What is right is often forgotten by what is convenient. - Page 2

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

I am where you are dear.. 😆 I have stopped counting how many posts I have made on this.. That Dev is focusing on wrong things, worrying about unnecessary things, and his actions are not in the correct direction

presently every character of the show is only doing what is convenient to them right from sona's family to dixit's... bu today somewhere i saw little better dev than rest of the week episodes...

I am sure I am echoing a lot of members' feelings here but as much as I want Dev-Sona to unite, I personally and practically do not feel right about it, mostly because of all the messes they have gotten themselves into post break up. Yes, love is the most important thing in your life but you don't forget rough times in your relationship either. It takes looong time for two people to gain the same trust and respect they had for each other after going through what Dev-Sona are going through. The biggest issue these two are facing is Ishwari; until she realizes that her son is going through hell because of her I do not see the story progressing and I feel sorry to say that I have not seen any "growth" what so ever in Ishwari's character post break up. She has heard the bitter truth on face which she should be subconsciously aware of but still there has not been a single bit of change in her. Dev-Sona cannot move towards each other's directions until Ishwari changes and I personally am not ready to see that "dragging of story" for few more weeks and see these two wonderful souls go through such a bitter time till that happens. I don't want to be at a point to say #IquitKRPKAB but I am afraid if they keep going the way they are lately, I may not be too far from saying that.

Originally posted by: rash2222

presently every character of the show is only doing what is convenient to them right from sona's family to dixit's... bu today somewhere i saw little better dev than rest of the week episodes...

Indeed!! Everyone is acting in a convenient way rather than a right way, though everyone is thinking what they are doing is right thing.

firstly he id acknowledged the fact he has hurt sona and that too beyond repair...

he also agreed to the fact that he had no option left in the hospital coz he saw his mother dying...

he also somewhere accepted that sona is already moving on as she has got a guy...

he also talked about his insecurity of seeing his mom in same position if he got back to sona but the mere fact when mamaji told him sona can never be happy without him he was trying to talk her out of it without thinking the result...

i think he understand sonakshi that is why he said that she is only doing to hurt him and she is getting into a problem with getting married, honestly she making haste decision just like dev did...

both of them are acting impulsive...

today was better version of dev i saw...

i feel they both have understanding and have immense love for each other but they just don't how to go for it at present and i guess this what character development is that all makers and actors are talking about...

Well about Dev, he is kinda complex to analyse..one moment he shows maturity and next moment he is just beyond the reality. Yeah!! he has acknowledge it but does not realized it that Sonakshi has gone to a state beyond repair. He knows what he did it was total wrong yet he needed Mamaji to realize that he did take decisions for Sonakshi and her family members life. He understand that for a moment and then when Mamaji said Sonakshi will not be happy without him he goes to square one, thinking Sonakshi is taking wrong decision not realizing the fact that he is responsible for it. All he is always thinking about his life and his family's not about Sonakshi and her family's a bit. He is thinking Sonakshi is only doing this to hurt him? Why it is all about him? He did not even realized if Sonakshi is doing this then she will be hurt more than his until Mamaji said it to him. Because Sonakshi is a woman who will not leave Ritwik or other man she will marry!!

i guess we have to keep ourselves little positive.

Well I am very much positive and trust me I do try to understand every characters P.O.V. Just for me now something does not adding up. Maybe I will get answers in upcoming episode.

Originally posted by: Maitri_B

I am sure I am echoing a lot of members' feelings here but as much as I want Dev-Sona to unite, I personally and practically do not feel right about it, mostly because of all the messes they have gotten themselves into post break up. Yes, love is the most important thing in your life but you don't forget rough times in your relationship either. It takes looong time for two people to gain the same trust and respect they had for each other after going through what Dev-Sona are going through. The biggest issue these two are facing is Ishwari; until she realizes that her son is going through hell because of her I do not see the story progressing and I feel sorry to say that I have not seen any "growth" what so ever in Ishwari's character post break up. She has heard the bitter truth on face which she should be subconsciously aware of but still there has not been a single bit of change in her. Dev-Sona cannot move towards each other's directions until Ishwari changes and I personally am not ready to see that "dragging of story" for few more weeks and see these two wonderful souls go through such a bitter time till that happens. I don't want to be at a point to say #IquitKRPKAB but I am afraid if they keep going the way they are lately, I may not be too far from saying that.

Originally posted by: vandyt1602

That's true..

There definitely has to be a difference between the convenient and the right way.Till now whatever Dev has done is convenient for him.Breaking up with Sonakshi was most convenient decision for him since he didn't have to convince himself of being right.

Vice versa for Sonakshi getting engaged to Ritwik is convenient for her than convincing herself that shez madly in love with Dev even after their break up.

Ishwariji is no far behind as she convinces herself that shez not the reason behind Devakshi's break up and is not ready to realize the truth.Each and every character is caught in the trap of convenience and righteousness.

Originally posted by: naq5

I totally agree with dev and ishwari choosing the convinient way but what else can sona do. Wait for dev all her life. Has tht man at least asked her for some time to convince his mom. Did he tell her tht to break up was wrong and he wants to reconsider. Does he expect sona to not marry anyone and wait for him all her life.

So what does sona do she has a right to move on in life. I would have liked her to take a break for some month and the CvS taking a leap. But that has not happened. Sona RT now is doing what her family is deciding for her and trying to move on. How can she fight for her love if dev dosent want to fight himself