1.Maa hides one document from son..son hides one document from maa.
Maa justifies that as she is productive about her daughters.
Dev does this to keep his love happy.
2.Baba said to sona "u r my daughter now-forever. I'm always there to support u "
Ishwari sees sona only as the mother of her grand kids.If she ready to give this she will be treated as queen.If some problems come she &her kids shouldn't expect even a ruppee .from dixits..
3.Ishwari made 15 lakhs costly lehanga for her bahu.
Baba always dreamt her daughter in a simple banarasi saree .
Exceptations Vs life long dreams here.
4.Neha didn't wear her sasural's lehanga as she thinks it was not upto the status .
Sona may doesn't wear her sasural's lehanga as she wants to fulfil his father's one &only dream abt her shaadi . ( coz she chose life partner against his wish )
5.Asha ma trusts -Eventhough everything turns against her daughter , her love dev is there to take care of her.
IShwari thinks if she gives everything dev wants then he will always remains as her "bakth"(sona khilona)
7.Sona's daadi makes her children feel lighter whenever they r in any sadness.
Dev's daadi poisoning the mind of already twisted Ishwari by bahu-son-saas talks.
So it's not abt two cultures, two lovers but about different thoughts of ppl-their way of approaching life..
In this none will be entirely right &none will ne entirely wrong.sab apne apne jagah par sahi hai..
Because in our show no one is white and no one is black..
.Every one has many colours according to their situation. .Kuch rang life ke aise bhi...