First, I will talk to my boyfriend on the issue that for some reason my mother doesn't approve of him.. I would ask him to have some patience till I talk it out..
Then I will talk to my elders to find out if she has shared anything on WHY she doesn't like my choice of groom..
If no information from other elders, I will talk to my mother directly and try to sort out the reasons.. If valid reasons, I will think about it and discuss with my partner on what can be done about it.. If invalid reasons, I will arrange for a meeting with all elders where everyone can try to come up with their life-experience and try to convince my mom that for no good reason it's wrong to ask someone to give up on their love-life.. And I have FULL faith that once my mom finds out that majority disapproves of her decision of disapproving my love-life, she would rethink about it and accept..
Next would come for a meeting/discussion with my mom and my boyfriend where my BF would have to try to impress her 😆 ..
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All the above scenarios would be considered by me for any regular possessive mother, but for Ishwari-like case, the FIRST and ONLY step would be taking her to psychiatrist and get her checked..
Btw nice topic 😃
Edited by Pehchaan.Kaun - 9 years ago
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