Sabse Badi Beemari. .Log kya kahenge?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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My title is very randomšŸ˜† But this is all I could think of when Sonakshi was trying to convince Dev.
What parellels drawnšŸ‘ On one hand, Ishwari and Dadi-bua are preaching about how the shagun cannot be returned, Vicky has gone to Bose house to return their shagun.
We should practice what we preach, right? I was surprised that Ishwari already knew about the shagun being returned.
Like I said, The Bose family is consious about their economic differences and it makes them take heartfelt gestures from Dev otherwise.
Yes, Mami and Dadi bua did taunt them, but whether the machli sequence or this car fiasco, Dev did not, for once, think about the religious or economic differences.
And when inspite of expressing what he felt about the gift, Sourab returned it infront of everyone. . He was hurt.
Dev was not wrong. .
"Sab kuch paiso se kyu tola jaa raha hai?"
He with a lot of love selected it for his brother-in-law and unnecessary complications were being added.
But neither was Sonakshi wrong. .
"Gift wahi lena chahiye jo aap bhi de sako"

Dev leaves for office work

Sonakshi talks to his photo😳 I hope they share a nice moment or two when he returns. . Because he certainly would feel bad for leaving her there.

Enters Ishwari saasu-maa. . Trying to protect her DIL, or specifically her son's izzat.
She is genuinely trying to help but there is this certain mark of territory which she tries to keep intact. She suggests Sonakshi to not come outside and when poor Sona comes, Ishwari feels bad.

The expression by Supriya ji are so spot onšŸ‘ The way she said Kadhiii... annoyinglyšŸ˜†šŸ˜†
Then again, she decides to rescue her DIL in the kitchen. Like all of us, the first solution Sonakshi sees out of this mess is Google DevtašŸ˜†
Ishwari is horrified when she remembers the halwa tastešŸ˜†
Takes charge.

Ishwari was affectionate in all this, but again she was reinstating it politely that She holds pride in how she has managed her grahasthi and it is not an easy task. Not a cake-walk for Sonakshi. Ishwari underestimates Sonakshi and I am sure she must have felt really bad when Ishwari said
"Mere bete ki pasand ko log napasand kar rahe hai"

She drifted to talk about his reputation as if Sonakshi was a third person in his life.
I don't know how much you related to it, but the eerieness with which Ishwari points out how Sonakshi can't help Ish manage home was very relatable. I have always noticed how the homemakers of my family point out and underestimate even the most honest efforts of a working woman's capabilities to manage home efficiently. Nicely done cvsšŸ‘
I agree with the 'sab kuch tumhe aaj hi karna hai' part of IshwarišŸ˜†
Sonakshi, you need to stop pleasing everyone at once and focus on your husband instead.
Literally, one day after marriage and we got an upset Dev in the name of a DevAkshi scene. *Sighs*
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Actually purposefully I dint watch first 4-5 min of serial as I wanted to avoid that gift return scene...
Dont know why I cannot watch such scenes..but I think even I missed something else I mean Vicky fascio .. is der anything important about that???

And today's episode was no less drama..I mean everything is real still I felt something drama is going on...

Dev was upset I guess he was emotionally drained or even about to cry when he left for office. . Proper devakshi was missing hope we get it tomorrow.

And ishwari maa in every sentence mera beta mera beta uska pasand pasand pasand wow. Only does she know that much Hindi??? She might be correct regarding cooking and all but relating that to dev's pasand or his failure is indeed a wrong talk...let's see wha has stored in...but these rituals are bringing in so much drama !! I mean krpkab team shud get back to reality than drama ..I know even in real life there will b hell drama but pre marriage scenes never has any drama even though in reality there would be ... Cast avoided drama there I hope they avoid here tooo
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Bang on post !!There was lot of talk about reputation and Dev's choice and etc.But I genuinely feel that Ishwari does love Sona individually but cannot easily accept her as son's wife because of her insecurities 😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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bang on post... title is apt for today's episode...
today dixit as family and bose as family both are wrong... i must say very wrong...

for once i am going toside with dev and support him...why it is his responsibility to understand every point even sona and bose can also understand that he out of love and respect gave it to them... that guy literally poured his heart out but they are still adamant... he is also a human being, it hurts if you give somebody a gift with so much love and they return it back...

he leaving for office is also understandable, he wants a peaceful time with his wife but instead he just getting trapped in fights and unnecessary arguments... at one point people loose it and he lost it today... he wanted some time off so he just went...

one more question is it always husband's responsibility to stand up for his wife, shouldn't wife have this responsibility to stand up for her husband... i expected sona to stand with dev after he told everything and reason to gift the car...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Bang on ..you said everything I felt ..so same pinch


Episode was interesting..

What I appreciate most about epi ..was subtlety ..Episode was nice ..no major complaints actually

Starting from Dada returning keys ..well both Dev and Saurabh were right in their own way..Dev gifted it with good intentions..he just gifted it thinking that Suarabh is like his brother too..and I liked what he replied..if Ranveer had gifted something dil se he would have too accepted it..car is expensive thats why its making such big issue and I could understand Saurabh's point too..Society doesn't understand feelings..they would rather blame Bose family..so His reason of returning it was fare enough..as well :(

Dev got upset coz he did something which was not to show off of his money or status but he genuinely meant it..so him getting little upset was fair enough..and infact I liked how cute he looked with angry face hehe Sona baby I expect some romantic move from you now ..do some effort to manaofy him..thoda naughty ho thoda tease karo , pamper him , show your love to him ..make him feel wanted dude..he deserves it šŸ˜†šŸ˜‰

Ishwari and Bua r such hypocrites..conveniently they said "shagun lautana badon ka apmaan hota hai" and how easily they forgot they too did the same thing but returning gifts to Boses..piece of shit these 2 are..specially bua😔

God her thoughts.."Reeti riwaaz hi sab kuch hain..paisa pyaar sab mayney nahi rakhtey hain" ..she needs to get lost ASAP 😳

Well Ishwari is such a puzzle..Her helping Sona in kitchen look such a good deed..shows she is so loving caring helping..but whats her motive behind it looks scary to me šŸ˜†

Mere BETE ki izzat , mere BETE ki pasand , mere BETE ki patni...Its so unhealthy..She definitely suffers from some problem ..Initially I never felt so but now slowly slowly I can feel something big huge is building up..Ishwari might be a bigger problem then what we r assessing..Her everything revolves around Dev ..she not even once said..that she is helping coz Sona means something to her..or she cares for "Sona" and not "Dev's wife"..well like I have been saying ..how long she will do this ..bas ye dekhna hai ..I guess once Bua will leave she will come out clearly in open..so yeah :(

For bua ji - Atithi tum kab jaogey šŸ˜†





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Posted: 8 years ago
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apt post saumiee
today dev n saurab both vr right at deir places ..its jyst d difference of opinion ...
it is said dat wen two people wid same economic status exchange things it is gift ..n wen dere is economic difference it becomes ehsaan

n it applied today had dere not been so much economic difference saurab wud ve accepted it ..n people wont say anything

ishwari returning shagun was wtong n unreasonable n dat too thru vicky jisse tameez se sorry bhi nhi bola gaya

ishwari is a very big prblem ..her obsession wid dev ll lead to many prblems
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sjain

Bang on ..you said everything I felt ..so same pinch


Episode was interesting..

What I appreciate most about epi ..was subtlety ..Episode was nice ..no major complaints actually

Starting from Dada returning keys ..well both Dev and Saurabh were right in their own way..Dev gifted it with good intentions..he just gifted it thinking that Suarabh is like his brother too..and I liked what he replied..if Ranveer had gifted something dil se he would have too accepted it..car is expensive thats why its making such big issue and I could understand Saurabh's point too..Society doesn't understand feelings..they would rather blame Bose family..so His reason of returning it was fare enough..as well :(

Dev got upset coz he did something which was not to show off of his money or status but he genuinely meant it..so him getting little upset was fair enough..and infact I liked how cute he looked with angry face hehe Sona baby I expect some romantic move from you now ..do some effort to manaofy him..thoda naughty ho thoda tease karo , pamper him , show your love to him ..make him feel wanted dude..he deserves it šŸ˜†šŸ˜‰

Ishwari and Bua r such hypocrites..conveniently they said "shagun lautana badon ka apmaan hota hai" and how easily they forgot they too did the same thing but returning gifts to Boses..piece of shit these 2 are..specially bua😔

God her thoughts.."Reeti riwaaz hi sab kuch hain..paisa pyaar sab mayney nahi rakhtey hain" ..she needs to get lost ASAP 😳

Well Ishwari is such a puzzle..Her helping Sona in kitchen look such a good deed..shows she is so loving caring helping..but whats her motive behind it looks scary to me šŸ˜†

Mere BETE ki izzat , mere BETE ki pasand , mere BETE ki patni...Its so unhealthy..She definitely suffers from some problem ..Initially I never felt so but now slowly slowly I can feel something big huge is building up..Ishwari might be a bigger problem then what we r assessing..Her everything revolves around Dev ..she not even once said..that she is helping coz Sona means something to her..or she cares for "Sona" and not "Dev's wife"..well like I have been saying ..how long she will do this ..bas ye dekhna hai ..I guess once Bua will leave she will come out clearly in open..so yeah :(

For bua ji - Atithi tum kab jaogey šŸ˜†






@bold she is the only problemšŸ˜†šŸ˜†šŸ˜†... full show is based on her insecurity...buaji types will come and gošŸ˜†šŸ˜†

jokes apart she genuinely wanted to help sona and she made few valid points too...you cannot impress everybody in one day... give time... she did say meri bahu today... and she did say to sona once dadi bua goes you can make anything for dev...she is helping but she haven't accepted sona completely so tinge of bitterness always comes in her sentencesšŸ˜‰šŸ˜‰
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Nice post sowmiee..
Some how I felt saurab should have accepted gift...okay. ..He should have expressed his displeasure but for Dev sake he could have accepted it. Now coming to dev, considering his position he can not gift small thing which won't suit him.. If he had gifted small thing, still people would talk..being business tycoon what he gifted. Today I am with Dev, we should accept gift which is given with love and we should not gauge with money. It's not necessary we should gift according to the status of receiver. Dev family returned shogun which shows their cheap mentality, but saurab could accept dev's gift keeping his heart big.

Today, it was kind of headache for me, thinking about how these people will deal with this situation, where both family have not accepted them. I don't want devakshi fight very soon..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rash2222


@bold she is the only problemšŸ˜†šŸ˜†šŸ˜†... full show is based on her insecurity...buaji types will come and gošŸ˜†šŸ˜†

jokes apart she genuinely wanted to help sona and she made few valid points too...you cannot impress everybody in one day... give time... she did say meri bahu today... and she did say to sona once dadi bua goes you can make anything for dev...she is helping but she haven't accepted sona completely so tinge of bitterness always comes in her sentencesšŸ˜‰šŸ˜‰




Yes Bua toh 2 din ki mehmaan hai ...who cares..will be long forgotten

I know thats why I said ki she was loving caring and her point was valid ki sab kuch ek din mein nahi kar sakti..Sona wants to keep everyone happy ..which I guess nayi bahus want to do ..jo samjh mein aata hai..but woh possible nahi hai ..that to Diixit family jaise ghar mein toh bilkul bhi nahi

yeah actually "u can make anything for dev" is quite contrasting to what they showed in promo ..also meri bahu boli but mann se boli ya fir bas Sona ko kshush karne ke liye..isliye Ishwari ke real feelings kya hain ye samjhna complicated hota ja raha hai..and scary bhi..I might be over thinking ..but she makes me feel so ..kya karoon šŸ˜†

yeah she has accepted her as Dev;s wife MAY BE..woh bhi sure nahi hai mujhe ..but for sure she hasnt accepted her as her successor..she doenst think she can take care of her house and offcourse her son

Its better to let mehmaan go ..tab dekhtey hain what happens..how much she changes..I am scared mann




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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dev will come back home and Sona and he'll be ok...

What I can't get over is Ishwari.. It's so clear that all she thinks of is Dev... Sona is no where in the picture.. Sona has to understand Ishwari, give her some time, act very maturely about this!

It's not easy but Sona will have to handle her with lots of care... Love is not imp .. It's understanding .. Realizing and acting upon it...Sona you win your husband .. You'll can work together handling Ishwari

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