Originally posted by: yyy
Can I ask you one question if you don't mind...what has Sona done for their love till now ? She did not fight for her love during Natasha''s phase ...she got the love without fighting for it. He came he proposed and she was happy ...did she put any effort other than crying ...even today it's the same thing she is not ready to fight for her love and has zero faith in herself...this time instead of crying she is trying to move on to a different guy ..she still a immature girl who cannot handle stressful situations. .she panics and always doubts their love ...
I will not blindly support Dev he has to learn lot of things and Sona too has a long way to go ...she has to prove herself before she becomes worthy of Dev''s love else please make her move on with Rithwick ...we can always have fourth entry in the serial who can accept people with their flaws ...
Sorry if my post came across as rude one...this was just for discussion. .no offence meant
I always welcome and enjoy different POVs, as they are thought stimulating, though I humbly n whole heartedly disagree with every thing you said.
When Sona fell for Dev she did her level best to express and let Dev know that she's in love with her. You probably have forgotten ( don't worry I'll remind you 😃 ) , but Dev was too busy being all over Natasha and business deal and going on dates n getting Comfy with Nuts to even notice that , when even a blind would've picked it up. In fact she invited Dev out so that she can confess her love but Nuts n Mr. Guzral butted in, and as they're the priority because they're high status business people , and not maa-ke-nutritionist-whom-I-can-afford to ignore Dev jumped camp right then n there.
After that soon came Natasha's proposal to Dev , n it was clear by how much close n comfortable Dev was getting with Nuts , with her always being in Dixit mansion n Dev giving attention to her, it was pretty obvious that he was going to say yes , which he, of course , did n pretty quickly too.
What exactly Sona should've done when she knew Dev's soon going to get engaged to Nuts ?? Propose Dev ?? That'd have been such a trashy thing to do n let's not forget , once Dev rejected her, he'd still be his boss n she'd have to work at his house every day for 12 hours and things would've been completely messy.
I completely support her decision to let go , it was the correct thing to do. Any mature sensible selfless girl would just that. It just shows how unconditional and selfless her love was.
In fact the only I didn't like at that point was that she was a bit too lost in her love for Dev and didn't try to move on.
As for now, the situation is completely different . They were in a relationship , one in which only Sona has given her 100 % , she had made an effort to really get Ishwari's approval because it's important for Dev, considered his family her own, though they didn't deserve it, she never even retorted back to RR because Dev would've been offened whereas Dev has done thing to even acquaint himself with Sona's family. For him they're "tum log.." strangers and he couldn't care any less about their existence or what problem Sona would've to face at home.
It's another thing that Sona's family is unrealistically supportive towards her , especially her father. Had she been my daughter , I'd have strictly forbade her on this relationship given the attitude of Dev n Dixit family.
Unless you're watching some another show, it's no point denying that Dev never gave 100 % to their relationship, why'd he after all ?? For him, Sona is probably ranking in the bottom most position of priority list , ranking only above Vicky.
IF Ishwari brings a match for Dev now, Dev won't blink an eye before wearing sehera and marrying that girl, for his God mother's happiness.
In reality , no girl should ever look back to such a guy who has treated her the way Dev has treated Sona. I shook my head so many times when I saw how blind she's turned into Dev's love that she can't see she's just disrespecting herself on a regular basis, no wonder even her amazingly supportive mother was disappointed n sad at how door mat Sona has turned in love , a complete wash out of her personality.
Sona should think 10000 times before going back to Dev and there should be very very strong reasons for it. Dev needs to change so much , with a huge redemption track before he can be worthy of her friendship, let alone love.
P.S- I'm going to make a separate post on it, since I've written so much. Please come there and share your views as well. It's good to see a show under different lenses. Thanks for inspiring me to write. 😳
Shiv Shakti
