Given a choice..who wud u choose??An open discussion!

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nancyrio90

@nancyrio90

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Posted: 9 years ago

Ok... I would like to ask u all as this is mostly a girls forum that who wud u choose as a life partner given a choice between Shravan and Aditya...I have listed a few characteristics (list is not exhaustive though..not at all)...of both and also I am not debating here as to why they r the way they r...as one becomes a person he she is given the experiences learning and circumstances one had in their life...

But we being on the other side of the relationship.. r we able to always appreciate or even see the fact why the person is the way he she is????..not always..and. we mostly see whats visible on the surface!!. ... and that's what I have done here listing there traits... u may add or disagree/disregard the traits listed here and reiterating the list is not exhaustive...but given a choice who wud u choose and why?

Just as I see both...and a characterstic pointers to begin the discussion...

As I see Shravan

- Intense

- Lovable

- High on family values

- Dependable

- Over cautious

- Insecure and underconfident about his love even after 10 years

- Does not trust women

- Trust issue generally

- Lives in the past

- Egoistic and Arrogant

- Unable to see things beyond face value

- Papas boy

- Unhappy soul

As I see Aditya

- Lives in the present

- Happy go lucky

- Virbrant and happy soul

- Respects Women

- Self confident

- Ready to take a risk despite not knowing what the other person feelings r!

- Intrudes a bit too much.. a bit too much of me in everything

- Lies and his justifaction being ...giving happiness to others

- Looks more superficial than intense

- tires to see problem and solve it( I am coming from as he picked up issue with Ramu to fix wedding at Tiwari kilaa) even when not asked for!

Leaving this for an open discussion!

And of course u have a choice of choosing none...this is just for discussion sake😉

Rio

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Mahi

@Mannmohanaa

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Posted: 9 years ago

Correction in Aditya :

- He's not intruding

- He's only unaware and we can judge him only when he KNOWS of Shraman

- Lies : He didn't lie! Even we don't know the truth. And why can't we appreciate him for doing what Shravan couldn't - make Sumo accept the papers!

I won't judge him right now, there's time to analyse him as a character. He has just entered the circus and it'll take him sometime to gauge issues

And as for a life partner, I don't want either of them😆

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nancyrio90

@nancyrio90

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Artist_Forever
Correction in Aditya :
- He's not intruding
- He's only unaware and we can judge him only when he KNOWS of Shraman
- Lies : He didn't lie! Even we don't know the truth. And why can't we appreciate him for doing what Shravan couldn't - make Sumo accept the papers!

I won't judge him right now, there's time to analyse him as a character. He has just entered the circus and it'll take him sometime to gauge issues

And as for a life partner, I don't want either of them😆

He lied about the lehenga on discount and if I gathered correctly he wasn't fully honest about the PCT land papers as he was buying it from Ramnath he hasn't disclosed that to Sumo!

Intrusion I respect ur POV for me he is intruding!

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Amy

@AmyChoco

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Posted: 9 years ago

Hi Nancy

So whom would I choose eh? Still not fully awake yet..so nothing you wrote above has registered fully..

But impulsively the first person that came to mind when I read the title is LALLA JI..

Arrey why not?

His wife is either busy with her kitty parties, or applying matching matching nail colours,or trying to instill some scene into Vandy and of lately been serving Bhaisaheb a lot :P

Vaise bhi Lallaji & me have things in common..love for food, music, jokes around..even the body types match..What else do I need? ;)

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indranigupta

@indranigupta

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Artist_Forever
Correction in Aditya :
- He's not intruding
- He's only unaware and we can judge him only when he KNOWS of Shraman
- Lies : He didn't lie! Even we don't know the truth. And why can't we appreciate him for doing what Shravan couldn't - make Sumo accept the papers!

I won't judge him right now, there's time to analyse him as a character. He has just entered the circus and it'll take him sometime to gauge issues

And as for a life partner, I don't want either of them😆

Sorry I disagree

His lies were so mean and cruel that it tore one's heart...

He went up ahead to Shravan and said you are not the special one...I am

Is that mark of a good person with a sound heart..am sorry

Sumo has often said that the boundaries between them cannot be broken...yet, he intrudes

Secondly, he said he is an observant man and yet, he has not understood anything of SS relationship

Am sorry i do not buy it...

He told Suman what she wanted to hear...why not tell Shravan the same thing about investors? He said to Nirmala that he gave her gift but to Sumo he told it was a business proposal

This is lying and using the weakness of others for his own benefit

Edited by indranigupta - 9 years ago

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Winterbear

@Winterbear

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Posted: 9 years ago

Neither , both r VERY immature.

Edited by ..BlueBird.. - 9 years ago

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nancyrio90

@nancyrio90

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: indranigupta

Sorry I disagree
His lies were so mean and cruel that it tore one's heart...
He went up ahead to Shravan and said you are not the special one...I am
Is that mark of a good person with a sound heart..am sorry
Sumo has often said that the boundaries between them cannot be broken...yet, he intrudes
Secondly, he said he is an observant man and yet, he has not understood anything of SS relationship
Am sorry i do not buy it...
He told Suman what she wanted to hear...why not tell Shravan the same thing about investors? He said to Nirmala that he gave her gift but to Sumo he told it was a business proposal
This is lying and using the weakness of others for his own benefit

Yes of course he is lying... intentions we know as to get close to sumo so can't say his character is not yet evealed

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Ammy

@--Amulya--

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Posted: 9 years ago

Its not about the characteristic traits what matters to me... I think I'll marry the person with whom I feel the eternal connection... I would definitely marry the person I love irrespective of how he is and I would believe my choice. Probability of having your love to reciprocate your feelings is minimal, so I would term myself lucky to find such complete love. The two persons you compared aren't either too good or too bad, they're somewhat greyish and I don't usually compare anything in life as everything is unique in its own way...

Edited by --Amulya-- - 9 years ago

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Spnfan

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Posted: 9 years ago

Except for the mcp part shravan is a great guy if ypu know how to handle him... He has been.a.great friend to sumo but right now his feelings for her.and.past experience over shadowed it... Only.true friends.will go against their family and help yoi when you need tuem the most.. Shravan did that during khosla case... He is an intense person and both shraman are.eqaully responsible for shravan's outburst... Once he starts loving them.he.is.incapable of hating them..

He still dont.hate his mother... He is extremly disappointed in her fpr not even once looking back at him for 10 years... You can definitely trust a guy like shravam with your life if yoy prove yourself to be trust worthy to him...

In real life.i would never be with a guy like aditya.. He is too cheesy for my type... Like shravan he also dont see others pov... He get.involved in.other's personl matter eveb after being warned... He told different.lie to shrman and nirmala.. He told sumo that he was just bwing a mediator b/w th. Investors and her and said he is not.doing any help just doing business, told shravan she.took.his help from him and now he is more.special to her even after sumo.clearly said she consider him.just a friend not even a close.one, told nirmala thar sumo accepted hi GIFT but didnt tell her.how he made her accept.it... In the real world he is the kind.of guys who thinks that a girl's.no.means yes and follow them.like a creep... For him its more like making sumo his by hook.or by crook and.dont.give a damn about how the.girl feels...