Koi Sona ki bhi side le lo... - Page 2

Originally posted by: dbrk

Agreed! Ishwari really tricked Sona today. She brought the nutritionist angle only to trap her. She knew Sona will never let her keep fast. She kept the abstinence thing for last. After saying yes its not possible to back out that too for reason of abstinence!! It was just not possible for sona.

Actually everyone is blaming Sona for trying to be gud bahu! But Sona is finding herself at back foot

From wedding lehanga, veg non veg, fish drama for no fault she has been proved to be a wrong choice. That's y she probably decided to do this xtra bit to make everyone happy.

Sonakshi is a smart girl but she is not cunning so for her to understand Ishwari's tricks is impossible.

How can she imagine that ishwari is against consummation of their marriage also.

As soon as Sona will realise Ishwari's real intention she wint take things lying down. I am damn sure about it

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Well the thing is, we are bashing Sona because we love her too much like we love ourselves, and many of us have gone through all this 'Impressing MIL' tactics and failed miserably 🤣 So we can see that Sona is not going to gain anything out of this, and poor Dev babu is getting agitated instead 🤣

We all love Sona but for this vrat, as soon as she heard that last clause, she could have said let me discuss with Dev if he has any holiday plans etc or not. 😉 There are ways to retreat even after you say yes without making it obvious that your son will not like this 😆 Anyways these are after she agrees, my objection is why she had to agree in the first place ! Isn't she a nutritionist ? Keeping fast or only intake of fruits for 9 days is acceptable in Diet haan ? IMO till Tulsi Puja it's fine but she shouldn't have agreed for this 9-days thing at all ! 🤔

P.S. - These tracks remind me few of the blunders of my life as well and seeing my favorite character going through the same is actually painful 😆 But yes, never my inlaws had such nasty intention for all these, 1. There was a weird request from my FIL who loves fishing, the request was for me to join him in his fishing adventure at morning 5:00 AM on the first visit to my inlaws after marriage, my hubby and my MIL were furious since I couldn't say no to his insist 🤣 And 2. One big drama happened with some ritual of touching 10/15 elderly ladies' feet (Su-bochoni or something) as part of some ritual to which I agreed to (of course the intention was not to create problem by saying NO to my MIL 😆) but later on my hubby found out and had a showdown with my MIL just like Dev and then we both had to calm him down that it was not forced to me but I agreed on my own (which indeed was, it wasn't a manipulation etc like Ishwari) The drama went on for few more days so my point is, I know what Sona is trying to do, and I also know that trying to be somebody who I am not never achieves anything 😔 So just lets be ourselves and have people love you for what you are

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Well the thing is, we are bashing Sona because we love her too much like we love ourselves, and many of us have gone through all this 'Impressing MIL' tactics and failed miserably 🤣 So we can see that Sona is not going to gain anything out of this, and poor Dev babu is getting agitated instead 🤣

We all love Sona but for this vrat, as soon as she heard that last clause, she could have said let me discuss with Dev if he has any holiday plans etc or not. 😉 There are ways to retreat even after you say yes without making it obvious that your son will not like this 😆 Anyways these are after she agrees, my objection is why she had to agree in the first place ! Isn't she a nutritionist ? Keeping fast or only intake of fruits for 9 days is acceptable in Diet haan ? IMO till Tulsi Puja it's fine but she shouldn't have agreed for this 9-days thing at all ! 🤔

P.S. - These tracks remind me few of the blunders of my life as well and seeing my favorite character going through the same is actually painful 😆 But yes, never my inlaws had such nasty intention for all these, 1. There was a weird request from my FIL who loves fishing, the request was for me to join him in his fishing adventure at morning 5:00 AM on the first visit to my inlaws after marriage, my hubby and my MIL were furious since I couldn't say no to his insist 🤣 And 2. One big drama happened with some ritual of touching 10/15 elderly ladies' feet (Su-bochoni or something) as part of some ritual to which I agreed to (of course the intention was not to create problem by saying NO to my MIL 😆) but later on my hubby found out and had a showdown with my MIL just like Dev and then we both had to calm him down that it was not forced to me but I agreed on my own (which indeed was, it wasn't a manipulation etc like Ishwari) The drama went on for few more days so my point is, I know what Sona is trying to do, and I also know that trying to be somebody who I am not never achieves anything 😔 So just lets be ourselves and have people love you for what you are

Originally posted by: tia.o

Oh hun, I am sorry for your troubles. But the lesson you mentioned right there in bold is PRICELESS. If Sona had shared with someone (even her mother), she'd learn the same lesson. But she is trying to win a war without any weapon or defense. So she will have to learn the same lesson the hard way.

Originally posted by: sia.krpkab

Noone bashes our cute baby girl, Sonakshi. Please!

Guys you are forgetting an important dialogue from Sona after her phone conversation with Dev - 'I wish I had heard all the preconditions for fasting before I agreed, how can I say no to Maa now'.

She got stuck in this situation and it can happen with anyone.

Sona acknowledged the mess, but it was late. Shit happens, and this was one such case. But it's ok, not the end of life, just a matter of few more days. And now with Dev's reaction (in the precap), Sona got it loud and clear, that he is Mr. Obodhro and Mr. Right, so never take him for granted 😛

P. S. loved today's episode 👏

Originally posted by: sia.krpkab

Talking of weapons, in my personal experience - I used 'indifference' to avoid unnecessary drama and hullabaloo. Also, kept emotional testimonies at bay because that what drove my MIL 😛 (guess that was her weapon)
It worked very well for me, because my MIL understood very early on that her DIL (that's me) is headstrong and is very direct in her dealings. So manipulations won't work and right to communication is well-exercised between the couple.
I hope Dev-Sona would do the same - soon enough!