You finally answered my question that has been bugging me since the majboori factor started, the CVs are scared t show a grey character. I kept wondering why CVs would destroy a con woman with her abla nari angle. and you answered it. It isn't completely the writers' fault, it's the channel's fault too.
They want to fill SP with perfect Bahu's and perfect future Bahu's that CVs need t be careful. Even then CVs could have done a way better job.
If Om is white then Ishana should be the one making most of the mistakes. That's the whole point but girls aren't supposed to be flawed according to SPs. I must be an idiot who vowed not to watch an SP show after they ruined a previous youth show. I started watching because it's Gul and she made SP handle IPKKD well. That's the only reason but I chose poorly.
Another reason just for me is that I have been into english shows and still am. I kinda quit Indian television and came back here. So there in those shows, all characters have a strong base. Even if the character stays for only one epi, he or she has a solid character. I can't seem to find that in Indian shows. They were never there but now it bothers me even more.
Anyways, I agree with everything you said. Well put.