Originally posted by: Push-pull
And when talking about culture and rituals these arguments and debates never end.. And not sure how many of us really know the traditions and culture in depth to even argue about it..😆Many times it's the adaptations of these at various functions that we would have seen.. Looks like the new entry in the Dixit's have been brought just to emphasize on that and seeing the forum, we have many such minds who want to see certain rituals for what reason I don't know..😕
If The Dixits'have agreed on Bengali style wedding what did they actually agree upon - Bengali Panditji or Bengali food or Bengali dress or Bengali rituals? If The Bose family was happy about the Bengali wedding then what was their expectations from the other side to support them?
For me wedding is just wedding.. It could be a simple signature on a wedding certificate.. or a ring/garland exchange.. or anything that marks the girl and boy as husband and wife.. What is that factor here?! I don't know even now.. hope they register the marriage anyway.. To avoid confusion telling this ritual didn't happen and so you both are not married yet..😆
The dixits and Bose family should have sat together and decided on the rituals prior the wedding. That really would have had saved clashes during wedding as all would have had been taken care of before. 😆 Anyhow, All is well, If end is well and we did get finally Mr and Mrs Dixit out of this wedding.
BTW I don't see this buaji leaving Dixit mansion any time soon. Seems she too remembered them only in good times n not in their bad times when they were struggling hard to make ends meet. Ristedaar I tell you absolutely no use, sab ke sab matlabi.
Just another thought, when buaji or Ishwari or mami talk of keeping a leash on Dev, don't they remember what they have done to their respective husbands (snatching from their mom's). When in general women talk to another women and advice to keep DIL in control, why do they forget their own lives and times. I guess out of respect no one has said anything to them or else we might see a change in some atleast. Or is it more like every dog has its days scenario. I don't know it just makes me hate the whole idea of one women advising such a thing to another women.