Love Is Not Found...Its Built !!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Another long one from me..needs time. A story in the end that you can skip to make it short for reading.
Before I start, as always I just loved today's episode. Dev came forward as a husband who is proud to have Sonakshi in his life..I won't say a good start but I'll surely state this as a good small step..šŸ‘šŸ‘


~ Life is a Journey..you can make Love the path ā¤ļø



It's starting...

~ Pyar Mein Lipte Do Rang Aise Mile...
Two hearts, two people, painted with different colors of love. Love united two these two and ended their Duality.

You know what happens when two colours meet?
They form a new colour. But do you know when the new colour is formed, the two colours cannot go back to their original form?

From being strangers, to enemies to friends..Dev and Sonakshi finally fell in love with each other, confessed their feelings for each other, build a bond, shared emotions, saw a companion in each other, had problems, tried to compromise, couldn't control their feelings for each other. Came back running into each other.
They felt ONE IN LOVE.

...Dekhe Kabhi Wo Rang Jo Kabhi Na Mile
Just where the two of them were together. There were some who tried adjusting, while some compromised with the situation. While some showed their superficial love trying to understand their story, some wanted happiness for them which they thought was in them being together. Everyone agreed finally but not willingly.
Kuch Rang Pyar Ke Aise Bhi


It's Coming
Kuch Rang Pyar Ke Aise Bhi
Many hints, so many doubt, so many indications that it's gonna be a difficult journey to walk on..and the path will not just be full of love

Kya hota hai Jab Dil ke faisle dimag se hote hai ...
The break-up, the urge to see her for once, stalker lover boy following the lady, lady trying to move on without letting go, they promise each other to go with the flow, stay away but couldn't,DevKiDeewangi and Sonakshi runs to his rescue leaving her engagement..
~ Ishwari needs importance, only I can get my son's happiness back
~ Son feels mom is happy in his happiness
~ Baba not happy with Dixits
~ Asha maa like any sweet mother falls in Ishu's emotional talk trap
~ Sonakshi's love for Dev says Jump for future is with Dev only, everything will be tackled
~ Dev feels there is no life without Sonakshi..she's his habit now
~ Dev proposes to Sonakshi..they decide to get married

And as I mentioned in my earlier post,
Love is so strong an emotion, if all other emotions come together vs. Love and decision is in the hands of the person in love
RESULT - all other emotions along with the person himself will lose and Love will win hands down.






It's Almost There
...Asaan nahi hai Dev Sonakshi ki Shaadi
- The Cultural Difference
- Big Difference in Family Background
- Huge Difference in Life Experiences
- Even bigger differences in how they lived their earlier lives
- The Environment Difference (broad mindedl vs. conservative)
- No time for anyone to settle down and heal things...marriage is in 10 days
- Difference in eating habits
- Ritual differences ...orthodox vs. liberal
- Independent Vs. Dependant
- Love marriage, add on to everything else..Didn't get to choose the "Outsider"
- Our likes vs. their likes





It has Arrived...
And it's time for DevakshiKiShaadi






Welcome Mrs. Dixit!!
Ouch!! Its hurts 😭😭

Yes my dearies ..you two have found love in each other...but now it's time to build that love.

Coz just like humans, love too changes (grows) with time. You keep giving it a new meaning as you grow together (even if you grow apart).

Love before marriage can just be a feeling but love after marriage it is a commitment.

So yes my dearies..
~ Welcome to the world of MATURE love.
~ Welcome to the world where love that was your WEAKNESS now requires to make it your STRENGTH.
~ Welcome from a world of EXPECTATIONS to the world of REALITY.
~ Welcome to the world where love will not be enough, welcome to the world of marriage where just like you love needs a companion in the form of time, effort, trust, patience, communication..for a lifetime.
~ Welcome to the world where colours don't necessarily form a RAINBOW coz Black is also a colour...but also don't forget that white is a colour too which blends with all other colours.
~ Love is pure, its white and so it can blend with other Colours..but it needs the right mix, an artists talent and time to make that amazing canvas painting.





So here we are in a world of Reality, where
True Love is Not Found, it's Built !!
How?
It needs lot of efforts, hell lot of patience, trust for each other, Communication, Balance, faithfulness and many more things that you'll learn about as you walk
But most Importantly, It requires TIME. Please give time sometime.
Kuch Rang Pyar Ke Aise Bhi

To be in love all you need is love but to be in a marriage you need all of this.

Being deeply loved by each other will give you Strength and loving each other deeply will give you Courage.

You both took a new and good step today...Its a small one.
And a million miles to go...😳

In future too there will come times, when things will not be as you want them to be but just be beside each other, for tough times require even tougher people. If you are together, the journey won't be easy but you surely will find strength to face things and move ahead hand in hand.




A small story

Once upon a time, there was an island where all the feelings lived: Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all of the others including Love.

One day it was announced to the feelings that the island would sink, so all repaired their boats and left. Love was the only one who stayed. Love wanted to persevere until the last possible moment.

When the island was almost sinking, Love decided to ask for help. Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat. Love said, "Richness, can you take me with you?" Richness answered, "No, I can't.. There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat. There is no place here for you."

Love decided to ask Vanity who was also passing by in a beautiful vessel, Vanity, please help me!" "I can't help you Love. You are all wet and might damage my boat," Vanity answered.

Sadness was close by so Love asked for help, "Sadness, let me go with you." "Oh...Love, I am so sad that I need to be by myself!"

Happiness passed by Love too, but she was so happy that she did not even hear when Love called her!

Suddenly, there was a voice, "Come Love, I will take you." It was an elder. Love felt so blessed and overjoyed that he even forgot to ask the elder her name.

When they arrived at dry land, the elder went her way. Love, realizing how much he owed the elder, asked Knowledge, another elder, "Who helped me?" "It was Time," Knowledge answered. "Time?" asked Love, "But why did Time help me?" Knowledge smiled with deep Wisdom and answered,

"Because only Time is capable of understanding how great Love is.



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Posted: 8 years ago
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Diksha 😭 Take a bow first girl. _/\_ Its amazing, wonderful. šŸ‘
I came in the forum looking for your post in between the episode. And you made such an emotional and beautiful post. I can feel Devakshi in every bit of it; their journey, their love, their happiness, their sorrows, their worries, everything.
They met, fall in love, shared a dream together, fall apart and now again re united. You know many people have said that Devakshi are not meant for each other and sona should have moved on etc etc etc. But your post showed it that how and why they are together. Loved it.
And that story is awesome. Yes time is indeed an important factor.

Ps- Either u make me laugh through ur posts or cry. Dono extremes mai hote hai posts. šŸ˜† Stay blessed.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: cscs

Diksha 😭 Take a bow first girl. _/\_ Its amazing, wonderful. šŸ‘

I came in the forum looking for your post in between the episode. And you made such an emotional and beautiful post. I can feel Devakshi in every bit of it; their journey, their love, their happiness, their sorrows, their worries, everything.
They met, fall in love, shared a dream together, fall apart and now again re united. You know many people have said that Devakshi are not meant for each other and sona should have moved on etc etc etc. But your post showed it that how and why they are together. Loved it.
And that story is awesome. Yes time is indeed an important factor.

Ps- Either u make me laugh through ur posts or cry. Dono extremes mai hote hai posts. šŸ˜† Stay blessed.


Thank you for liking..😳This one was specially for you...I shapath ā˜ŗļøšŸ˜†

I had thought of 3-4 posts but I am midway with all..not getting much time. Even for this one, I had planned quotes with Devakshi pics but due to time constraint I posted it like that only and I am glad u liked it.

I know people have different views, but like I mentioned, whether they are meant for each other or not can be answered by those who have ever loved someone selflessly. For love does not need reason. The day you have a reason for loving someone, its not love.

Btw..I need to know ur story and theory of "how two people n love can move mountains".
Pls make me feel blessed by sharing it..I would love to know your views. 😳

PS: I try to create balance between my posts..maybe not within a single post but surely between all I make. šŸ˜‰šŸ˜†


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: dikshat


Thank you for liking..😳This one was specially for you...I shapath ā˜ŗļøšŸ˜†

I had thought of 3-4 posts but I am midway with all..not getting much time. Even for this one, I had planned quotes with Devakshi pics but due to time constraint I posted it like that only and I am glad u liked it.

I know people have different views, but like I mentioned, whether they are meant for each other or not can be answered by those who have ever loved someone selflessly. For love does not need reason. The day you have a reason for loving someone, its not love.

Btw..I need to know ur story and theory of "how two people n love can move mountains".
Pls make me feel blessed by sharing it..I would love to know your views. 😳

PS: I try to create balance between my posts..maybe not within a single post but surely between all I make. šŸ˜‰šŸ˜†


Thank u fr this post again thn šŸ˜›
n i dnt have any story abt "ppl in love moving mountains" (U see i am hopeless in this casešŸ˜†) I was just referring to devakshi that how they can pass any hurdle together.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Excellent post. But this sentence took the post to a whole new level.

Love before marriage can just be a feeling but love after marriage it is a commitment.

Yes, love changes, strengthens and if nurtured with respect, honour and dignity it transcends time and becomes a solid foundation that no one can break. Like Bijoy and Asha's relationship which is the foundation of Bose family.

Dev and Sona can become that rock. They just need to build that trust, support and comfort which only a rock-solid relationship can have.
Edited by tia.o - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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wonderful post...and the story at the end is so fitting especially for dev's character...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Mind blowing post really... I loved it... Take a bow... And seriously d quotes were just awesome and indeed it feels lyk i m once again watching d episodes... šŸ‘
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Posted: 8 years ago
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šŸ‘šŸ‘
Totally awestruck reading ur post.
And the short story just took the entire post to another level.
How do you come out with such things yaar??
Aankhen nam ho gayi isse padke sachiii
Every word in ur post makes absolute sense
Totally a different perspective towards love.
And the way u highlighted the importance of giving time sometime was my favorite ā¤ļø
This post is truly very impactful
Loving your posts more and more😳
And thank u sooo much for this masterpiece šŸ¤—
Edited by Arnavananya - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: cscs


Thank u fr this post again thnšŸ˜›
n i dnt have any story abt "ppl in love moving mountains" (U see i am hopeless in this casešŸ˜†) I was just referring to devakshithat how they can pass any hurdle together.



I love your comments on all posts and so I really don't see them as hopeless..aise na bol yar
Bas devakshi ki lofe problem se bhar do..main to chahti hu..dey show problems hum kya hai
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

Excellent post. But this sentence took the post to a whole new level.


Love before marriage can just be a feeling but love after marriage it is a commitment.

Yes, love changes, strengthens and if nurtured with respect, honour and dignity it transcends time and becomes a solid foundation that no one can break. Like Bijoy and Asha's relationship which is the foundation of Bose family.

Dev and Sona can become that rock. They just need to build that trust, support and comfort which only a rock-solid relationship can have.


Thank you for liking 😳
Who else can know this better than the one's like you who are married that how important that commitment is.😃

You just mentioned what I felt after seeing Bijoy and Asha's scene.
That also showed why Sonakshi will feel the issues at Dixit's house more as she is not used to seeing family like that.

I hope Dev and Sona build their love amidst all crisis..and I am confident they will 😳

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