The difference

Originally posted by: Kiara.25

Ragini can murder her own sister for laksh, break her relations for him and Swara can't even igonre the maheshwari and her spinless baba.

Like seriously, she still want to unite with such family who dont trust her husband and can beat the sh*t out of him without thinking.

I started hating her for this thing.

P.S- Please save swara's character from drowning.

Originally posted by: s.munagala

Sorry, but I have to ask; precisely how does that make Ragini a better character compared to Swara, if that's what you were implying? The fact that Ragini can compromise her "values"...

(and given that she was actually instilled with those so called values by her grandmother, that's really not saying a great deal! I mean, we've all been witness to exactly how "upstanding" her lovely grandmother's values are after all!!!)

...is testamount to just how fickle and selfish she is with her loyalty and love towards her half-sister.

I respect Swara's character simply because she stands up for truth and has loyalty to her loved ones above all else but, if ever even those loved ones go against truth and behave in a depraved way, she doesn't compromise herself and/or her values and ignore their wrongdoings. That's what makes her character such a fabulous one. She's not trying to unite the Maheshwari's to support Sanskaar's family for his sake, she's fighting against the injustice committed by them and wants to restore honesty amongst them. It's actually an extremely admirable trait and not one that deserves revulsion. But that is simply my own humble opinion.

Originally posted by: s.munagala

Sorry, but I have to ask; precisely how does that make Ragini a better character compared to Swara, if that's what you were implying? The fact that Ragini can compromise her "values"...

(and given that she was actually instilled with those so called values by her grandmother, that's really not saying a great deal! I mean, we've all been witness to exactly how "upstanding" her lovely grandmother's values are after all!!!)

...is testamount to just how fickle and selfish she is with her loyalty and love towards her half-sister.

I respect Swara's character simply because she stands up for truth and has loyalty to her loved ones above all else but, if ever even those loved ones go against truth and behave in a depraved way, she doesn't compromise herself and/or her values and ignore their wrongdoings. That's what makes her character such a fabulous one. She's not trying to unite the Maheshwari's to support Sanskaar's family for his sake, she's fighting against the injustice committed by them and wants to restore honesty amongst them. It's actually an extremely admirable trait and not one that deserves revulsion. But that is simply my own humble opinion.

Originally posted by: s.munagala

Originally posted by: tiny15

Swara is not so callous towards Sanskaar, she did tend to his wounds and had run straight over to him when seeing him come home in such a state after all. Sanskaar was angry with Lakysh...

(rightly so, but he needed to put things into perspective, and not be swayed by his ego being bruised),

...and was reacting to that anger irrationally forgetting the bigger picture. Swara has taken up the challenge of solving their families problems in entirety, meaning that she wants to unite the Maheshwari, the Gadodia and the Bose families together properly restoring the proper relationships to their natural order, and righting the wrongs committed by Aadarsh, Parineeti, and her grandmother. That's hardly a baseless war when you look at the big picture, which Sanskaar has obviously lost sight of. It's like the old adage of not being able to see the forest for the trees. Swara is very capable of seeing that big picture and realise that her Uncle and Aunt are being compelled to say what they were saying by something/someone behind the scenes. Ragini began to realise this fact once Swara put those questions to her and challenged her find logical answers to them...

(Ragini has never been allowed to let her mind free enough to use all her brain due to her Marwaadi family and the restrictions placed on women by their societal values.)

...and in doing so opened her up to doubt enough to start to question why things happened the way they did and the convenience of it all for those manipulating events to suit their purposes.

It again is admirable on Swara's part for standing up to injustice and attempting to correct the wrongdoings that put them in the place they are in as a result.

Again, I'm expressing my own humble opinion here, and not trying to criticise or undermine anyone else's.

Take Care One and All!!!

Cheers Guys!

Swapna

Originally posted by: s.munagala

Swara is not so callous towards Sanskaar, she did tend to his wounds and had run straight over to him when seeing him come home in such a state after all. Sanskaar was angry with Lakysh...

(rightly so, but he needed to put things into perspective, and not be swayed by his ego being bruised),

...and was reacting to that anger irrationally forgetting the bigger picture. Swara has taken up the challenge of solving their families problems in entirety, meaning that she wants to unite the Maheshwari, the Gadodia and the Bose families together properly restoring the proper relationships to their natural order, and righting the wrongs committed by Aadarsh, Parineeti, and her grandmother. That's hardly a baseless war when you look at the big picture, which Sanskaar has obviously lost sight of. It's like the old adage of not being able to see the forest for the trees. Swara is very capable of seeing that big picture and realise that her Uncle and Aunt are being compelled to say what they were saying by something/someone behind the scenes. Ragini began to realise this fact once Swara put those questions to her and challenged her find logical answers to them...

(Ragini has never been allowed to let her mind free enough to use all her brain due to her Marwaadi family and the restrictions placed on women by their societal values.)

...and in doing so opened her up to doubt enough to start to question why things happened the way they did and the convenience of it all for those manipulating events to suit their purposes.

It again is admirable on Swara's part for standing up to injustice and attempting to correct the wrongdoings that put them in the place they are in as a result.

Again, I'm expressing my own humble opinion here, and not trying to criticise or undermine anyone else's.

Take Care One and All!!!

Cheers Guys!

Swapna

P. S. You and I do agree on one particular point though😆, Swara & Ragini's father's character is utterly spineless👎🏼!!! He is so miserable without his Mishti😭, and Aayush, but is incapable of standing up to his mother KNOWING just how she is cruelly manipulating him and his circumstances to sway events in her favour. He is well aware of all that his mother is actually capable of, yet still accused😡 his Mishti of causing harm to Aayush. Common sense would have told him that she could never make such a mistake and that someone who was against Aayush's very existence in the world would have done that act, and the only person capable of it was his mother😡!!!

Originally posted by: Kiara.25

Even sanskar is angry but here its not ego, its self respect. Good enough that you prove yourself right and stand tall. But please stand tall dont bend to reunite with a sister like ragini and a baba like shekhar and a family like maheshwaris. After so much allegations and fights swara is still willing to sing swaragini in high octaves like nothing happened. C'mon doing shrradh of a live person is a big deal and ragini have a habbit of getting away from anything without repenting just beacause swara forgive her easily. but its high yime to take a stand for herself and soulmate. and by not doing so for me her character is sinking.