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Posted: 9 years ago

#11

Very beautiful post 👏 and I agree with you here mostly. Not that I believe Ramnath is totally right but at least now he appears to be.

A while back I had posted about how different ShraMan are from Ramnath and Nirmala but of late I don't know I mean how can they be made for each other when they do not even communicate or understand the first thing about each other? Shravan takes such a big decision without even confronting her about it and does it in a nasty way too. Sumo too decides to let go without introspecting even once 🤢 I know she hasn't had the time but when Shravan is clearly spelling it out for her - it doesn't occur to her once also when she was sitting on that bench in the rain as to why he said all those things?? Not even once does she think how hurt he is but is only thinking of how he hurt her - come on 😡 Both of them have the right to demand an explanation or give one but none of them do it ever 😭 When it came to explaining about the lehenga, Shravan forced Sumo to listen but not now?? And what is stopping Sumo from at least clarifying the basic misunderstandings without hurting her promise to Ramnath? About her keeping the lehenga without paying the money - beats me totally 🤢

For any relationship to sustain, love is never enough - empathy, understanding and creating that understanding through communication is most important. You can love a person beyond logic but you cannot live with that person without understanding and communicating. I do not know how this story will unfold but it is becoming painful to watch. Shravan is eternally being neglected, manipulated, misunderstood and hurt. Suman is eternally serving her ungrateful family, being stubborn (for right and wrong or wrong reasons), taking odd decisions, and again ending up hurt. Shravan is always attacking her in public and Suman is only adding to the confusion. When will the ice break for these two??

I am feeling very bad for both of them now and I just wish the CVs do something drastic and quick to get them on the same page. I cannot bear this track of Suman-Adi marriage talks and the spoilers that say Shravan will commit suicide 🤢 I just wish for once Suman stands up for Shravan and leaves the world to be by his side - promise or no promise, just once - and lets Shravan see her love without really expressing it (so keeping her word too). Once she does that, Shravan will never leave her side then 😊 It's high time they move on with their relationship towards positive grounds instead of creating more negativity and darkness for each other.

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Malini

@MaluA

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Posted: 9 years ago

#12

I really enjoyed and agree with your taken. I have just been wondering one thing since yesterday's episode. For a woman who beats the self-respect drum as often as Suman has of late, where did that same self-respect go when Shravan was going off on her yesterday? My impression of someone who is constantly saying I do not need anyone's help, I can do it on my own, is someone who would not just stand there and let someone else berate her so publicly. She would not just stay mute when such abuses were hurled at her. She is fighter Sumo, no? Isn't that why Shravan dubbed her Sumo? I cannot buy this whole self-respect angle if she is selective in displaying her character trait. Self-respect is not just about doing things by yourself in work or for family. It's also about not allowing oneself to be treated a certain way as well. I get that she was shocked when Shravan came and had the opposite reaction to what she imagined. But her standing by as he went off on her and destroyed her days tiffins and not saying a word was very weak, imo, and not the actions of someone who seems to take such pride in respecting herself and her abilities. I do not know... When Shravan was genuinely trying to be nice and a friend her self-respect did not allow her to accept him or his actions. When he is an ass her self-respect goes out the window? What am I missing here?