Of Meera, Abhi, and some realizations - Page 9

Originally posted by: URnotThisBody

Hmmm.. I guess it was genie who mentioned it in this other post ...that loneliness was a common trait between the two ( something along that line)

Just got me thinking.. is there any other similarities as such between the two although they seem poles apart!!

Originally posted by: charminggenie

People Pleasing- In a sense they both want to please their respective families. One succeeds while other fails.

Agree. Although Meera keeps repeating kudh Kush rahoge tabhi doosron ko Kush rakh paaoge.. When it comes to her family she isn't like that.

Unassuming- They are both unassuming about their personal aspirations and while Meera never seemed to find something inspiring to her, Abhi is resigned .

Living in present- while Abhi may seem to run on a schedule but it's a very short term thing, like he hasn't planned his life for 5 years or what "he" wants to do for his own self. While Meera is Meera.

Both of the above- hmm but wouldn't Abhishek be otherwise if his father hadn't abandoned him.

Stubborn - Both are stubborn in their own ways.

Example??

Very similar and strong beliefs about family system.

Totally agree

I think mostly why they seem pretty, and cute together is because they are similar and they add to each other in that way. They may superficially seem contrasting but they are similar, for me, that is one of the most essential component in making love stories work. Only difference here there are big differences in how they process life , rationality and awareness in general.