'Fools rush in where angels fear to tread!' (31 Aug)

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I just caught up with last night's episode... As I watched Dev & Sona yelling & arguing with each other, the only thing that I kept telling over & over again was - fools, fools, fools... Sparks were flying all over... not the good ones. Angry, heated, insane sparks were all over.

"Fools rush in where angels fear to tread" - Alexander Pope

"We're all fools in love" - Jane Austen

Dev was trying to reinforce to Sona that she can't move on with anyone else because she was still in love with him.. "Mein tumpe koi haq nahi hai?" he asks her. Look into my eyes & "Tell me that you don't love me?" To which Sona doesn't have an answer. She still loves him. He had/has haq' over her, her tears & everything related to her & nobody else could have it. Dev tries every possible way to get the truth out of her. All he wanted to hear from Sona was that she wasn't ready to move on & it was a sham & that she was still in love with him. Everything that she was saying was a lie to him. "Woh aapka mangetar nahi hai, usse apna mangetar mat kaho. Phir se jhoot mat bolo...", "Baar baar usse apna mangetar mat kaho. Woh nahi hai tumara mangetar". The words 'mangetar' & 'Rithik' made him so angry that his blood was boiling. It gave him more pain than the fact that she wanted to move on. And Sona was lying only to hurt him for what he did to her. And that was what Dev thought.

Sona couldn't recognize this Dev anymore - who was keeping tabs on her, stalking her & who was stooping so low to get someone out of his way. He was now a 'Gatiya aadmi' for her. She didn't know what he wanted. He broke up with her & all she was doing was trying to move on. She tells him that she doesn't know why he was doing all this when it was his decision to break up. She was confused. It was unfair to be subjected to such kind of feelings & emotions. She was infuriated with his behaviour & she hastily decides that she is ready to spend the rest of her life with R. Everything backfired on Dev in a single moment. He ended up instigating/triggering her to react totally out of control. And she did exactly that.

Sona says, "Humare beech respect hai, trust hai!" And Dev cuts in immediately & questions her "Par pyar tho nahi hai?" Sona dismissed that question because it was true, there was no love between her & R. Then why was she settling for something that her heart didn't feel right about? He tries telling her that she is fooling R, her family & herself by running away from the truth. Truth, that she was still in love with Dev.

"Bohot masak bana liya apne." Sona says. This sounded so weird to me. Honestly speaking, to me both of them were making fun of relationships now.

Sona challenges him that she will move on & she promises him that she will marry R. She even tells him that he could use all the power & name he has to bring R down, but even then Sona would still support him & will be beside him. Because that's the way she sticks to her promises unlike Dev. It was a verbal slap for Dev. She says, "Rithik mujhe aapse, bohot door lekar jayega, humesha ke liye, aur ye mera promise hai aapse.." That was a blow to Dev. He was gutted. It was only few hours ago when Saurabh told him that nothing was decided yet on her marriage. And that gave him hope. And now all of a sudden the tables were turned again. Sona was standing in front of him & she boldly, daringly challenged him that she would marry R within a month.

Dev was left haunted by her words. He couldn't decide what to believe in...that she will go far away from him by marrying R or the belief that he had in himself that she can never leave him & go because she still loves him.

"Tum kahin nahi ja sakthi. Sona you can't move on. You love me. You love me Sonakshi." He roared. Because this is what he believed in. What Sona said didn't make sense & he didn't want to understand it. Dev was in denial. And what Sona was doing? Was she being true to herself? Was she being fair with R? Wasn't she being hasty & impulsive now?

Two wrongs don't make a right. I hope both Sona & Dev know that. Both were fools in love & they were rushing in making decisions without thinking about it rationally. First it was Dev's impulsive decision to break up & now it was Sona who was being hasty & irrational. Insanity was at it's peak in this episode. Instead of facing the core problem, instead of talking & behaving like mature adults, they were yelling at each other trying to bring out the worst in each other. Which they did so effortlessly...Is being in love that easy?? Nope! What is love if there are no arguments, misunderstandings or denial?? You need to address them & not take it to another crazy level. Other than being in love...there was no respect & no trust in this case now. These two people were stubborn fools, proud fools, fools who were thinking too much about others & fools who were thinking too less of themselves... They were attempting rash & reckless things that wise people wouldn't do. And the angels wouldn't go there as well to save them... All I can say is God save them! 💔

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Posted: 8 years ago
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👏 Buzzz.. 👏

"What is love if there are no arguments, misunderstandings or denial?? You need to address them & not take it to another crazy level. Other than being in love...there was no respect & no trust in this case now."

Arguments and Fights are more than welcome in relationship.. the morning both fight like crazy and angry animals by noon or even earlier 😉 they become the regular self to go crazily cozy together in love.. Respect for each other's way of doing things and Trust that they have for each other knowing that they don't hurt you, make it all the more beautiful and stay healthy together... It's broken by Dev and Sona is in the process of breaking it...

And yeah the understanding comes with time.. And the time that this is happening all bringing in the understanding of what they would do when they are put at their worst situations... 😉 so they can still decide whether this is what they are getting into and whether all worth it.. Is there any beauty beyond all this ugly truth of their characters...😉
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Originally posted by: Buzzinnn...

I just caught up with last night's episode... As I watched Dev & Sona yelling & arguing with each other, the only thing that I kept telling over & over again was - fools, fools, fools... Sparks were flying all over... not the good ones. Angry, heated, insane sparks were all over.

"Fools rush in where angels fear to tread" - Alexander Pope

"We're all fools in love" - Jane Austen

Dev was trying to reinforce to Sona that she can't move on with anyone else because she was still in love with him.. "Mein tumpe koi haq nahi hai?" he asks her. Look into my eyes & "Tell me that you don't love me?" To which Sona doesn't have an answer. She still loves him. He had/has haq' over her, her tears & everything related to her & nobody else could have it. Dev tries every possible way to get the truth out of her. All he wanted to hear from Sona was that she wasn't ready to move on & it was a sham & that she was still in love with him. Everything that she was saying was a lie to him. "Woh aapka mangetar nahi hai, usse apna mangetar mat kaho. Phir se jhoot mat bolo...", "Baar baar usse apna mangetar mat kaho. Woh nahi hai tumara mangetar". The words 'mangetar' & 'Rithik' made him so angry that his blood was boiling. It gave him more pain than the fact that she wanted to move on. And Sona was lying only to hurt him for what he did to her. And that was what Dev thought.

Sona couldn't recognize this Dev anymore - who was keeping tabs on her, stalking her & who was stooping so low to get someone out of his way. He was now a 'Gatiya aadmi' for her. She didn't know what he wanted. He broke up with her & all she was doing was trying to move on. She tells him that she doesn't know why he was doing all this when it was his decision to break up. She was confused. It was unfair to be subjected to such kind of feelings & emotions. She was infuriated with his behaviour & she hastily decides that she is ready to spend the rest of her life with R. Everything backfired on Dev in a single moment. He ended up instigating/triggering her to react totally out of control. And she did exactly that.

Sona says, "Humare beech respect hai, trust hai!" And Dev cuts in immediately & questions her "Par pyar tho nahi hai?" Sona dismissed that question because it was true, there was no love between her & R. Then why was she settling for something that her heart didn't feel right about? He tries telling her that she is fooling R, her family & herself by running away from the truth. Truth, that she was still in love with Dev.

"Bohot masak bana liya apne." Sona says. This sounded so weird to me. Honestly speaking, to me both of them were making fun of relationships now.

Sona challenges him that she will move on & she promises him that she will marry R. She even tells him that he could use all the power & name he has to bring R down, but even then Sona would still support him & will be beside him. Because that's the way she sticks to her promises unlike Dev. It was a verbal slap for Dev. She says, "Rithik mujhe aapse, bohot door lekar jayega, humesha ke liye, aur ye mera promise hai aapse.." That was a blow to Dev. He was gutted. It was only few hours ago when Saurabh told him that nothing was decided yet on her marriage. And that gave him hope. And now all of a sudden the tables were turned again. Sona was standing in front of him & she boldly, daringly challenged him that she would marry R within a month.

Dev was left haunted by her words. He couldn't decide what to believe in...that she will go far away from him by marrying R or the belief that he had in himself that she can never leave him & go because she still loves him.

"Tum kahin nahi ja sakthi. Sona you can't move on. You love me. You love me Sonakshi." He roared. Because this is what he believed in. What Sona said didn't make sense & he didn't want to understand it. Dev was in denial. And what Sona was doing? Was she being true to herself? Was she being fair with R? Wasn't she being hasty & impulsive now?

Two wrongs don't make a right. I hope both Sona & Dev know that. Both were fools in love & they were rushing in making decisions without thinking about it rationally. First it was Dev's impulsive decision to break up & now it was Sona who was being hasty & irrational. Insanity was at it's peak in this episode. Instead of facing the core problem, instead of talking & behaving like mature adults, they were yelling at each other trying to bring out the worst in each other. Which they did so effortlessly...Is being in love that easy?? Nope! What is love if there are no arguments, misunderstandings or denial?? You need to address them & not take it to another crazy level. Other than being in love...there was no respect & no trust in this case now. These two people were stubborn fools, proud fools, fools who were thinking too much about others & fools who were thinking too less of themselves... They were attempting rash & reckless things that wise people wouldn't do. And the angels wouldn't go there as well to save them... All I can say is God save them! 💔



You have captured the episode very well. Cannot add any thing more.

Fools rush in where angels fear to tread... very apt for us too.. Watched the episode online, well past midnight, at the cost of my sleep, but watching this separation track and the irrational change in behavior, for the larger part completely delusional, puts me in the category of a fool.

I just want to add something that the makers must take notice off. Just put these two together - Shaheer and Erica - and it really does not matter how long the episode is or how short, how dramatic or how emotional or whatever. They absolutely sparkle.. i forget everybody and everything.. just watch them emote, connect.. Man, these guys are so special. never seen anything like this in my life time. There were dream couples on screen and these two are right at the top.. i do not think even they know it. Apart from ending this damn separation track between Ms Perfect and Mr Imperfect, and the irritating Mr Perfect, the makers must give them more screen space and time to win back a large chunk of the audience that has gone into hibernation.



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Exactly both are fools .they are so so wrong at this point of time that I fell like slapping both of them...what the hell they are doing to themselves and each other?
It's all messy ,provoking and unnecessarily show off and ego of two people who are deeply Madely in love with each other..
I am disappointed with sona now...because I expected more form her.i adored her for her calm and understanding nature.but as we can see dev's stalking and interfering behaviour is not letting her think straight too same as her rush is making him insane..they need to talk ..they need to talk .means not about ritwik not about moving on...nothing...they first need to talk about themselves..it's so so necessary..sona my darling you always believed in communication.. isn't?you always believe in waiting for storm to pass out and then do action.. isn't?you always mad when understand what's right and wrong by showing him total different perspective and eventually he always understood and followed your advice...his mother taught him always about destination never about path..that made him impulsive and stubborn and ignorant of what's right and wrong but you were the one who open the closed windows in his life..who let him see light comes from everywhere not just from that ventilation point...you peoole will feel that I am against sona ..no I am not..but I know she loves him and she genuinely cares for him..and I know she promised him too..sona just just talk to him once like being old sona..just as a friend...he will listen..he might not follow what you exactly say but he will atleast ponder over your words..you are magical to him..don't make yourself like black magic in his life who is consuming him like never before..he needs you as a friend right now...you are free to move on with ritwik as his wife..you have full rights ..just as you fulfilled responsibility of a doctor even after breakup to aunty ji...just once talk to him calmly as a friend ...

Dev told he is ziddi..and we all can see it .right now sona is pushing all wrong button of dev and no wonder he is all delusional and doing all wrong because he just can't see anytging beyond sona moving on and getting married to ritwik..I don't even expect anything sane from Dev now..

I don't know how long this all messy thing will go on..I just want things to come to promo platform..it's absolutely seems for high end drama and all..o mean ek mahine me shadi deadline..they are hell bent on making dev look like fool obsessive fool..why?? Issue is just escaping from every confrontation and guilt and we are stuck at faltu ka separation between leads which is not doing any help in story as per say
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They could have just kissed like anything and calm down there in his office..hope that would have helped them to think sane...or they could have gone ahead too of it had not been enough😉😆but they just need to be sane before taking any decision 😆
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What a lovely post, aksh👏👏
You know what my problem is with the makers? Show passion where passion is necessary. Yesterday's episode felt incomplete without the kiss. It was RIGHT there. When he was yelling at her, trying his very best to reach out to her to stop lying to herself and she was not ready to listen - the next logical step was reminding her of the effect he had on her. How? By showing her, obviously!!
I know I have wanted intense Devakshi scenes since time immemorial, but this time it was really necessary. The tension in the scene was so palpable I started sweating while watching it.
You're so right. Both of them are fools in love and are behaving foolishly. Just like Dev doesn't have the right to control R's life, neither does Sonakshi. She shouldn't use him to take revenge on Dev. What I felt was, she gave him a clear ultimatum. You have until the end of the month - Do something or watch me become someone else's forever and forego all your rights on me.
Dev, What do I even say about him? He dug his own grave yesterday, by egging her on. I can only pray for him. I'm scared. Scared of him and for him. Dev's character has such a trademark Durjoy Dutta stamp. As Shaheer very rightly said, "Deewangi hai uske pyaar mein". I don't know what to feel about all this at the moment. I will just keep watching the episode on repeat till I figure it out😛

Reminded me of a quote I read "Well love is insanity. The ancient Greeks knew that. It is the taking over of a rational and lucid mind by delusion and self-destruction. You lose yourself. You have no power over yourself, you can't even think straight" - Marilyn French
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Originally posted by: Push-pull

👏 Buzzz.. 👏

"What is love if there are no arguments, misunderstandings or denial?? You need to address them & not take it to another crazy level. Other than being in love...there was no respect & no trust in this case now."

Arguments and Fights are more than welcome in relationship.. the morning both fight like crazy and angry animals by noon or even earlier 😉 they become the regular self to go crazily cozy together in love.. Respect for each other's way of doing things and Trust that they have for each other knowing that they don't hurt you, make it all the more beautiful and stay healthy together... It's broken by Dev and Sona is in the process of breaking it...

And yeah the understanding comes with time.. And the time that this is happening all bringing in the understanding of what they would do when they are put at their worst situations... 😉 so they can still decide whether this is what they are getting into and whether all worth it.. Is there any beauty beyond all this ugly truth of their characters...😉


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@bold: Yes TIME is the biggest factor that they didn't importance to. Dev didn't give himself the time to access the situation before making the biggest mistake of his life. But at the same time, Sona who waited all her life for her prince didn't have the time to give him another chance nor give him the time to get out of the trauma that he was in at that situation. I'm not justifying his actions... Dev was very wrong. He hurt Sona brutally. But Sona being the smarter, resilient & understanding person she was didn't know how impulsive Dev was & she didn't figure out from where all this was coming from?? Call it fate, her time for waiting for him was done. And Dev didn't have the guts to face her later & speak about his mother.. Both of them are equally to be blamed... They gave up so fast & time has taken full advantage of the situation. So will time favour them now when they were being very happy about being absolute fools..Uuurrggghhh!! 😡
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Originally posted by: pkbdas61


You have captured the episode very well. Cannot add any thing more. - Thank you 😊

Fools rush in where angels fear to tread... very apt for us too.. Watched the episode online, well past midnight, at the cost of my sleep, but watching this separation track and the irrational change in behavior, for the larger part completely delusional, puts me in the category of a fool. Ha ha, So true! Yes it does suit us as well. I'm just not able to relate to any of the 3 main characters anymore.

I just want to add something that the makers must take notice off. Just put these two together - Shaheer and Erica - and it really does not matter how long the episode is or how short, how dramatic or how emotional or whatever. They absolutely sparkle.. i forget everybody and everything.. just watch them emote, connect.. Man, these guys are so special. never seen anything like this in my life time. There were dream couples on screen and these two are right at the top.. i do not think even they know it. Apart from ending this damn separation track between Ms Perfect and Mr Imperfect, and the irritating Mr Perfect, the makers must give them more screen space and time to win back a large chunk of the audience that has gone into hibernation. Normally in my posts I give due credit to most of the aspects related to this show. But somehow this time I just wanted to emphasis more about the content. There's no doubt that Shaheer & Erica are the best. Their acting is splendid. They do full justice to their roles & they make us feel that they are very real to us & not just fictional characters. Both of them have the power to play with our emotions. Isn't that amazing enough?? Just like you, even I'm annoyed & disappointed by the way things are playing out.. Such erratic, irrational & reckless behaviors.. This wasn't what I wanted. And the third entry is pure rubbish to me. Hoping they get done with this track soon & get back to concentrating on the core essence of this show.


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Exactly both are fools .they are so so wrong at this point of time that I fell like slapping both of them...what the hell they are doing to themselves and each other?

It's all messy ,provoking and unnecessarily show off and ego of two people who are deeply Madely in love with each other..
So so true Sujata. They are completely out of their minds. They're aren't thinking rationally at all. Dev's character has gone way down hill & now Sona was just beginning to start her journey down there...Thank god I didn't stay up late & catch the show. Down with cold & flu, so I would've been even more pissed...

I am disappointed with sona now...because I expected more form her.i adored her for her calm and understanding nature.but as we can see dev's stalking and interfering behaviour is not letting her think straight too same as her rush is making him insane..they need to talk ..they need to talk .means not about ritwik not about moving on...nothing...they first need to talk about themselves..it's so so necessary..sona my darling you always believed in communication.. isn't?you always believe in waiting for storm to pass out and then do action.. isn't?you always mad when understand what's right and wrong by showing him total different perspective and eventually he always understood and followed your advice...his mother taught him always about destination never about path..that made him impulsive and stubborn and ignorant of what's right and wrong but you were the one who open the closed windows in his life..who let him see light comes from everywhere not just from that ventilation point...you peoole will feel that I am against sona ..no I am not..but I know she loves him and she genuinely cares for him..and I know she promised him too..sona just just talk to him once like being old sona..just as a friend...he will listen..he might not follow what you exactly say but he will atleast ponder over your words..you are magical to him..don't make yourself like black magic in his life who is consuming him like never before..he needs you as a friend right now...you are free to move on with ritwik as his wife..you have full rights ..just as you fulfilled responsibility of a doctor even after breakup to aunty ji...just once talk to him calmly as a friend ... Agreeing to everything that you've said. I'm so disappointed by the way Sona took her decision. It was as if she just wanted to piss him off so she decided to get married to R. Is this some sort of a game?? All they needed to do was talk sensibly, but right now they don't even know the meaning of communication. Just like I mentioned in the previous comment, where did that understanding Sona go? She can always have her say & then get going about what she wants to do. But here she was behaving just like Dev. I know she was irritated, vexed & fed up with Dev... But this wasn't the way she normally handles things. Wasn't she being unfair to R & she was dragging him into her challenge as well?? What does he get out of this?? It's his future as well. She can never love R the way she still loves Dev. So why fool herself & R? And now just because she promised Dev that she'll marry R, she'll carry on with her facade?? Kuch bhi!! Writers are hell bent on chopping every person's character. Brilliant 👏

Dev told he is ziddi..and we all can see it .right now sona is pushing all wrong button of dev and no wonder he is all delusional and doing all wrong because he just can't see anytging beyond sona moving on and getting married to ritwik..I don't even expect anything sane from Dev now..
Dev's behaviour is getting way too eccentric, freaky, weird & what not. I don't think he himself is aware of what he was doing.

I don't know how long this all messy thing will go on..I just want things to come to promo platform..it's absolutely seems for high end drama and all..o mean ek mahine me shadi deadline..they are hell bent on making dev look like fool obsessive fool..why?? Issue is just escaping from every confrontation and guilt and we are stuck at faltu ka separation between leads which is not doing any help in story as per say - So so pissed about this sudden change in his character. The makers are simply wasting our time by deviating from the main plot. Can't wait for this nonsense to get over. We expected so much from this track & what we're getting to watch is such a let down..

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Awesome post

Fools ! Sure enough both ar fool's rushing in .
Sonakshi always knew Ishwari is very important to Dev , she too started making Ishwari important, when Dev broke off with she was hurt because Dev gave up without a fight .
Both still love each other then why provoke, why hurt with words
They both making matters worst , Sonakshi knows Dev fights back using power and money he has always been like this she knows it , yet she now declares to marry Ritvik within a month
There is certainly no maturity after a couple breaks up , why the need to hurt each other is beyond me especially when their still in love with each other .

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