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Posted: 9 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

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That is one thing I thought , even if he was breaking up , he could have done it with sensitivity . He was rude and he was blaming her for his mom's situation when in reality it was him and his family who were at fault. I know he was an emotional wreck and was not thinking but I felt she deserved a better place in his life.

Would he have said it in the same way to Natasha?? He was so considerate with her when her father was trying to destroy his business. So why is he taking Sonakshi for granted?? Dont know ...eagerly waiting to see what CVs have in store for us.

On a lighter note ...Want to see who this third person is ...never know after seeing him we all might think Sonakshi should marry him and not Dev😆


Yes, I so wished he could've been just telling her what a heartbreaking situation they were stuck in. Did he have to be so harsh ? But thankfully she doesn't take it quietly. She gives back and then he'll realize what gargantuan mistake he just made.

He thought he could just rant and over react and she'd just take it? Sona warned him not to take her for granted, Main kamzoor nahi hoon ... he'll have lost her so completely that he can't even say sorry.😭
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: rahulvats12

He was not blaming sonakshi but he was blaming their relationship and with comparing with Natasha, the situation is different that time and this time he was very tensed for his mother and not in good state of mind that's why he said like that but later he will realise his mistake


I agree that he is a lot more emotionally invested here than with Natasha. But the staggering lack of concern for her feelings and wellbeing by brushing her off like that. ..😭

I'm not against Dev. For me he's the very nice guy who made a horribly bad mistake and will suffer the consequences soon.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yes, yes, and yes! I understand Dev is an impulsive person, but don't you think it's your job to break up with someone with respect and kindness? He could've said it nicely instead of "kis haq se" ,excuse me?! The audacity to blame the both of you when it was hundred and fifty billion percent your fault because YOU didn't tell your mom. I mean, personally I wouldn't find it that bad if I didn't tell my mom I was dating someone but if you know you have a mom like Ishwari, you might want to tell her.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: JyotiBThakur

Thank you so much for sharing your POV dear. I agree whatever Dev did was totally uncalled for. He cannot take the decision on Sona's behalf. He needs to give her the choice a proper explaination of his action. This girl deserves respect. She has given her everything to his relationship. She has gone through hell just to make it work.


But for Natasha's case, i just want say Dev was in his senses at that time. Here the situation is extreme for him. His mother is on hospital bed. Doctor just informed him that she took medicine overdose due to stress and his mamaji made it clear the stress she was going through was about DevAlshi relationship. The doctor too informed him that she would have suffered Cardiac arrest if he didn't bring her on time. All these things were extreme for him. His mother is his God and he blame himself fo her condition. Here he was not in his senses and did the blunder.

But whatever said and done. Nothing can justify his behavior towards Sona. The girl didn't deserve this kind of treatment. I want Sona to be strong and move on leaving him and his memories behind.


Awesome perspective Jyoti ..

True.. people make mistakes , and are on a learning journey in life. Even Sonakshi has to learn to not compromise on her beliefs and doubt herself. She has a tough journey ahead to heal her heart and emerge stronger.

Of all the Bowes, Asha's expression really touches me most. She can understand Sonakshi's troubles with Ishwari and worries of future troubles I'm that house. She has been very quiet, but her eyes speak.

My heart hurts for these two, but darn it, the angst is gold!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: dsr11

Dev never considered Sona as part of his family though he was so adamant about forcing her into his family picture. Every time he has to choose between his family(including Radharani) and Sona, he always chose his family. He makes tall claims but fails to deliver. Don't know what to say! Dev is such a coward! Like you said, he doesn't treat Sona like he treated Natasha. Sona is better off without him. Though they are trying to make us empathize with Dev and Eeshwari, I am unable to feel any today.


I dunno if he is a coward, but he is the selfish one between the two. He thinks only of his family, and expects Sonakshi to do so too. He is so not ready for marriage..

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