Bijoy - A lil too much

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Neha

@Swadhinta07

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

Seriously guys, I found him very annoying today !

Not behaving good with your daughter's boyfriend is FINE but this kind of odd behaviour with your daughter's husband ?

And for what?

I'm not expecting him to love Dev .. But he can atleast respect her daughter's love !

Even Ish tries to act sweet in front of Sona .. She has never been rude to her directly !

Also, he is asking her not to follow their culture .. like seriously? It's her family now .. Everybody has to adjust a lil with the family .. I really don't think a father can ask her daughter not to adjust herself in the new family .. What kind of independence is this? An independent girl can be a family girl too !

I expect a more sensible baba !!

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Shilky88

@Shilky88

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

He used to be a sensible, fun loving and soft spoken baba but Ishwari converted him.

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Neha

@Swadhinta07

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Shilky88
He used to be a sensible, fun loving and soft spoken baba but Ishwari converted him.

But how?

Ish has not done anything wrong after the wedding .. I mean nothing directly & in front of others

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@404_NotFound

Sparkler

+ 7

Posted: 8 years ago

Bijoy is very immature when it comes to handling relationship .He is full of ego and pride .For him his daughter cannot be wrong and she shouldn't compromise on anything in life but the immature father doesn't realise that whether husband or wife one has to compromise a little for a successful marriage and changes after marriage are inevitable. He doesn't realise his own wife has compromised and has adjusted in his family

He cannot understand one simple thing ..his attitude will cause problems for his daughter and can create issue between husband and wife .Bijoy Bose doesnt realise taunting is not the solution for all problems .

Sonakshi is responsible for this as well ..till now she has only spoken to her parents about the pain caused by Dev but never has she spoken to her parents about other qualities of Dev which made her fall in love with him .She never mentiobed ho dev is supporting her after marriage .For her own good it's better if she talks to her dad else it will definitely create issues between Dev and her father and she will be the one to suffer r the mother

Long back I compared him with Ishwari but I guess he is more like RR ...big loud mouth and very soon people will treat him the way they treat RR ..

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Neha

@Swadhinta07

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: yyy
Bijoy is very immature when it comes to handling relationship .He is full of ego and pride .For him his daughter cannot be wrong and she shouldn't compromise on anything in life but the immature father doesn't realise that whether husband or wife one has to compromise a little for a successful marriage and changes after marriage are inevitable. He doesn't realise his own wife has compromised and has adjusted in his family
He cannot understand one simple thing ..his attitude will cause problems for his daughter and can create issue between husband and wife .Bijoy Bose doesnt realise taunting is not the solution for all problems .

Sonakshi is responsible for this as well ..till now she has only spoken to her parents about the pain caused by Dev but never has she spoken to her parents about other qualities of Dev which made her fall in love with him .She never mentiobed ho dev is supporting her after marriage .For her own good it's better if she talks to her dad else it will definitely create issues between Dev and her father and she will be the one to suffer r the mother

Long back I compared him with Ishwari but I guess he is more like RR ...big loud mouth and very soon people will treat him the way they treat RR ..

Totally agree with you ! 👏

Sona should talk to Bijoy now instead of ignoring his rude behaviour !!

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Adiba Bano

@.kashishbano.

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: yyy
Bijoy is very immature when it comes to handling relationship .He is full of ego and pride .For him his daughter cannot be wrong and she shouldn't compromise on anything in life but the immature father doesn't realise that whether husband or wife one has to compromise a little for a successful marriage and changes after marriage are inevitable. He doesn't realise his own wife has compromised and has adjusted in his family
He cannot understand one simple thing ..his attitude will cause problems for his daughter and can create issue between husband and wife .Bijoy Bose doesnt realise taunting is not the solution for all problems .

Sonakshi is responsible for this as well ..till now she has only spoken to her parents about the pain caused by Dev but never has she spoken to her parents about other qualities of Dev which made her fall in love with him .She never mentiobed ho dev is supporting her after marriage .For her own good it's better if she talks to her dad else it will definitely create issues between Dev and her father and she will be the one to suffer r the mother

Long back I compared him with Ishwari but I guess he is more like RR ...big loud mouth and very soon people will treat him the way they treat RR ..

Totally agree with you.
Bijoy is immature in handling relationship.
The day when shagun'sgot returned from both the families, he said they don't respect the bengali rituals, really bijoy, did they respect the brahmins sentiments, it is not their responsibility to look after the event manager and the shagun gifts.
And today he asked sona to not follow their rituals and said their customs and rituals are best, no father on the earth will say like this to his daughter that not to adjust in the laws and moreover she is the DIL of that house and ultimately it is her house now. She belongs more to her in laws than maayka.
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And the way he treats dev is not at all good, everyman made mistakes, it doesn't mean that he treats dev this way, once again no father will talk this rude to his SIL.

And assaurab said Asha maa is so beautiful, why she married this mocambo 😆

Edited by kashish.bano - 8 years ago

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Shilky88

@Shilky88

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: NN07

But how?
Ish has not done anything wrong after the wedding .. I mean nothing directly & in front of others

I don't know but I feel that he has this selective rudeness towards Dixits. He used to be very sweet with Ritwik and family.

Bijoy just don't wanna give a second chance to Dixits to hurt him or his daughter and thats why he is not willing to sacrifice or compromise anything for them neither he wants his daughter to do any.

In his mind he knows that he has done an EHSAAN on Ishwari by giving Ishwari happiness of her Son.He might just want to live with this thought for the rest of his life unless Dev proves him wrong and shows him that his daughter deserves a person like Dev. Till now Dev hasn't done anything much to win his trust back.

We will have to wait and watch if his anger for Dev is correct or not..We are still not sure how Dev will react when Ishu takes any drastic action after marriage to separate him from Sona(I wish that never happens) .But this track is much needed for Dev to prove if he stands for his wife against wrong.

I am sure Bijoy will love him then.

Having said that I too dint like it when he was being rude and impolite with Dev.

I don't care about Ishu as she deserves much more than that.

She did all that pre nup drama soon after fixing the wedding dates.and then this returning of Shagun.

As of now Bijoy is 100 % sure that this woman is not right and hence his bitterness.

and for Dev ,time will tell us if he is a changed man after marriage who takes a stand for what is fair.

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Shilky88

@Shilky88

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: NN07

But how?
Ish has not done anything wrong after the wedding .. I mean nothing directly & in front of others

You might just wanna read this!

http://www.fuzionproductions.com/kuch-rang-pyar-ke-aise-bhi-trying-depict-complexities-relationships-letters-characters/5/

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Kamal kulshreshta

@srilotus

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: kashish.bano

Totally agree with you.
Bijoy is immature in handling relationship.
The day when shagun'sgot returned from both the families, he said they don't respect the bengali rituals, really bijoy, did they respect the brahmins sentiments, it is not their responsibility to look after the event manager and the shagun gifts.
And today he asked sona to not follow their rituals and said their customs and rituals are best, no father on the earth will say like this to his daughter that not to adjust in the laws and moreover she is the DIL of that house and ultimately it is her house now. She belongs more to her in laws than maayka.
.

And the way he treats dev is not at all good, everyman made mistakes, it doesn't mean that he treats dev this way, once again no father will talk this rude to his SIL.

And assaurab said Asha maa is so beautiful, why she married this mocambo 😆