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Posted: 9 years ago
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Looking at the initial promos, I thought it would be more like the couple trying to be together, currently separated because boys mother has not yet accepted them and that is about convincing the mother. The Promos were primarily about Devakshi.

Like the egg and ham sandwich where the chicken is involved while the pig is committed, I thought that the mother is involved and Devakshi are committed.

Now I am not sure that's what the CVs had in mind. Based on the current mother-son relationship, Sona at best (I have my doubts) can hope to have equal importance in Devs life.

If I were Sona, I don't think I would want to marry someone for whom I am the second most important person or even share the first place.

For me he would be the most important person and even kids /parents would come next. I would not accept anything less from him.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: spacenoxx

Looking at the initial promos, I thought it would be more like the couple trying to be together, currently separated because boys mother has not yet accepted them and that is about convincing the mother. The Promos were primarily about Devakshi.


Like the egg and ham sandwich where the chicken is involved while the pig is committed, I thought that the mother is involved and Devakshi are committed.

Now I am not sure that's what the CVs had in mind. Based on the current mother-son relationship, Sona at best (I have my doubts) can hope to have equal importance in Devs life.

If I were Sona, I don't think I would want to marry someone for whom I am the second most important person or even share the first place.

For me he would be the most important person and even kids /parents would come next. I would not accept anything less from him.




ha, ha, ha.. you sure are right, but in a lighter vein, would not that make you a tough person to deal with life long... 😊😊😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: pkbdas61



ha, ha, ha.. you sure are right, but in a lighter vein, would not that make you a tough person to deal with life long... 😊😊😊


😃😃

Every good marriage is like that. Husband/Wife comes first. Kids and parents come later. And I don't mean things like khana pehle hum khayenge bacchon ko bad me khilayenge. I mean importance.

Your partner is with you always. Parents and kids stay with you only for a while. The journey is primarily about you two

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I think every relationship in life has some importance. A wife can never become a mother, a mother can never become a child. They are all important. Why the comparison anyway?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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There is no comparison in relations circumstances give priorities...one who is most important one day and be second the very next day. The day a boy gets married his wife becomes imp and when kids come in life they are most imp. If parents are unwell they become imp...life is not a computer program where we have to follow any serial order
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Soapoperasrfun

I think every relationship in life has some importance. A wife can never become a mother, a mother can never become a child. They are all important. Why the comparison anyway?


It's about comparison and it's also not about comparison😉

Normally it isn't an issue a long as they all understand their part. The problems only arise when parents try to take an active role in things especially in decision making which is in conflict with that of the couple or one of them.

A good example is Sonas parents. Like Asha says they let children learn from their mistakes. They only try to guide rather than "Tell".


And as they say, every other relation is for just one lifetime. Pat/Patni ka to janam janam ka hota hai na😃😃

I ignore the janam janam ka part and take it as, compared to other relations, this is the most important one as it's probably the longest relationship in a person's life.

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