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Priya

@priyadarshini.r

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Posted: 9 years ago

#71

Originally posted by: 3fra
People just want to make it ugly no one has problems with raman pain as father but how he showing his pain through drinking & crying
Suddenly strong father who ready to fight for his daughter become pathetic it's not convinced

I respect your views & it is true that resorting to drinking is not the solution to the problem. There is nothing wrong in crying his heart out. Even yesterday, I had complaints against him sitting and crying. I was under the assumption that Raman has not applied for even visitation rights and keeps crying instead of taking any actions. But then, looks like he has spoke to lawyer & now we have some strange clauses added, thanks to shagun, that he is unable to even talk to his daughter over phone. In this situation, can he not cry atleast? I agree drinking is completely wrong and resorting to alcohol is no way going to bring back Pihu. I guess that is what Ishita also made him understand. I also don't accept this taking to alcohol as a means to let out pain. So while I agree to your point about the need to stop drinking & taking actions, he letting out his pain of not being able to talk to his daughter through tears cannot be completely wrong. But yes, he should not drown in self pity and pain & be man enough to counter attack Shagun & Mani. That is the expectation, we all have from RKB. Unfortunately we are not at all getting it.

@bold- can you tell me when was he a strong father, ever since he lost the custody battle? Did he not completely breakdown on the day of the judgement, the next day morning & was panicking that he wants to meet Pihu even at the cost of taking a old notebook? He was strong, as long as Pihu was with him during the role reversal track. Though his attempts were futile, he kept trying hard, because he had Pihu along with him and he believed he will be able to win her love & there by bring IshHu closer. Now she has been taken away from him & his efforts have not paid off. It is Pihu's absence & she choosing Shagun over him, that has made him what he is now. I'm not justifying him. I agree, he needs to buck up & get on to the act though.

Only if the makers let this track remain pure & not bring in Raman Vs Ishita, Raman Vs Mani, Mani Vs Alia, Mani Vs Ishita, Raman vs Adi, all these nonsense angle in between, there by the completely demeaning the significance of IshRa-Pihu track. 🤔. Just my thoughts.

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momb24

@momb24

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

#72

I absolutely love kp breakdown scenes but where cvs failed is not building on raman and pihu bonding enough to feel for this breakdown.

I truly hope they focus on pihu and reuniting the family. It feels like a lot of drama without having any ishra.

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bscorp13

@bscorp13

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 9 years ago

#73

Originally posted by: snehaseshan

I'm not belittling raman's pain raman's pain is understanding & justified but I didn't like Raman getting drunk daily to forget d pain I wanted Raman to try all d ways to get back pihu. My issue is not raman's pain I HVE issues with raman's ways of dealing with his pain..

I get you sneha and we are on the same page..I don't think getting drunk is the solutiom..but neither raman nor ishita is being proactive here..it's unfair to pile the responsibility of 'acting' rather than crying on raman alone...raman did go and seek visitation rights..and spoke to a lawyer right..

Ishita has known about shagun's threats and challenges regarding pihu, mani and raman for a long time now..is she thinking or acting either ..has she tried informing mani in advance ..has she tried getting shagun cornered through Mihir. ...no...she is also agreeing to raman or saying sab theek ho jaayega. .pihu waapis aayegi etc...

Just a week back ishita went blind in pain ...when adi was accused of attacking aliya.,she refused to see reason a d decided on a weird plan to get Adi to confess he didn't commit the crime..right? Impulsive and rash behavior too.. she didn't take to drinking but was shown equally broken...when ruhi was taken away..ishita even thought of commuting suicide right? Again was the the right reactiom to pain. .no..but we all felt for her..we all cried with her...so why not allow raman his moment of pain and impulsive reaction too...none of us know what's upcoming na...so why different sieves for different people...

And I am sorry if I got you wrong the first time...but your statement about 'if mani is wrong in taking out raman's anger on adi then Raman is also wrong kya is it aalia's mistake that she is mani's daughter...he asked aalia to get out of his office is that not unfair' ..looked like a comparison...and that part I totally disagree...

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snehaseshan

@snehaseshan

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 9 years ago

#74

Originally posted by: bscorp13

I get you sneha and we are on the same page..I don't think getting drunk is the solutiom..but neither raman nor ishita is being proactive here..it's unfair to pile the responsibility of 'acting' rather than crying on raman alone...raman did go and seek visitation rights..and spoke to a lawyer right..
Ishita has known about shagun's threats and challenges regarding pihu, mani and raman for a long time now..is she thinking or acting either ..has she tried informing mani in advance ..has she tried getting shagun cornered through Mihir. ...no...she is also agreeing to raman or saying sab theek ho jaayega. .pihu waapis aayegi etc...

Just a week back ishita went blind in pain ...when adi was accused of attacking aliya.,she refused to see reason a d decided on a weird plan to get Adi to confess he didn't commit the crime..right? Impulsive and rash behavior too.. she didn't take to drinking but was shown equally broken...when ruhi was taken away..ishita even thought of commuting suicide right? Again was the the right reactiom to pain. .no..but we all felt for her..we all cried with her...so why not allow raman his moment of pain and impulsive reaction too...none of us know what's upcoming na...so why different sieves for different people...

And I am sorry if I got you wrong the first time...but your statement about 'if mani is wrong in taking out raman's anger on adi then Raman is also wrong kya is it aalia's mistake that she is mani's daughter...he asked aalia to get out of his office is that not unfair' ..looked like a comparison...and that part I totally disagree...

That was not to compare Raman & mani I was telling that taking parents anger on their kids is wrong both mani & Raman did it which I feel is wrong.. but if u feel that my post was looking like a comparison then sorry my intention was to just state facts to ppl who were saying that mani taking out raman's anger on adi is wrong so My post ws to them to say that Raman was also wrong in taking anger on aalia & asking her to get out of his office that's it..

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-K.13-

@-K.13-

Sparkler

Posted: 9 years ago

#75

Originally posted by: 3fra
People just want to make it ugly no one has problems with raman pain as father but how he showing his pain through drinking & crying
Suddenly strong father who ready to fight for his daughter become pathetic it's not convinced

Um is anyone fighting for Pihu right now?

No na?

So both IshRa are pathetic and weak

Yet yaha toh day to day same discussion

No one is gonna change their POV yet it this discussion goes in circles.

People cope in different ways - one drinks & the other suppresses & both are utterly distructive yet yaha toh hamesha ek hi track par sab tapak gaye

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Pooja2311

@Pooja2311

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#76

Originally posted by: snehaseshan
Then Raman misbehaved wit aalia took out mani's anger on aalia if mani is wrong in taking out raman's anger on adi then Raman is also wrong kya is it aalia's mistake that she is mani's daughter...he asked aalia to get out of his office is that not unfair.. y did Raman advise adi that drinking & coming home is wrong wen adi came drunk..were is practice Wat u preach ????

Perhaps both Raman and Mani are inspired by none other than Ishita. She's the prime example of not practicing own preaching.

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kpkaru93

@kpkaru93

Navigator

Posted: 9 years ago

#77

Originally posted by: Pooja2311

Perhaps both Raman and Mani are inspired by none other than Ishita. She's the prime example of not practicing own preaching.

Hi sneha dr,,, dnt mistk me,,, i just want to knw y u hd so much haterd towards raman,,. Just Curious to knw dr