Tum Ek Dusre Ko Bahoth Jano...Important Hai Mere Liye!!

Originally posted by: sajinifaby

Dear All,

Am married and i have a similar MIL like Ishwari...My husband is mama's boy and care nothing for my feelings whenever she creates an issue peeche se ofcourse..In most cases, we see a coward son/husband who do not try to make an attempt to bring a right balance between the 2 most important ladies...of their lives. They are not at all honest to their mothers, and extra blunt to their wives. Is that fair, just coz the 2 are not able to bring an equilibrium to their new relation SAAS-BAHU. This drifts everyone from each other and the relation become hollow.

Today I really loved the way CVs are highlighting this line time and again through Dev to both Sonakshi n Ishwari Ma...and the importance of this for a good n healthy relation... Thank you so much for this brave attempt 👏👏👏 - Please do not feel bad if you get a lot of critics today, as this is a rarest of the rare attempt I have seen on Indian Telly Industry or even Bollywood.

Am sure the forum will be behind Dev today also... kya pagal hai ye ladka.. what the hell is he doing? creating more n more problems... But trust me gals n guys.. DEV for ONCE is NOT WRONG.The only mistake he is doing is he trust his mother blindly and that he truly understands his mother especially that she is honest to him no matter what and that's where he is a nincompoop. Remember, he told Sona once while he was dancing.. all gals are confusing (his sisters mainly).. but in that his mother was never there in his list. The one who is behaving totally rude and insincere is his mother and not Dev. All his attempts are for creating opportunities to and for the benefit of the 3... and it is going futile only due to Ishwari's rebel n stubborn nature not to accept anyone between him and her.

I so very wish all boys/lover guys/husbands take this seriously.. how important it is for both of their ladies to gel well for the harmony of the home and his life.

Do like n Share your views...

Love,

Sajini

Originally posted by: flat_everest

agree completely with every word.. have been dere. done dat myself..never my husband takes a stand when me and MIL are loggerheads , but seeing a guy genuinely trying to make his mom and his GF as future BFF has made me love Dev dixit more..

who says he is tubelight yar.. he is d most practical person.. he even said as relationship changes things will changeand we need to accept it..!!!!

if only the emotional ladies in his life too understand

neha can only knock sense in mummy dearest .. pls neha do it!!


max when things go worse, he will get back into his cocooned mode.. back to rude dixit

is it why shaheer is still unkempt? whatsoever the most romantic proposal is gonna take the shape of a heart break.. sona ka pata nahi, we are all gonna lose it!!!!!

Originally posted by: sajinifaby

Thanks dear i totally agree with you.. this is the best line ever a guy has said... and his attempts are praise worthy...

ur right that he will be cocooned back to being Obodro n

about reiterating about the best proposal .. it will b the heart break one that he will walk away from this relation not to hurt Sona more..and will hurt him for all the wrong...coz he cannot see his mother fail... this is quite visible now...😭😭😭

Originally posted by: gmgi

Saj first and formost a🤗. It is not an easy thing to open up in a public forum. These thing should be brought to attention and instead of sugar coating it the CV's have given us a story that is so close to reality. Appreciate their efforts and also for you for sharing it with us.👏

Originally posted by: flat_everest

" sab kuch teek karne ki kosish karta hoon, but sab galat ho jata hai"- dev has always enjoyed this at home..

pity that soul


so true.. i just hope he braves himself and tells her how much he loves her that he cant hurt her anymore.. just as brave as his confession.. or else there ll b no point..

yeh mummy k fall wali logic mere understanding se bahar hai

kash is forum m ek MIL hoti jo humko samja sakhe k aunty k problem hai kya??

PS: discussing abt dev losing out on sona here and seeing ur anant DP.. how ironical.. but still nice