Showing bhagodi dulhan is women enpowerment ?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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So I have seen a lot if posts saying mallika was brought into the show for highlighting women empowerment.I want to ask from what angle mallika is an example for women empowerment ? Running from your marriage by humiliating your own family and grooms family is empowerment ? 🤡 If they wanted to give message then they should have made mallika stand up for her rights and face SVR and his family instead if running away.What did she get by running away from her wedding ? She should have talked about the issue to SVR and solved it.If he still didn't understand she should have called off marriage that would have been more respectful than running away.Its not like anyone would kill her if she stops the marriage.She should have faced their anger but its still better than what she did.So what message did she send through this track ? To run away from your marriage and never face problems.Instead go to your ex and enjoy partying with his family 😆 AND if Gul actually wants to show this issue she can very well show it through prinku who has low confidence and jahnavi taking a stand for herself.No need for mallika in all this.
PS: I made this only cozz people are saying SJ is brought to show message and not for trps 😆 I dont buy that reason 😛
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Posted: 9 years ago
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First of all hi divz🤗
so happy to see ur post🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

Cvs messed up with a big time. They act brought SJ for Trp but it did not work. Regarding women empowerment it was good topic handled poorly. Malika shd have taken stand. running away from ur problems are not any
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Posted: 9 years ago
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But then it has been shown from 1st day itself that Mallika is afraid of confronting people...and trust me a lot have this issue, and being a self made person that she is she ran away. If she would not have been successful in her professional life, then she wouldn't have had the confidence to run away also, and would have probably settled for the marriage.
I think they are showing it the right way only, that if the guy's family understands, I am saying family because mallika never said Siddharth had any problem with her work, then i guess a lot of girls won't have to sacrifice their career after marriage.

At the end we also need to understand, that it's a daily soap for the entertainment of people, so some drama should be there, otherwise it will look dull. We can't or rather shouldn't expect practicality from every scene.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I also don't buy the reason that a strong headed girl as she was shown to be, CEO of a company, a businesswoman by profession keeps running away from the problems because she does not know to confront... A lady who wud be dealing with most complex of the complex problems didn't know how to have a conversation and find a way to resolve her problem...

I don't know what to say about the track ... I enjoyed some parts/ scenes..Some seemed to be overstretched... SJ's acting was good.. She stepped into the shoes of today's girl... It was done better than the craps which are going on in the television right now... But overall if u ask me the track was only incorporated to kill time... Its just that they killed time with dignity... 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sonikins

First of all hi divz🤗

so happy to see ur post🤗

Cvs messed up with a big time. They act brought SJ for Trp but it did not work. Regarding women empowerment it was good topic handled poorly. Malika shd have taken stand. running away from ur problems are not any
solution


Aww thank you soni 🤗 At least some one missed me 😆
Mallikas track doesn't make sense at all.How come she agreed to go with SVR soo easily when she knows his mother.It has soo many loopholes.I feel the makers are not sure what they wanted to show.First give a back story to her and forgot about it.Made her do stupid things instead of sorting out the mess she created.If women empowerment was the thing then I m sorry it wasn't dealt well
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Basically
Running away wasn't a thing
But then she had a reason
She wanted to be treated equally.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree! Humiliating your family and running away instead of standing up for your rights doesn't exactly sound like a good message. Rather selfish & lacking courage.

When trps didn't improve, say it's for social message. Kuch bhi.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: mimi07

But then it has been shown from 1st day itself that Mallika is afraid of confronting people...and trust me a lot have this issue, and being a self made person that she is she ran away. If she would not have been successful in her professional life, then she wouldn't have had the confidence to run away also, and would have probably settled for the marriage.

I think they are showing it the right way only, that if the guy's family understands, I am saying family because mallika never said Siddharth had any problem with her work, then i guess a lot of girls won't have to sacrifice their career after marriage.

At the end we also need to understand, that it's a daily soap for the entertainment of people, so some drama should be there, otherwise it will look dull. We can't or rather shouldn't expect practicality from every scene.


I know we cant expect logic in tv shows 😆 But still since everyone is harping about women empowerment and how Gul showed it through mallika I just wanted to point out what they showed was wrong.She may have confronting issues fine but she didnt try to sort it out even after escaping wedding.Instead she was partying and doing silly things.Where is women empowerment in all this comedy circus 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: LoveXiaomi

I also don't buy the reason that a strong headed girl as she was shown to be, CEO of a company, a businesswoman by profession keeps running away from the problems because she does not know to confront... A lady who wud be dealing with most complex of the complex problems didn't know how to have a conversation and find a way to resolve her problem...

I don't know what to say about the track ... I enjoyed some parts/ scenes..Some seemed to be overstretched... SJ's acting was good.. She stepped into the shoes of today's girl... It was done better than the craps which are going on in the television right now... But overall if u ask me the track was only incorporated to kill time... Its just that they killed time with dignity...😆


Agree with what you said it was incorporated to kill me 😆 SJ is a good actor it would have been nice if they introduced her at proper time and bring twist in the story instead of wasting her at initial stages and showing kuch bhi in the name of women empowerment !!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Totally agree with your post..!!! i would have liked mallika's cameo if she confronted her family & groom's family rather than running away..!!! & i really dont understand till now whats the reason behind the unnecessary cameo..!! Trp nahi mili to ab kuch bhi bolke vatak lo..😆

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