Serious question - bothering me a lot

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Posted: 9 years ago
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This questing is bugging me since I have seen the OLV... Sharavan was and is mentally prepare for Sumo's marriage with Aditya ... It's only destiny which will bring them together.
Suman is more emotionally shattered than Sharavan but as we know we girls are bought up to do everything to keep their family happy and sacrifice for family's reputation.
She even did not complained too much about Sharavan's PCT kand.

He is even almost okey with the consequences of his bad mouthing for Suman ... He was not drunk when he did his holy confession to Aditya.

Gosh you have never proposed her once ...
Is this love ? What kind of true lover will let love of his life marry someone else ... With out even try once ?

And friendship ... Vo to khokhli the ... This act shows it all .

So both of them are technically orphans and destiny's children.

Is this really love... ? The mighty childhood love ... I doubt ... He wrote aptly in his letter is this love ... He was not sure then or even today.
Sharavn s was a strong character ... They should have shown him fighting for her love ... Giving protection is need for hour, but love is different thing altogether. She is bound to marry but till the last moment she is fighting and keeping herself mentally and emotionally detached from Aditya. She is reminding herself to prepare for tomorrow but Sharavan has left her mentally today.

Suman is potreying ... the thousand girls who give up their dreams of not only love but many a times of playing, eduction, choice, not to marry anyone, to live alone, or marry someone of her choice ... Or simply going alone and walk on street in cold nights. Dreams are many ... And love can be in many forms ... I would love to sit alone on riverbank for hours in night , you might want to run out in rains someday without bothering about transparent shirt ... Or just a simple cup of coffee alone ... Any thing . Almost real characterisation.

Sharavan is a boy ... Ahhh Man, working educated, privileged man who know how to take what's there. He is lawyer and know how to manipulate to win the case ... But he uses that wisdom in such a derogatory manner.

Love is tulips... It's withers away in slightest heat ...

I still want them to be together because those who have even one ounce of love between them them thay should marry each other to save others life ... After marriage all become husband and wife ... Very few remain lovers but if they marry someone else they remain lover all the life. Ironical but true ...





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Posted: 9 years ago
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Agree with you wic!
Instead of SHravan doing all these, He could atleast once gone and confessed his love to sumo! Wouldn't it be more rt? He has just promised himself that he will not go until she comes to him! After all he would be breaking his own promise which was much better!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree with your last lines...and slightly with the rest of the lines too...
But what I've observed it each person loves in his/her own style... Suman's way of loving is bearing and sacrificing... too much selfless love and in Shravan's case he loves but it seems he doesn't trust... trust is the basic foundation of any relationship

As the CV's of our show say "Stay calm and keep watching" as Shraman will learn from each other the way to love each other which would suit them perfect...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Now a days I struggle to understand the reason behind a character doing a particular thing..He didn't even think once about Sumo belonging to someone else. I found that to be so surprising..
Maybe CVs wanted to show this being the "new Shravan" but still it didn't convince me..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Love can be of any type ... Jealous time, silent type ... Any type but maan to maan hai... Vo to rota hai... And Sumo's love as you said is more selfless and she is bound to honour the promise... But Sharavn is more in to act first kind of person so ... Why he is not doing something ... It's human tendancy to try to ease the pain ... Like he avenged Nirmala and Adi by telling him about Suman. But why he is not doing something for his primary feeling for Suman which is clearly love.
She is restraining as she is bound and he clearly told that there is no relationship ... But a mare ego that I will tell when she will ask is Preaty less in comparison of loss he will suffer by her marriage . ... It's a serial so I think it's ok... But cvs failed to do proper profiling of characters .


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Posted: 9 years ago
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just shravan for now from what i understood

shravan loves her but is held back because sumo doesnt fit right in the mould that his papa created for ideal wife ..
he doesnt trust her enough to know she wouldnt desert the relation in tough time .. her not comprising for family happiness in wedding prep , accepting PCT from Adi, agreeing to marry him after knowing nirmala connection .. he saw all these as betrayal as a love, partner and as a friend ..

he loves her .. but the scars preventing him from pursuing the love .. if he stops trying to fit in her that mould and see her as she is .. then maybe 😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Beautifully written & most apt observations
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Posted: 9 years ago
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For me if you love someone or something you should give it as many chances as possible... One incident , few spats, few lies ... Is nothing in comparison to love for someone in your heart ... And I am not talking only about in context of lovers ... It could be any one ... My dog bites me now and then ... But she is my love ... I might get angry with her but I can't harm her or leave her back on streets ... Life is really short ... Really short ... samay nahi beetta aap beet jate hai ( Rigved)


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Just chuck it yaar.. 😆 Lets just watch the drama and enjoy the romance 😆 its gone way beyond comprehension now
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I definitely agree with your comments.
The way I see it though is that you can't love someone else until you learn to love yourself. Teenage Shravan didn't struggle with his self identity the way this adult Shravan does. Teenage Shravan believed he had the right to love. So his love was wholehearted and pure.

But adult Shravan doesn't believe his mom (or Sumo) loved him enough thus he questions his own lovability. He doesn't trust that anyone can love him because he doesn't love himself. And because of that he doesn't trust himself hence being so easily weakened by Ramnath's words.

For Shravan to be able to love again he needs to get over the trauma of his childhood. You can't truly love while constantly trying to protect yourself. He needs to believe that love is worth any risk. Then we would see him fight for his love.

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