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Posted: 9 years ago
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I don't feel bad for Dev today. Not at all because I knew this is going to happen. He contradicts himself in everything he had said to Sonakshi. From the first line thodhne main sirf kuch pal lagte hain par banana main kahi saal lag jaate hain'. The trust he earned from Sonakshi over months he just ruined it just in a few minutes. Once after confession he always wants her to be with him and in a few minute he just sent her away, not even thinking about anything. In order to be a good son to his mother he failed to Sonakshi as a partner.


Responsibility and Trust -- these two are like Yin and Yang, together perfectly complete, and each one requiring the presence of the other. So considering this- does Dev feel responsible for Sonakshi in any way now? Answer is no, so Sonakshi has the every right to go back from where she stands now. Her trust has been broken down. It will take some time to change her attitudes and these attitudes are going to be needed to develop her trust again and here comes toughest truth about the power of trust that it is very difficult to build and very easy to destroy.


Rebuilding trust when it has been broken is not dependent only on the person who has broken it, but also depends on the person who has decided not to trust anymore. Though she may be totally justified in her decision not to trust, as long as she choose not to, the relationship has no hope of survival and should be ended. If or when she decides to trust again, there is hope reborn.


There comes a time in your life when you have to choose to turn the page, write another book or simply close it. Sonakshi is going to chose to turn the page simply. But I don't think going to another one impulsively will help her anymore in this, because broken people lead to broken hearts. That's why it is so important to heal from one relationship before starting another. She needs time too to move on like Dev.


Ishwari - I so wish that you regret this moment for saying every of those hurtful words to Sonakshi.


Overall a wonderful, heart wrenching episode. Loved it and Hats off CV's again for maintaining the storyline.


Precap- Don't know what leads Dev to call her? The realization does not hit him that soon I guess.


Love the new lyrics of the title song...!


"Kismat ke leke, kismat ne dekhe

Kaun jaane jindegi main kya ho

Saath chalte chalte rahein juda ho

Apno ke age aksaar ishq qurbaan ho

Haq jaan pe ho jiska uske bina jaan ho

Jeena na bhayee phir bhi woh jeena jaruri kaise bhi...

Kuch rang pyaar ke aise bhi..."




Thanks for reading.



Love🤗

Swapno
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Beautiful post, as always 😊 I didn't feel bad for Dev either. He just made me wanna 🤬
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Posted: 9 years ago
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That's why it is so important to heal from one relationship before starting another.

Well said...I too agree ... As I have mentioned it before, Dev is not feeling anything at present, except that he wants to see his mom back on her feet. Back to her normal self. I would say, any child would do that ... Dev can only lash at someone whom he loves the most, in this case Sona. He is projecting all his hurt, worry about his mom on towards Sona, he is hurting, so, he is hurting Sona. It's like knee jerk reaction...He will feel when he starts to realize the loss...When he is back home with him mom and his family, then, the loss will be felt. It will be like a gaping hole in his heart, then, his reaction will start.

Unfortunately, by then, the hurt he has inflicted on Sona would have become a gangrene.. Sona is in a limbo. No one can forget ones love just at someone's say so. You can't forget and you can't forgive the words...Sona needs to heal... Heal in a way she can accept herself, accept that she is worthy of love, accept that she is a person on her own without Dev... Then, the moving on process occurs...Moving towards Dev or someone else is another story. But without DevAkshi there is no KRPKAB.

I just think that Dev should have taken a breather and worded the situation in a better manner towards Sona...this immediate chopping off is totally unacceptable. Not only he has lost Sona's trust, he has made Sona question her judgement in choosing him...Both are like 2 roads running parallel. Meeting and merging is going to be a long journey...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ssimmy

Beautiful post, as always 😊 I didn't feel bad for Dev either. He just made me wanna 🤬


Thank you so much...😳

I am not against Dev, only wished that he could handle it a little better like he handled in Natasha's case...that's it...😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: JazzyM

That's why it is so important to heal from one relationship before starting another.


Well said...I too agree ... As I have mentioned it before, Dev is not feeling anything at present, except that he wants to see his mom back on her feet. Back to her normal self. I would say, any child would do that ... Dev can only lash at someone whom he loves the most, in this case Sona. He is projecting all his hurt, worry about his mom on towards Sona, he is hurting, so, he is hurting Sona. It's like knee jerk reaction...He will feel when he starts to realize the loss...When he is back home with him mom and his family, then, the loss will be felt. It will be like a gaping hole in his heart, then, his reaction will start.

Unfortunately, by then, the hurt he has inflicted on Sona would have become a gangrene.. Sona is in a limbo. No one can forget ones love just at someone's say so. You can't forget and you can't forgive the words...Sona needs to heal... Heal in a way she can accept herself, accept that she is worthy of love, accept that she is a person on her own without Dev... Then, the moving on process occurs...Moving towards Dev or someone else is another story. But without DevAkshi there is no KRPKAB.

I just think that Dev should have taken a breather and worded the situation in a better manner towards Sona...this immediate chopping off is totally unacceptable. Not only he has lost Sona's trust, he has made Sona question her judgement in choosing him...Both are like 2 roads running parallel. Meeting and merging is going to be a long journey...


Wow!! thank you so much dear for your wonderful thoughts 😳

I am too not against Dev because I know what he did he did it only thinking about his mother, who is the sole reason he is standing here today. But all and all I wanted to handle his case a little carefully like he did in Natasha's case. Both time he was desperate, again this time is different because here his mother is concerned. But still he could do that a far better way. As you said he does not even realize till now what he did to himself and her. Once he realized it he would not be there to stand on his own feet and from that moment he would crack for sure.
He will suffer the most !!! Because it is him who pushed her away and now it becomes Sonakshi's choice to go part ways...! So, journey begins...!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I missed your posts🤗
Beautiful post as always. . 😳And very true. . The progress of the relationship not only depends on the who wants to win the trust back but also on the other half, whether She wants to give the trust back. .
I think Sonakshi loves Dev too much to not forgive him if he ever repents strongly. . .
She will try to mask a stone-hearted face when Dev decides to have Sonakshi back in his life. . But eventually she will give in. .

She will keep loving Dev, Even when he has done the worst to her. .She still said "Mujhe unpar bohot gussa aya, par mai unse pyaar bhi bohot karti hu"
The way she ran out to see if it was him, the way she said to Elena "Wo mujhe face karte bhi kaise, jo unhone mere sath kiya uske baad"
Her words to Ishwari that she knows that she was a part of his happiness..

She still believes that Dev is not a wrong person at heart, she knows he loved her. . But she is so heartbroken and hurt at his cowardice, that he could not take a stand for his love, he could not live by his words, that his promises were white lies that had conditions applied all over them.

Dev hasn't realised it in the precap, but the realisation will come to him day by day. . That what a gem he has lost.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: saumiee

I missed your posts🤗
Beautiful post as always. . 😳And very true. . The progress of the relationship not only depends on the who wants to win the trust back but also on the other half, whether She wants to give the trust back. .
I think Sonakshi loves Dev too much to not forgive him if he ever repents strongly. . .
She will try to mask a stone-hearted face when Dev decides to have Sonakshi back in his life. . But eventually she will give in. .

She will keep loving Dev, Even when he has done the worst to her. .She still said "Mujhe unpar bohot gussa aya, par mai unse pyaar bhi bohot karti hu"
The way she ran out to see if it was him, the way she said to Elena "Wo mujhe face karte bhi kaise, jo unhone mere sath kiya uske baad"
Her words to Ishwari that she knows that she was a part of his happiness..

She still believes that Dev is not a wrong person at heart, she knows he loved her. . But she is so heartbroken and hurt at his cowardice, that he could not take a stand for his love, he could not live by his words, that his promises were white lies that had conditions applied all over them.

Dev hasn't realised it in the precap, but the realisation will come to him day by day. . That what a gem he has lost.


Hey Soumya 🤗
Thank you so much for your beautiful comment. I am not against Dev but angry. Because he made so promises and tarnishes them within minutes. Also I so not want Sonakshi to give up her love this quickly because she is angry right now. I know she loves Dev.

In love every one struggles at one point. There are fights and harsh behaviors but those do not lead to not forgive a person you love. May be some ill-fated person do not get their love back but Dev does not do such big thing which is not forgivable. He is right in his situation but his technique is wrong. Even Natasha got better behavior from him.

Dev is going to realize and it is gonna hit him hard...very hard...! More than Dev, I want Ishwari to suffer in this redemption process!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Life is not defined by 1 moment...It's multiple moments, in fact thousands of multiple moments...We learn and discard what we need from each moment. Time keeps forging ahead. We need to use it...
Sorry for sounding so philosophical...had 2 days of listening to my MD...I can be excused for sounding philosophical...I think...😉

Anyways, coming back to our DevAkshi... I just wonder what Iswari had learnt or realized at the moment when Sona said, she and Dev are no longer together...

In my opinion, Ishwari didn't look shocked but didn't look happy too...

Any idea????
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: JazzyM

Life is not defined by 1 moment...It's multiple moments, in fact thousands of multiple moments...We learn and discard what we need from each moment. Time keeps forging ahead. We need to use it...

Sorry for sounding so philosophical...had 2 days of listening to my MD...I can be excused for sounding philosophical...I think...😉

Anyways, coming back to our DevAkshi... I just wonder what Iswari had learnt or realized at the moment when Sona said, she and Dev are no longer together...

In my opinion, Ishwari didn't look shocked but didn't look happy too...

Any idea????


No worries...I love to read your philosophies...! keep writing...
I don't know !! Supriya ji always gives subtle and clean expression with emotions but for me the scene looked like she was relieved...!
Though I wanted her to ask why they are not together. It was a must question from her yet she said that it happened for everyone's good and it was a short time alliance blah! blah! She was so concerned that she was not happy for Dev but now she did not even ask why it broke!!
What it means? Of course not unhappy...😛
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: swapno


No worries...I love to read your philosophies...! keep writing...
I don't know !! Supriya ji always gives subtle and clean expression with emotions but for me the scene looked like she was relieved...!
Though I wanted her to ask why they are not together. It was a must question from her yet she said that it happened for everyone's good and it was a short time alliance blah! blah! She was so concerned that she was not happy for Dev but now she did not even ask why it broke!!
What it means? Of course not unhappy...😛


Thanks for taking in my ramblings...⭐️

Yup...the important 10 million dollar question...she never asked the Why...

She just got philosophical ... I guess the CVS have my disease...😉

Yes, as you said, she must be relieved...but 1 thing is for sure, she will not show her relief to her son...she will not question him and he will not give her reasons. It will be kept in the limbo...

Yeah, Ishwari will find a new groom for Sona to clear her conscious... what I want is, let her find a prospective groom, let Ishwari list out all the best qualities of Sona, then I want the prospective groom's mother to ask Ishwari why then she didn't choose Sona for Dev. It should be asked in the presence of Dev...I really want that...

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