who is feeling bad for Suman?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Honestly, I'm not feeling bad for Suman.
Why can't she understand, if she have dreams about her own marriage, her groom & his family will also have dreams about his marriage, na?

It is a thing that affects both equally
She can't say it's her marriage only, as she can't marry herself
It's not her own prestige issue, his prestige also to be considered here
She considers only her self-respect, but can't respect other's emotions
Respect is a thing, to be given & taken
If only she could respect others, she could get it back from others
Sorry, in this matter, I support Shravan.
Her self-respect Jaap is irritating me a lot
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Same here..Shravan asked her politely but no..this 'self respect' is getting on my nerves now..Where was her self respect when after being humiliated by shravan in re union she went back to shravan to fight case against khosla.. common yaar..I think CVs should think about dat as well..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I don't feel bad for her and i am just happy at last both idiots got married
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I completely agree that she was being peculiarly unreasonable.. even when he tried to explain her in such a soothing way... (I actually caught a glimpse of teenager Shravan requesting his Sumo)
But she being thick headed... pata nhi kyu samajh nhi rahi thi... but still looking at jer face in court... I felt bad for her.. but I won't say am mad at Shravan for doing this!!
Maybe what he did was best!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thanx for the post-
If she truly Luvs Shravan then she will consider him as part of herself. Shravan is right as Suman can ask others for help but has such "self respect" mantra only for Shravan. So irritating
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Infact if we c wat shravan has done for Sumo since childhood..Sumo is indebted to shravan.She could have said yes just to make him happy atleast once..Dat is wat true love is..U think about d other person's happiness first.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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CVs make fun of self respect...Suman compromises everything..agreed both marriage according to family's pressure...then she doesn't remember abt her self respect...isn't it against her self respect agreeing to marry first the man she doesn't love and second one she knows the man hates her now..doesn't leave a stone to show her low..
but somehow I agreed wid her point Shadi will be as per bride's wish n reception will be groom's way...it wud not b no harm to throw gala party by Malhotras..
I feel bad that Shravan is one person to whom only Suman can demand..now all her dreams sunk.. I have mixture ...not sad for her self respect but sad for her dreams...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shreeswathy

Honestly, I'm not feeling bad for Suman.
Why can't she understand, if she have dreams about her own marriage, her groom & his family will also have dreams about his marriage, na?

It is a thing that affects both equally
She can't say it's her marriage only, as she can't marry herself
It's not her own prestige issue, his prestige also to be considered here
She considers only her self-respect, but can't respect other's emotions
Respect is a thing, to be given & taken
If only she could respect others, she could get it back from others
Sorry, in this matter, I support Shravan.
Her self-respect Jaap is irritating me a lot



But the groom said nothing of his dreams.. He started papa want this papa want that jaap. And he started money thing again.. U guys cant so we'll pay for all. Shravan is a figusting character and needs redemption soon. He aint no hero but zero.. CVs have made him spineless and hit rock bottom 😡
Edited by vibg - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I didn't feel bad for her, because shravan did try to politely explain to her. she got a taste of her own medicine. But I must give her credit that she said Malhotras could have a reception for their guests... this could have been a happy compromise. But Shravan bhi to egoistic hai. ;0)
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I have two minds on this...while I find Suman self respect Jaap irritating and flawed but I don't support how Shravan forcefully married Suman via court marriage. Suman and Shravan acted like idiots. Shravan prepared himself already and he just acted to ask her about marriage but had already planned this, and this is what I dislike. Moreover it's always Papa wants this,papa want that...dude grow up...what do you want? Don't tell me you want to be the puppet of your Papa. I'm sure Shravan will regret when he will know Ramnaths truth. Suman too need to consider what he thinks. She never takes his help in any financial matters.


Anyway... creatives made mockery of marriage. Wasted a chance ... but I'm still hopeful. Because I like this show a lot.

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