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Posted: 9 years ago
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She will be getting married with Dev, not his khandan. Right?
I dont believe in daily soap nonsense like 'shadi do khandan ka milan hain' etc

Marriage is deal between only 2 people. Period

I want sona to accept dev, if his family remain same manerless after marriage, I want sona to demand to live in seperate house.

I really dont want sona to prove herself perfect bahu, she's more perfect than entire dixit family. She just needs to take stand for herself if things remain same for long.

No way she should reject Dev
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: The.Lannister

We have the rich looking down on the poor/ middle class in almost all shows. For once I would like the educated & cultured people (Bose & Sona) to look down on the uneducated & ill mannered lot (GKB, Ishwari) & actually condemn their classless behaviour...but without losing their own dignity.

SO true ! I would love to see Asha rejecting Ishwari's proposal due to their behavior.. Or if not rejecting, at least asking for some more time to think about it.. It would feel SO refreshing and good to see an educated family protesting against the crap of rich filthy people and showing the difference on their face And for Bose family, I have 100000% confidence that they would never misbehave with anyone without any reason🤢

Originally posted by: Push-pull

I would really love to see the Boses' family not accepting the Dixits' readily... Sona is worthy of a good valuable family.. Not someone who thinks money can buy everything... And just because the Dixits' are well off that shouldn't mean the Bose family falls for them immediately... I really would love Asha to sense something which Sona isn't sensing yet...


And I really want Sona to sense it soon enough to stop coming to this house like it's her own.. When Natasha can walk in that house with all smiles and rightfully, what's this girl doing out there with her head lowered and given no courtesy by anyone at all...

I wanted them all to be happy for having this girl as part of Dev's life... Shocked sure they can be.. But traumatized??!!

@ Bold - YES FREAKING yes ! 😡
Like I said, I want Asha to put the talks on hold for sometime if and when Dixit Family approaches them realizing their mistake.. 🥱 Would be PERFECT, and would give good opportunity to Dixit to introspect and they would get Karma points too 😆

Originally posted by: gemini54

I love this topic. Why is acceptance in our society only about the Groom/Boy/Man. Marriage is a bonding of two people and two families so why no importance given for the girls side acceptance?. Is Man side family acceptance enough?

This was my first and foremost point.. Why is it always about Boy's family accepting/rejecting the poor girl ??? 😡 If I were at Sona's place, being an educated, modern girl with good family values, I would take my own time to accept this proposal and say yes to them even if I love the boy from this family.. And if I dont, my family will surely highlight this behavior when marriage talks will happen
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I hope dev became Ghar jamai in bose house they will give more love to him than his so called family ever give to him. They don't deserve sona in fact they don't deserve dev at all.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Slow clap... I LOVE this post !

all your points are so valid. Sona is more higher educated that ALL the Dixit girls. She should not be treated like a lower being. Mama ji was right, if Ishwari didn't like Sonakshi, she should have said so ! Not sit and brood about it.

I really like Asha and Dadi Bose. They are well mannered, well spoken gentlemanly women (sic). When she overheard Sona worrying about being accepted, she immediately started worrying about whether those people in Dixit house will treat Sona well as a Bahu. She is very vocal of her opinions and I really hope the writers continue to write her as a complete opposite of Ishwari.

You guys know what will make it worse? If Dev goes to pacify the Bose family, bonds with Asha. Take her advice and maturity as example. Then you'll see Ishwari's BP hitting the roof...

I hope Asha put her foot down for her daughter. Not like the usual, ladki wale submissive types.

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