Is Dev Right?

This question has been running through my mind from quite a few episodes . Dev claims to completly understand her mother but can he understand her emotions? Ishwari is not evil but a very emotional mother and a very posessive one. Dev should b the first one to understand that her mother is quite QUITE fond of him . Was it right on his part to ask Sona to come to shopping with him? He clearly knows that her mother is always looking forward to spend ALONE time with , it is a kind of routine for them to go out on shopping one day and eat ixecream and spend time alone.. . I was completly astonished that he left Ishwari alone and went to Sonakshi when she was selecting bedsheets. I know he is experiencing love first time but her mother? She is always waiting for JUST dev. Is it right for him to just all of a sudden change so much ? I have noticed that Dev usually use to spend some time with her in the night but now we see Ishwari sitting alone and Dev drinking coffee with Sonakshi. What about that mother who use to wait for his son to come home and talk about his day to day life. Although i completly dont sympathize with Ishwari but i do feel a little bit bad for her. I actually kind of had a insight into her heart when she shared her feelings to her brother after Neha"s marriage. Ishwari doesnt have a better half and she is now habitual to share all those feelings with Dev that she should've shared with her husband. Ishwari actually is normal with Sonakshi untill or unless Dev ignores his normal routine with his mother and instead go to Sona. She isnt quite devilishly bitter to Sona..

He only understands what she says or shows on her face . He does t really know whatbis going on in her head. He will take thibgs by the face value. Thats why ishwari has to act all crazy to get his attention and get him to confess..

He is a simple innocent guy who says what is in his heart. He doesnt feel on thibg and say something else.

One big assumption he made which is going to turn his world up side down is that his mother will be happy if he is happy. He wanted her to bond with sona and love sona and appreciate sona like he does. He thought his mom will be proud of his choice. But poor fellow doesn't understand that appearances are deceptive

Balacing betwen sona and ishwari is what this show is going to teach him. As of now he doesnt know that and he has to go throught the learning process. He and his mom both

From begining he is burdened with responsibilities. ..he could never enjoy his childhood. .he had to sacrifice his wishes ,his childhood for his family ...when he has provided everything for his family. .he wants to be little carefree. ..but even now he is a responsible son and a brother ..he has never ignored his mom or his sisters...when you are newly in love you tend to spend more time with your patner..that's natural ..with time that phase will pass and he will learn to balance ...he hardly spent 30mins in a day with Sona...he is mostly in office ...