RiddhKara Break-up. | Why It Is Sensible. VB note pg2 - Page 2

Long time di!😛

Originally posted by: parthianglory.

Omkara's behaviour towards Riddhima appears childish and immature. To an extent, it is.

However, for those who are demanding sensibility from writers, regarding the circumstances surrounding their break-up, must read between the lines.

The issue is not pink cushions and an hideous bomber jacket. These are examples. At the heart of the matter is: miscommunication, and unwillingness to compromise.

Both Riddhima and Omkara are at fault.

Riddhima, is self-centred and blind to her boyfriend's preferences. This is not a crime. I have been guilty of imposing my likes and dislikes on my SO, time and again. It's what you do in a relationship, because you feel that you have that right on your partner.

Obviously, sometimes one can go overboard and it is the responsibility of the other half to draw the line.

This is where Omkara falls short. Why isn't he upfront about his feelings?

Maybe, because he does not want to hurt her feelings. Yet, one would assume that after being in a relationship for three years, a person would be comfortable enough to voice their likes and dislikes without fear of being judged or misunderstood.

Perhaps, it is because they have been in a long distance relationship for so long and only now, they are truly beginning to see each other for who they are. Maybe, they've never really known each other at all. Omkara has idolised Riddhima. He loves the idea of her, of what she stands for, what he perceives as virtues. However, when you really love someone, you love them for their imperfections as well.

You cannot love people by halves, and this is the sad truth that Omkara must realise.

It would only take a simple, calm conversation to make things clear.

Just as he cannot change for her, he cannot expect her to change for him either, however with negotiation, a happy medium can be reached.

In any case, if they do break up over something so petty, then it must be obvious that there was no true desire to make things work out in the end, because if there's one thing that I know for certain, it is that we fight for the people we love.

And if he can give her up so easily, he never loved her in the first place.

Nice post

My only issue is the 3 year thing

They have been in a relationship for 3 years .I cant believe Ridhimma has never acted like this before and is acting like this for the first time?

It seems like just because they have to breakup all of a sudden Ridhimma is behaving like this.Which is not required.We know Ridhimma lies about social work and Om hates lies.So the reason for their break up is clear here.So why generate other reasons?

Originally posted by: __nidhi__

Long time di!😛

I hope you remember me😉

Coming to your post.

It's perfectly true what you said in your post.

Being in a long distance relationship it's not that easy, I have experienced it and when the person comes out from texting and talking its when you could see the person how he/she behaves when the other comment or impose their decisions upon them.

RidhiKara breakup has to be happening because eventually Om is for Ish. I am hoping that soon this breakup track gets finished and Ishana enter.😳

I am 100% agree to your post di!

P.S.: What was the need of Ridhima to be with omkara?😕

P.P.S.: I haven't told you but I have stalled all your post since I joined the forum! Sholly!😳 *running to a place to hide my face*😆

Originally posted by: Sabhayata

Nice post

My only issue is the 3 year thing

They have been in a relationship for 3 years .I cant believe Ridhimma has never acted like this before and is acting like this for the first time?

It seems like just because they have to breakup all of a sudden Ridhimma is behaving like this.Which is not required.We know Ridhimma lies about social work and Om hates lies.So the reason for their break up is clear here.So why generate other reasons?

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