona.You are also someone's DIL but its cool, the same rules that apply to Sona don't apply to you. When you were complaining that no one ever considered your needs at your in laws place, i didnt hear ishwari telling you that your needs come last because you are now a bahu (going by her notions of what a bahu should be and do).

also don't worry, you have a fiercely protective brother who is already fuming at the 'bad treatment' you got from ranveer and your in laws. Wonder where all that protectiveness goes when he's sitting at the dining table and his mami is accusing Sona of having stuffed her face with machchi maas at her parents place. Not a word from him then.

So you're set. Now that you have no work, perhaps you can join ishwari and mami in their favourite activity - putting Sona down and keeping her in her place.

On a side note, has Sona started a new job? Is she now maid of the Dixit household?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Neha will be all good initially...
But once she sees Dev and Sona happy together - she might feel jealous and might try to find a way to get back to Ranveer.. I hope they handle this track sensibly

My only wish is that Sona stays away from all this unless someone comes and asks her to help "on paper"
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Posted: 8 years ago
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As we have been seeing Neha --she will not play any cheap tricks like Ishu /GKB.
If she is jealous because of Sona ,she will say it out and loud and will express her frustration in open.
I don't think it is bad.

All I can say is..Neha dil ki saaf hai as against GKB and Ishu.
She has been insecure all her life due to this mother-son bonding,she was quiet vocal about it.
Look at Ishwari,,,She is converting her insecurities into Sona's inconvenience secretly.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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You are comparing chalk and cheese dear. Dev hears all taunts that Mami throws at Sona. But he becomes deaf then except making lemon-sucking face.

But let Ranveer's family taunt Neha for only caring for money? Dev will tear them into pieces.

Dev has a lot to say when some outsider points finger at his wife, but nothing to say when it's his own family. Even on the day of Muh Dikhai, Dev defended Sona against an outsider. He didn't say anything to his Bua Dadi.

Sister is pampered pooch and wife is maid for life.

But why blame only Dev? Why is Sona listening to all this? She could reply back to Mami that it's none of her business what she does in her own parent's house.

I am sorry. But you have to fight your own battles. Sona can't keep weeping and expect everything is hunky dory.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Taunting - i really need Sona to defend and answer back herself..
when bijoy taunted Dev, Dev was not looking for Sona to support and respond to Bijoy... Dev did it himself...
So it is Sona's responsbility to not take anything lying down and give it back once in a while to keep the taunts in check


Originally posted by: tia.o

You are comparing chalk and cheese dear. Dev hears all taunts that Mami throws at Sona. But he becomes deaf then except making lemon-sucking face.


But let Ranveer's family taunt Neha for only caring for money? Dev will tear them into pieces.

Dev has a lot to say when some outsider points finger at his wife, but nothing to say when it's his own family. Even on the day of Muh Dikhai, Dev defended Sona against an outsider. He didn't say anything to his Bua Dadi.

Sister is pampered pooch and wife is maid for life.

But why blame only Dev? Why is Sona listening to all this? She could reply back to Mami that it's none of her business what she does in her own parent's house.

I am sorry. But you have to fight your own battles. Sona can't keep weeping and expect everything is hunky dory.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Awesome post

seriously Today episode was full of double standards.
Sona should go back to her work . At least she will be away from stupid drama.

But I doubt this will happen soon

Cv's are going to milk this as much as they can because how come they will show conflicts ,tashan between saas bahu if BAHU is not going to stay at home.

Same old formula , I am sure they will find another reason of her not working ,just like they did with suhagraat 🤢
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Posted: 8 years ago
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If neha knew how to help herself get out of her misery, she wouldn't be complaining. She was just used as a mother figure for her younger siblings while Eeshwari was busy grooming Dev to be their savior. If Dev had to become the man of the house at 10, neha also became the mother at 9. Both of them lost their childhood, because the mother was not fully capable of dealing with the trauma. She did her best but the damage was done in case of neha and Dev. Dev is slightly better because he is independent and is capable of taking care of financial responsibilities his mother thrusts upon him. Neha's sacrifice actually pushed her further into doom. Without any education, she feels inadequate and she has to depend on someone or the other always for her financial needs.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

You are comparing chalk and cheese dear. Dev hears all taunts that Mami throws at Sona. But he becomes deaf then except making lemon-sucking face.


But let Ranveer's family taunt Neha for only caring for money? Dev will tear them into pieces.

Dev has a lot to say when some outsider points finger at his wife, but nothing to say when it's his own family. Even on the day of Muh Dikhai, Dev defended Sona against an outsider. He didn't say anything to his Bua Dadi.

Sister is pampered pooch and wife is maid for life.

But why blame only Dev? Why is Sona listening to all this? She could reply back to Mami that it's none of her business what she does in her own parent's house.

I am sorry. But you have to fight your own battles. Sona can't keep weeping and expect everything is hunky dory.


Of course she should. That goes without saying. but she seems to have lost her brain, identity and spirit for now so I don't hold out much hope of her speaking up for herself, especially when her main focus at the moment seems to be to fit in with dev's family. She needs to get her identity back, go back to work, do what she is qualified and trained for, and stop fetching and carrying cups of tea and biscuits for people.

My point was - I didn't like that Dev got upset on his sister's behalf but not on his wife's.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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These Dixits need help. Everyone of them.
Hoping the story unfolds well.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Neha's home return was expected since the day she got married. I think they want to show contrast between both love marriages - Sona is married to rich guy but still unhappy bcoz of bad people n Neha's inlaws are very good but poor. Though initially there wud b friction, but Neha n Sona wud support each other to manage their inlaws.
Why do I feel Sona wud have been much much happier if she had fallen in love with Ranveer...they r very alike in thinking n their families are very good n now both r stuck with Dixits.
Like many have already pointed out - Dev's no effort to stop GKB results in increasing taunts from Gkb. N hate writers for showing that Dev smartly handled Bijoy's insults but Sona gets speechless. Always biased towards Dev.

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